Pleasure Mechanics

All of your senses can be sources of erotic pleasure. Some of us experience more charge, more arousal from one sense above the rest. It is traditionally thought that men are more turned on by visual stimulation, and women are more aroused by touch.

Truly, we are all sensual individuals, and can experience arousal from all of our senses. It is useful to pay attention to your own arousal patterns and notice what turns you on most quickly.

Is visual stimulation crucial to your arousal, or is it just the same with the lights out? Does the sound of your partner's heavy breathing give you a buzz? Or perhaps you notice the unique smell of your lover every time you brush by one another? Noticing which of your senses are turned on can help you cultivate more pleasure in your life.

Meanwhile, you can choose to develop the senses that you don't pay much attention to. If you become aware of your senses in your day to day life, you will have more erotic pleasure available to you. If you realize that you don't experience much eroticism from your sense of smell, for example, you can choose to notice more smells in your world. Literally, take the time to stop and smell the roses! Smell your food before you eat. If you have a lover, drink in their own unique smell.

Savor the sensuality of your everyday life - experiencing small pleasures throughout the day takes practice, but brings great rewards.