A listener wrote in to share his favorite technique for orgasmic intercourse. This technique brings together many of the strategies we advocate, such as female arousal before penetration, graceful penetration and maintaining clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Listen to the episode to get a play-by-play description of the technique and then try it and see if it works for you!
Here is the original email from Tony:
Comment: No need to reply. Love the show and Please pass this on to your listeners, many of my mates have benefited from it.
I have been married to the same woman now for 23 years. We are very happy and have a active sex life. The reason for this post is to share with you a technique that you may or may not have already stumbled upon. It is a technique that will cause my partner to cum during intercourse without rubbing or playing with any of her buttons. In otherwords, auto-pilot. My wife has always been very orgasmic, however she has never been able to climax by intercourse alone. I always had to rub or lick her clit for this. Now, since we stumbled upon this (why it took 18 years to stumble upon it is beyond me) she cums almost immediately during sex almost every time! She absolutely loves this technique and asks for it all the time. But I don’t always give it more than once maybe twice a week.
Now this is not a new idea at all. I am sure I did not make it up and you may have been doing this all along but I have not. I just stumbled upon it a few years ago. I have been culturing and practicing it to a fine art. It works for me every time and everyone that I have shared this with always ALWAYS tells me a few days afterwards how GREAT it works. I have only had intercourse with one woman in my life, my wife, so I cannot tell you first hand about any other woman’s reaction to this technique but all of my friends, bar none, RAVE about the results.
Here’s how it works.
Get her all hot and bothered with whatever style that will work for you both. Do a bit of foreplay but not too far. You don’t want her to the point of no return just yet. Get on top of her in missionary position ( i know your not keen on that position) start kissing her. When she is begging for insertion, only put the head in very slowly. Then take it out and then put it in again. Only the head. Do this for 3-4 times very slowly. Then put it in about 1 inch more and then out all the way. Do this for 3-4 times very slowly. You MUST resist the urge to bang this her hard even though she will be begging you to at this point. Then go in 1 inch deeper and out all the way 3-4 times again. Now do this, and inch at a time until you are balls deep in this Her. If you and she likes, kiss her and talk dirty to her or what ever would keep her building energy. This will be a very intimate time for both of you so get ready.
Now you are all the way in and she is REALLY turned on. DO NOT start pounding yet. This will come later. Instead start nudging or bumping your partner with your pubic bone ( not the same as the C. A. T. position, but you can transition to it ). Do not withdraw your penis at all. Leave it in all the way. Instead you just keep pushing in pulsations and then letting up, your pube to her pube. In other words, no time will your pubes separate but you put light pressure off and on in a rythym generated by your own hips. Kind of like if you are trying to push a refrigerator across the floor. You don’t take your hands off and then slam them back on, right. In the same way, do not pull your dick out at all. Instead, leave it in all the way and keep nudging in a rythym. I hope I am explaining this correctly because this is the most important part of the technique. Every once in a while, maybe every ten times give her a good strong nudge. This will really drive her crazy! Make her lay still if she can. She may be so hot at this point that she goes crazy, this is ok as well, you can complete the technique next time around if she can’t hold out. But if you can keep that pressure, bone to bone and ride her movements with full contact then she will explode with joy.
Now, if done right, this girl will absolutely go over the edge within just a few moments after insertion. BTW, this is a good technique for all of you Premature Ejaculators because it is a lot easier to keep from cuming because you are not going in and out. You may get scratches on your back, she may scream or cry but it will be probably the biggest orgasm she has ever experienced so get ready for whatever her reaction may be. While she is cuming, just keep up the pushing, nudging motion. When she is done it is your turn to drive it home, or rest and move into the c.a.t. Position for more fun. I am not kidding! It has worked EXACTLY like this for me many dozens of times, and EVERY one of my friends that have tried it.