Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com How To Touch Every Inch of Your Lover's Body Fri, 17 May 2013 13:53:03 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 Join The Pleasure Mechanics for open and honest conversations about sex and sexuality. Your hosts Chris and Charlotte have been professional sex educators for over 10 years, focusing on erotic touch techniques and couples massage. They share their expert sex advice and proven strategies so you can experience more sexual pleasure. Listeners are welcome to submit questions to be answered on the show, and no topic is off limits! Pleasure Mechanics yes Pleasure Mechanics info@pleasuremechanics.com info@pleasuremechanics.com (Pleasure Mechanics) Expert sex advice, practical strategies and proven techniques for more sexual pleasure. Join The Pleasure Mechanics for candid conversations about sexuality and pleasure. sex, sexuality, sex advice, sexual health, orgasm, relationships Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/SOSPodcastCover1.jpg http://www.pleasuremechanics.com TV-MA How To Have Anal Sex http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/how-to-have-anal-sex/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-have-anal-sex http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/how-to-have-anal-sex/#comments Fri, 17 May 2013 12:16:58 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=900 Ready to learn how to have anal sex that is highly arousing, pain-free and profoundly intimate? You are not alone!

Anal stimulation can be a highly pleasurable, intensely orgasmic part of any woman’s sexuality – yet many women fear or resist anal play. Most of the time, this is for one of two reasons. Primarily, many women have had painful prior experience with anal stimulation because it was not done with proper technique and care. In addition, many women have shame or fear about this part of the body.

Anal sex is not widely known for bringing women to orgasms – most people think of it as painful or uncomfortable, something to be endured to give the male partner pleasure. This is not what anal has to be like! This handbook reveals the truth about anal: that it can be 100% pleasurable for women, 100% of the time. Anal sex can be wildly erotic and profoundly intimate  – and we are here to guide you.

How To Have Anal Sex: Resources

How to Have Anal SexOur book, The Pleasure Mechanics Handbook on Anal Sex, covers all the basic information and techniques you need to explore anal stimulation with your lover. We also share the opinions and wisdom of the many women who responded to our survey on anal play. If you are more of a visual learner or are ready to master your anal stimulation skills, check out our video guide, The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Anal Play for Women.  The book and the video work beautifully together to give you all the information and skills you need to enjoy anal stimulation as part of your sex life. With these resources, you will soon be equipped to experience a lifetime of hot, powerful, intimate and deeply satisfying anal play.

Want to explore anal stimulation for men? Check out our video Guide to Prostate Massage or the book version, The Pleasure Mechanics Handbook on Pleasurable Prostate Massage.

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Foot Fetish Photography

 Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Foot Massage

Ed Fox Photography Books by Taschen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Foot Fetish Photography from Ed Fox

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Foot Fetish Photography

Used by Permission from Taschen

 

]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/foot-fetish/feed/ 0 foot fetish, foot worship, feet fetish, foot sex, feet sex, toe sucking, kinky, fetish, sex advice, sex, sexuality An intimate conversation with a foot fetishist. Foot fetish is one of the most common fetishes amongst men, and yet the feet are often ignored in our conversations about sexuality. In this episode we have an intimate conversation with a self-proclaimed foot fetishist who shares explicit details about why feet turn him on, the erotic power of the human foot and how everyone can enjoy more sensation and arousal by including the feet during sex. It becomes clear that, far from an eccentric fetish, the feet are an integral and highly sensitive part of the erotic body, and anyone can learn how to enjoy more pleasure from feet. From a relaxing foot massage to bondage and kinky stimulation, this episode covers foot sex from every angle. Pleasure Mechanics yes 40:19 Penis and Vulva Tattoo http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/penis-and-vulva-tattoo/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=penis-and-vulva-tattoo http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/penis-and-vulva-tattoo/#comments Thu, 09 May 2013 01:15:03 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=874 For curious minds, here is an image of Chris’ back tattoos, based on the anatomy of the male and female pelvic floor muscles. Charlotte delights in telling people about Chris’ “penis tattoo” or “tattoo of two assholes” so here they are. Chris got the tattoos out of a deep commitment to the beauty and power of human genital anatomy.

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]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/penis-and-vulva-tattoo/feed/ 0 Sex Culture, Erotica & Fantasy: A Conversation with Rachel Kramer Bussel http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/best-sex-writing-2013/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=best-sex-writing-2013 http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/best-sex-writing-2013/#comments Tue, 07 May 2013 15:54:40 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=868 BSW13

Sex writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel joins us on our podcast, Speaking of Sex, to discuss sex culture, fantasy and the transformational power of erotica.

She is the editor of over 40 volumes of erotica, and most recently Best Sex Writing 2013.

Best Sex Writing 2013 is a collection of non-fiction essays about sexuality and sex culture. Edited by the prolific sex writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel, this book is a must-read for anyone who is curious about sexuality as a culture force. This book welcomes the reader into dozens of sex communities, subcultures and identities. It will make you think about sexuality in a broader and expanded way, and provoke meaningful conversations.

