New To BDSM? How To Start Exploring!

New to BDSM and ready to start exploring? Here is the beginner’s guide to exploring the erotic elements of BDSM so no one gets hurt! We cover the basic definition of BDSM, how to communicate effectively so you get what you want and avoid the emotional pitfalls of exploring the intensity of BDSM with your lover.

Many couples who are new to BDSM make the same mistakes, ending up in hurt feelings, resentment or even physical injury. Yet exploring elements of BDSM offers many benefits to relationships, and if you know how to explore safely, even those new to BDSM can have intense, highly erotic experiences. Discover how to begin your explorations while avoiding the potential of hurting one another. Our expert guidance offers you a simple framework to start getting clear and specific about what you want to explore together, and then start experimenting with one thing at a time so you can find out what works best for you.

While this episode is speaking to those new to BDSM, even experienced players will benefit from listening to our unique take on exploring the intense sensations of BDSM!

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Resources Mentioned In The New To BDSM Episode:

Sexual Fantasy EbookThe Fantasy Method: How To Discover Your Authentic Sexual Desires and Create a Fulfilling Sex Life

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Erotic Spanking