Need up to date information about birth control? Head over to Planned Parenthood. We are experts in pleasure – they are experts in your sexual health and wellbeing.
Here is a timeline of the history of birth control from Planned Parenthood Action. We are so grateful for all those who have struggled to gain more reproductive freedom and choice.
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Want to be a sexual athlete? Or maybe an erotic artist? Or perhaps you just want to have better sex.
If you want to improve your sex life and experience extraordinary pleasure, you have to dedicate yourself to practicing new sexual skills. Learning new skills doesn’t have to be boring, clinical or unromantic. It can in fact be a beautiful expression of love and devotion!
In this podcast, we explore what great lovers and pro athletes have in common, and we invite you to join the exclusive club of sexual athlete and artists!
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Rough sex is one of the most common sexual fantasies for men and women alike.
Rough sex isn’t violent! Violence is about the intent to harm. Rough sex is all about pleasure! Rough sex means amping up the intensity in order to create more extreme sensations and to feel the power of your bodies coming together.
There is a huge spectrum of rough sex – from mild to wild. In this podcast episode, we share how to get started in your rough sex explorations, without risking your health, safety or relationship.
Far too many people let rough sex stay in their fantasy alone: here is how to get started with exploring rougher sex!
One of the best ways to explore rough sex is erotic spanking. If you want to master the skills of spanking your lover for intense pleasure, check out our comprehensive online course: Erotic Spanking Mastery.
Violet Blue’s The Ultimate Guide To Sexual Fantasy is an encyclopedia of sexual fantasies – both common and obscure. Use it to prime your erotic imagination or to discover fantasies you never knew you had!
We hear from so many women who say “I just don’t know what I want in bed!” If that sounds like something you might say, be sure to check out this book for 200+ pages of ideas to inspire you.
Once you’ve zeroed in on a few fantasies that peak your interest, check out Violet Blue’s pointers on how to get started exploring, alone or with a lover. Because the book covers so many different fantasies, none of the how-to advice is extensive, but it is enough to get you started or help you flesh out your ideas of what you’d like to try.
Violet Blue writes that “sexual fantasies truly are Mother Nature’s 100 percent natural, guaranteed aphrodisiac” and encourages you to explore freely to find what might turn you on. Her relaxed attitude about everything from erotic role playing to more extreme fetishes will help you explore corners of the sexual galaxy you may have once considered beyond your scope. Read this book cover to cover and you’ll find your erotic horizons expanded, sometimes in directions you were least expecting.
Here at PleasureMechanics.com we invite you to maintain a strict boundary between fantasy and desire. Fantasy is the realm of your erotic imagination, where anything is possible and there are no real-world limitations or consequences. Desire is what you actually want to make happen in your real life. Creating this distinction gives you permission to enjoy limitless sexual fantasy, where you can explore and discover what turns you on. It also helps you determine your actual desires so you can take steps to create the sex life you really want.
This book can help you expand your idea of what is sexually possible – and once you do, we’ll be here to guide you every step of the way as you create the sex life of your dreams. Happy exploring!
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Is your cell phone ruining your relationship? It may be a much bigger threat to your love life than you know. In this podcast, we talk about how smartphones can threaten your most intimate relationships, and offer strategies for using technology to enhance your love life.
Science has only just begun studying the long term effects of ever-on internet and smartphones. The initial findings indicate that the more you use your cell phone (especially in the presence of your loved ones) the less happy you’ll be and the lonelier you will feel. People are starting to report feeling jealous of their lover’s cell phones – JEALOUS of a 5 inch computer!
Ultimately, what is at stake is nothing less than our relationships and happiness. If you don’t take active steps to use technology to your advantage, it may have long term negative impact on what is most important to you.
So listen in and let’s get real about the relationship between technology and intimacy! We invite you to become master of your own domain, rather than a servant to the cruel mistress of your smartphone!