Do you feel stuck in your sex life?
Are there roadblocks preventing you from enjoying erotic pleasure and intimacy?
Do you want someone you can talk to completely honestly and without fear of judgment?
We want everyone to have access to pleasure based sex education – that’s why we spend most of our professional time offering a weekly podcast and online courses that are affordable and accessible to all.
But we also love diving deep with individuals and couples to offer personalized, transformative sex coaching sessions. If you want to work directly with us and are ready to invest in making your sex life a priority, individual coaching can create profound sexual transformations in a very brief period of time. Our personal attention can help you unravel very complicated struggles and create a clear path forward towards your goal.
Read through this page – and if you feel like personalized sex coaching is a good fit for you, use the form on this page to be in touch and we’ll respond as soon as possible.
Common issues addressed by sex coaching include:
Pleasure & Orgasms
Inability to have an orgasm, desire for stronger orgasms, exploring multiple orgasms, inability to have orgasm with partner
Desire & Arousal
Loss of libido, mismatched libido, low arousal with partner, distraction or dissociation during arousal
Erections & Ejaculation
Non-medical erectile dysfunction, inability to get erect with partner, inconsistent erections, maintaining erections longer, exploring female ejaculation, male ejaculation control
Sexual Trauma Resolution
Reclaiming pleasure after trauma, Pleasure Anxiety, Inability to feel sensation in the genitals, Disassociation from the body during sex
Feeling disconnected with partner, desire to reconnect after long periods without sex, miscommunication or lack of communication in bedroom, inability to share orgasm with partner, anxiety or stress about sex life with partner
YOU have a unique sexuality and what you are struggling with is probably a combination of many factors. We’ll work together to identify your intentions and desired outcomes for our work together.
Sex coaching works best if you commit to multiple sessions over a period of time. This gives you the opportunity to make lasting changes and meet your goals.
All sessions are held through online video conference – so you can be anywhere in the world!
Sessions are supported through a personalized intake to help us dive deep quickly and a “Next Steps” process, so you can feel confident moving forward after coaching. You’ll also gain access to our online multimedia courses – we’ll curate a selection for you to support your erotic goals.
Sex Coaching Packages:
Individual $597 or Couple $697
- Three 1 hour sessions via online video conference
- Intake Survey & Next Steps Worksheets
- 1 Online Course
Individual $797 or Couple $997
- Five 1 hour sessions via online video conference
- Intake Survey & Next Steps Worksheets
- 2 Online Courses
Individual $1397 or Couple $1697
- Ten 1 hour sessions via online video conference
- Intake Survey & Next Steps Worksheets
- All Access Pass to our Online Courses (a $685 value)
All packages are paid for in advance and are non-refundable (we immediately begin investing time in you as soon as you complete our intake process!) We can help you choose a package based on your situation and goals. Sessions can be added to any package at a discounted rate once we establish our work together.
Due to the high demand on our time, we can not offer discounts for coaching.
If you want to explore working together, contact us via the form below. All information is confidential. We will be in touch with you to see if working together would be a good fit. Cheers!
Frequently Asked Questions About Sex Coaching
Is sex coaching an alternative to sex therapy?
Sex Coaching is NOT Sex Therapy. Coaching focuses on the tools, techniques and strategies that will allow you to have the kind of sex life you desire. Therapy is more issue-focused, talking through the concerns and problems that may be affecting your sexual wellbeing. Therapy is more driven by diagnosis and problem-based solutions. Coaching is about optimizing, developing skills and working with your innate abilities.
Athletic coaches work with individual athletes and teams to help them become the best athletes they can be. Coaches provide motivation and support, but also lay out practice sessions, drills and work-outs to allow the athlete to get stronger, faster, better at their sport. Great coaches support great athletes – no Olympic athlete wins the gold without a trusted coach.
We offer YOU our personalized attention so YOU can create the erotic life you want, one experience at a time. We’ll be there to guide the way, set the drills, unpack your challenges and celebrate your wins.
