Q&A: Is Frequent Masturbation Harmful?

Q: i am masturbating right from my adolescence and that too 2-3 times a day.
i want to know that what are the harmful effects of  frequent masturbating.

A:

Thanks for being in touch.

We are not doctors so can not provide medical advice. If you are having any pain or medical issues please see a doctor.
What we CAN tell you is that there are NO harmful side effects to frequent masturbation, and the rate you describe is completely normal for a man your age. If it feels good and is energizing you, don’t worry and enjoy! Pleasure is good for you!
If you are getting bored or numbing out you might want to check out new techniques to gain more mastery over your arousal. Start here: http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/tag/edging/
Thanks for being in touch!
Christine

Q&A: My boyfriend wants to spank me!

My BF wants to spank me (all new to me) how can I make it a hot experience for him? – Strawberry Girl

Hey Sweet Strawberry Girl,

Thanks so much for being in touch, I was especially happy to get your email as I set down for a writing session on our next book – which will be about spanking! so the short answer is, we are working on it! are you on our newsletter to hear about our new projects? Update: The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Erotic Spanking is now available!
I noticed you asked about making it hot for him – what about making it hot for you? Ideally, that is an essential ingredient for him enjoying the experience, is your pleasure in it. make sure you are into receiving this kind of sensation, and make requests that will make it hot for you. what kind of attitude do you want him to bring to it? is it a “punishment” or just something hot to get you both excited? how hard do you want it? how will you communicate about intensity while you are in the midst of the exploration? I’m finding myself rewriting the book here so I’ll just leave you with those teaser questions, and an invitation – is there anything really specific you want to know – either about communication or technique? if so, just let me know and I’ll try to either send you that section of the book – or write it just for you!
cheers, and hope you enjoy one another! if you haven’t already, consider checking out our butt massage video, it is our favorite form of foreplay and warm-up for spanking!
let me know if I can answer any specifics, and thanks again for checking out our site and being in touch!
cheers
Chris

My boyfriend wants to spank me!

 

Q&A: I want to date Christian Grey!

Where would one go to find “Christian Grey” like guys? Fancy Restaurants? Coffee shops? Downtown? I guess what I mean, is where do you look or find rich handsome guys? – Maribel

Hey there,

I wish of course I could match make you with the man of your dreams, but that is beyond the scope of my skills.
I would emphasize, however, that there may be more important qualities than wealth – this emphasis in the book troubles us as sex educators. The worst lovers we have met have been the wealthiest – often way more obsessed with their bottom line instead of their lover’s bottom.
It is also essential for a woman’s health and safety to have financial independence. So income of your partner should be closer to yours than not, in order to not endanger yourself. This is a complicated issue but trust your instinct on it.
Go deeper into Christian’s character and ask yourself what you are really craving. Then deliberately start calling that into your life, seeking that quality out in the men you meet.
All my best, thanks for being in touch.
May you meet guys that fulfill you in all the right ways,
Chris
PleasureMechanics.com
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