The essays in this book cover some issues that are both of the moment and perennial issues in sex culture: condoms in porn use, prostitution laws and polyamory. Other chapters reveal the intersection of the highly personal and political forces of sexuality: a submissive shares about her experience as a wife and mother, a gay man allows you inside the cruising zones of anonymous sex, you get to hear about a polyamorous disaster on Fire Island.

If you want to stimulate your largest sex organ – your brain – grab a copy of this book and let yourself explore the spectrum of human sexual experience. You’ll find it as enriching as it is exciting.

 

]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/best-sex-writing-2013/feed/ 0 sex, sex advice, erotica, fantasy, Rachel Kramer Bussel, sex culture, talk about sex What does editing 40+ volumes of erotica teach you about human sexuality? We ask sex writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel about her perspectives on sex culture, fantasy and the power of erotica. To celebrate the publication of Best Sex Writing 2013, a collection of non-fiction writing about sexuality and sex culture, we talked with editor Rachel Kramer Bussel. She has edited over 40 volumes of erotica and has been deeply involved in the sex field for many years. We talked about the transformational power of reading erotica, the separation of fantasy and desire, and how talking about sex can change the world. Pleasure Mechanics yes 36:35 Does Penis Size Matter? http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/does-penis-size-matter/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=does-penis-size-matter http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/does-penis-size-matter/#comments Thu, 09 May 2013 01:05:18 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=873 Is my penis too big? Is my penis too small? My penis is curved, is that normal? How can I make my penis bigger? Help my penis is shrinking!

These are just some of the emails we get every single day. Men have so much anxiety about their penis size, shape and appearance – and all of that anxiety creates a big distraction from the real goal of becoming a better lover and experiencing more pleasure.

In this episode, we tackle the penis size question from many angles, addressing all the questions that men worry about when it comes to their penis size.

If you’ve ever had a worry about penis size, this is a must-listen episode!

More Episodes of the Speaking of Sex Podcast

Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Prostate Massage

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Handjobs

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Butt Massage

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Fingering

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Cunnilingus

Want to see Chris’ penis tattoo?

]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/does-penis-size-matter/feed/ 0 sex, sex advice, penis, penis size, does size matter, big penis, small penis, micropenis, normal penis size, average penis size, internal penis All things size related: Does size matter? How big is too big? How to please with a small penis? How to get a bigger penis! What dildos teach us about what women want. Plus, the mystery of the disappearing penis, solved! Is my penis too big? Is my penis too small? My penis is curved, is that normal? How can I make my penis bigger? Help my penis is shrinking! These are just some of the emails we get every single day. Men have so much anxiety about their penis size, shape and appearance - and all of that anxiety creates a big distraction from the real goal of becoming a better lover and experiencing more pleasure. In this episode, we tackle the penis size question from many angles, addressing all the questions that men worry about when it comes to their penis size. If you've ever had a worry about penis size, this is a must-listen episode! Pleasure Mechanics yes 28:03 Sharing Your Desires With A Defensive Partner http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/sharing-your-desires-with-a-defensive-partner/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sharing-your-desires-with-a-defensive-partner http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/sharing-your-desires-with-a-defensive-partner/#comments Fri, 03 May 2013 22:09:18 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=865 Sometimes, spicing things up in a long term relationship isn’t so easy. What happens when your requests to try something new in the bedroom are met with hostility and anger? In this episode, we offer some advice to a listener who wants to try new things and improve her sex life, but when she asks for what she wants her husband becomes defensive. We suggest some erotic communication aikido to transform the situation into an opportunity for more connection and intimacy, while keeping her own boundaries intact and respecting her needs and desires.

Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

The Fantasy Method

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]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/sharing-your-desires-with-a-defensive-partner/feed/ 0 sex, sex advice, desire, fantasy, long term relationship, spice up marriage, marriage sex, sex podcast, sex advice podcast, We help a listener who wants to spice things up with her husband, but is met with defensive anger when she asks for what she wants. Learn how to tend to your partner's ego while asking for what you want. Sometimes, spicing things up in a long term relationship isn't so easy. What happens when your requests to try something new in the bedroom are met with hostility and anger? In this episode, we offer some advice to a listener who wants to try new things and improve her sex life, but when she asks for what she wants her husband becomes defensive. We suggest some erotic communication aikido to transform the situation into an opportunity for more connection and intimacy, while keeping her own boundaries intact and respecting her needs and desires. Pleasure Mechanics no 19:18 How To Have A Threesome http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/how-to-have-a-threesome/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-have-a-threesome http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/how-to-have-a-threesome/#comments Thu, 25 Apr 2013 00:49:41 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=855 Want to explore a threesome with your lover – while keeping your relationship intact? We share how to have a threesome while minimizing the risk to your twosome! Many couples want to explore having a sexy threesome – it is one of the most common fantasies for both men and women. If you are ready to take the plunge, do so with caution. We share lots of strategies to make sure you communicate about both your desires and boundaries, find the right person and have a sexy, hot and safe threesome! If you are ready to have a Ménage à Trois with your partner, make sure to listen in to maximize the odds of having a great experience.

Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

T is for Threesome

How To Have a Threesome

]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/how-to-have-a-threesome/feed/ 0 how to have a threesome, threesome, Ménage à Trois, sex threesome, threesome husband, threesome wife, threesome fantasy, sex, sexuality, sex advice How to make the threesome fantasy a reality, while keeping your relationship intact! We share lots of strategies for a successful, hot threesome. Want to explore a threesome with your lover - while keeping your relationship intact? We share how to have a threesome while minimizing the risk to your twosome! Many couples want to explore having a sexy threesome - it is one of the most common fantasies for both men and women. If you are ready to take the plunge, do so with caution. We share lots of strategies to make sure you communicate about both your desires and boundaries, find the right person and have a sexy, hot and safe threesome! If you are ready to have a Ménage à Trois with your partner, make sure to listen in to maximize the odds of having a great experience. Resources Mentioned In This Episode: T is for Threesome Pleasure Mechanics yes 29:02 Sex Toys and Tools http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/sex-toys-and-tools/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sex-toys-and-tools http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/sex-toys-and-tools/#comments Fri, 27 Apr 2012 15:14:10 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://newpleasure.wpengine.com/?p=73

There are hundreds of high quality sex toys and tools available to experiment with.

Toys can help you create more pleasure, both solo and with your lover.

These vibrators, dildos, butt toys and prostate toys can help you stimulate new parts of your sexual anatomy, experience a wider range of sensations and play with sexuality in new ways.

Check out sites like Babeland.com or GoodVibes.com to find extensive buyer’s guides for toys that add more fun and variety to your sex life.

But remember – toys are supplements to high-quality touch, not a replacement for learning sexual techniques!

 

The Pleasure Mechanics Dos and Don’ts When Using Sex Toys and Tools

 

DO purchase toys from a reputable company that selects products based on quality and craftsmanship

DON’T purchase sex toys that are intended as “gag gifts” or “novelties”

DO spend time thinking about what kinds of sensation you want more of, and buy toys that will enhance your experience

DON’T buy toys just because they look good – ultimately, you want a toy collection that will help you have better sex, not pretty accessories.

DO start small when purchasing dildos, butt plugs or anything insertable – you can always get larger sizes and work your way up

DO buy high-quality silicone toys if your budget permits. Silicone is smoother and healthier for your body than latex or vinyl.

DO consider glass dildos and wands – they won’t break and can provide a nice, weighty, smooth surface.

 

Where To Find Quality Sex Toys

We don’t sell sex toys – but our friends do!

Babeland.com

Goodvibes.com

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This page may contain affiliate links, allowing our friends in the sex toy biz to support PleasureMechanics.com. We only write about and link to products that we have personally reviewed and would use ourselves! For men’s sex toys, we work with fabulous male testers and our expertise of the male body! 

]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/sex-toys-and-tools/feed/ 0 Am I Addicted to My Vibrator? http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/addicted-to-vibrator/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=addicted-to-vibrator http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/addicted-to-vibrator/#comments Fri, 19 Apr 2013 19:23:04 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=842 Can a woman get addicted to her vibrator? Do vibrators cause numbness and desensitization of the clitoris? We tackle this tricky topic as we answer the question of a woman who can’t seem to orgasm without her vibrator. We offer tips and strategies to regain sensitivity and learn how to achieve orgasm from different kinds of stimulation. Hooked on the Hitatchi Magic Wand? You aren’t alone, and there is a way to unplug and gain more sensitivity!

]]> http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/addicted-to-vibrator/feed/ 0 sex, sexuality, orgasm, sex advice, vibrator, vibrator addiction, vibrator dependent We tackle the tricky topic of vibrator dependency and vibrator burn-out as we answer the question of a listener who can only orgasm with her Hitatchi Magic Wand. Can a woman get addicted to her vibrator? Do vibrators cause numbness and desensitization of the clitoris? We tackle this tricky topic as we answer the question of a woman who can't seem to orgasm without her vibrator. We offer tips and strategies to regain sensitivity and learn how to achieve orgasm from different kinds of stimulation. Hooked on the Hitatchi Magic Wand? You aren't alone, and there is a way to unplug and gain more sensitivity! Pleasure Mechanics yes 19:23 Pleasure Mechanics Confessionals http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/pleasure-mechanics-confessionals/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=pleasure-mechanics-confessionals http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/pleasure-mechanics-confessionals/#comments Thu, 18 Apr 2013 14:58:43 +0000 Pleasure Mechanics http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/?p=838 Join us as a guest on our podcast, Speaking of Sex!

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