Can I do sex coaching with my partner?
We can work with you either as an individual or as a couple. We believe every couple is a team, and just like great athletic teams have coaches, your relationships can benefit from our outside perspective and expertise. We can help you become more fulfilled, happier and satisfied with your sex life, or address the struggles that are keeping you apart.
What exactly does this involve?
All of our sessions take place through online video conferencing, with additional communication through email.
We provide confidential support, specific information, expert insight and compassionate motivation to guide you along your path to more pleasure. We also give you specific physical practices (“homework” but a lot more fun!) to help you develop the physical skills that will assist you in your goals.
Sex, just like a sport, is a developed physical skill – both feeling more pleasure and being a better lover require specific skill sets. Many people are frustrated with their sex life, and all they need is to develop one or more skills that will transform the way they experience sex and intimacy.
But sex is also a lot more than a physical act – it is perhaps the most complex social identity we humans have. Your sexuality exists within a BioPsychoSocial framework:
- Bio – your unique human body and all of it’s current abilities and experiences
- Psycho – your mental and emotional landscape, and the impact of every human relationship you’ve ever had
- Social – your specific social context and culture (this piece impacts us FAR more than most realize)
Recognizing the BioPsychoSocial framework can help us unravel the root causes of what you are experiencing and help develop compassion and context for what might feel like a very personal and individual issue.
How long does sex coaching last?
We offer sex coaching in series of three, five or ten sessions. Each session lasts about an hour. We recommend a minimum of one week in between each session. Committing to a series of sessions allows you to make significant changes and reach your erotic goals.
If you believe you can benefit from sex coaching, please contact us using the form on this page. This information is sent securely to our private email and will always be confidential. We will contact you with 1-3 business days to explore together if sex coaching is a good fit for you at this moment in your sex life.
Do Chris and Charlotte work as a team?
We are a team in all we do in life! During your intake process, we will determine together who will be your primary coach based on our individual areas of expertise and availability. To maintain highly personalized attention, we only work with a handful of coaching students at any one time.
One of us will be your primary coach for all video sessions and email contact. But as long as it is ok with you, we may talk about your session together so you can benefit from both Chris and Charlotte’s knowledge and wisdom.
My sexual struggles feel complex – How do we decide what to focus on during coaching?
Before your first session you will complete an intake survey that maps out what is going on in your sex life and what you want to explore together.
In our first session, we will talk more about what you would like to work on, explore the details of where you are now and your goals for our work together. Together we will develop a game plan, including one or more physical practices for you to explore on your own time. We will then email you follow-up information and resources.
In each session, we will explore what happened as you tried out the physical practices since the last session. You can share with us exactly what happened, ask questions or address the outcome of the practices. We will then develop a new game plan that builds on your success from the first session.
In between coaching sessions you can email us at anytime with questions, progress reports or success stories! The more you communicate with us the more insight we’ll gain and the better advice and guidance we can offer.
Three to ten sessions is often enough to give you the skills and strategies to continue to explore on your own. If you wish, additional sessions can be booked to continue your progress or explore another goal.
What are the Pleasure Mechanics online courses?
All sex coaching packages include a personalized selection of our online, multimedia Erotic Mastery Courses. Our online courses offer effective, efficient strategies for more sexual pleasure and erotic intimacy. From Full Body Massage to Erotic Spanking, from Mindful Sex to Kink, our courses cover a wide range of sexual skills. We’ll help you pick out which courses would be best for your specific sexual goals. Then you’ll have lifetime access to interactive resources, audio and video guides to assist you in mastering new sexual skills.
Note: Our courses can always be purchased individually – if you aren’t ready for a full coaching package, but are ready to start exploring a new sexual adventure, our online courses are for you. We respond to your questions in the comments section of the courses, and you can benefit from our dialogues with the rest of the community. Think of it like an online group workshop! Explore the Pleasure Mechanics Online Courses here.
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