Pegging

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What Is Pegging?

Pegging is the erotic act of a woman wearing a strap-on dildo and anally penetrating a man. This act, popularized first in the “Bend Over Boyfriend” video series, has been depicted in erotic art throughout history and across cultures. The term “pegging” was coined by sex columnist Dan Savage, who recognized the surging popularity of the act and thought it was time this act had a good name. The term pegging stuck, and it is now one of the most popular fantasies for heterosexual men.

Why Does Pegging Feel Good? 

Pegging can be a highly pleasurable act, for both partners. The anus is one of the most highly sensitive parts of the human body, and many people love the sensations of both external and internal anal stimulation. Some people eroticize the gender play of seeing a woman wear a strap-on and take on the penetrative role in sex. Others just love the sensation of being “filled up” and enjoy the sensations of anal penetration with a strap-on toy.

Many women love the feeling of being in charge, of switching up the roles of intercourse and watching their male lover respond to the sensations of being penetrated. When a strap-on is well fitted and positioned, the base of the dildo grinds into the clitoris and pubic bone, offering pleasurable stimulation with every thrust. There are also harness and dildo models that allow a woman to wear a vibrator, or even a double-ended dildo that allows both partners to be penetrated at the same time.

 How To Get Started With Pegging

Anal penetration is intense and must be taken slowly in order to be pleasurable. If rushed, anal penetration can be painful, leading to lasting injuries. So go slow!

If you are new to anal stimulation, we highly recommend starting with your fingers to begin exploring the external sensations and the slowly proceed to penetration with just one little finger, allowing the slow relaxation and opening of the anal sphincters. Our best advice is to check out our bestselling video Guide To Prostate Massage. This video guides you stroke by stroke through highly pleasurable external and internal stimulation. Once you master the techniques in this video, you will be ready to proceed to penetration with a larger strap-on toy and the full pegging experience, if you so choose.

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Pegging

Pegging Erotic Fiction

We wrote an erotic fiction short story about Pegging, part of our Fantasy A-Z series and available now on Kindle and all devices with the free kindle app! The story is designed to be not only steamy entertainment, but also educational and inspirational, to help you explore this common fantasy and, if you choose, make this desire part of your sexual reality!