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Safer Sexier Oral Play with Melanie Cristol

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Join us to explore how to enjoy safer sexier oral play in this Pleasure Mechanics interview with CEO and founder of Lorals, Melanie Cristol.

  • Add Lorals to your Pleasure Toolbox for safer, sexier oral play! Use the code PLEASURE_MECHANICS for 10% off your order
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Ready to uplevel your experience of oral? Join our Oral Mastery Course for an immersive, experiential course in oral pleasure for all bodies!

More About Lorals:

Lorals has revolutionized oral sex. Slip into their silky latex lingerie and have carefree, uninhibited, maximum-pleasure oral every time. Wear Lorals as fetish wear for BDSM and kink, to play with more people at play parties, or wear them to experience oral and rimming without worries – about STIs, scratchy facial hair, period fluids, sensory concerns, dysphoria, or anything that’s holding you back.

Let’s inform ourselves on the basics on oral sex safety so we can make informed choices about where and how we use our mouths!

The bottom line: all oral contact, including kissing, can transmit infections. These STIs include chancroid, cytomegalovirus, gonorrhea, hepatitis A & B, herpes, human papilloma virus (HPV), syphilis, and, more rarely, HIV and chlamydia.

The good news! There are tools to provide protection and many people find exploring these tools opens up new possibilities for oral play!

Lorals are ultra thin sexy sheer latex panties for protection & comfort during oral sex and rimming play.

Unlubricated condoms or flavored condoms can be used for protection during blowjobs – or try non-latex condoms by Skyn for a neutral flavor and try adding a touch of your own favorite flavored lube.

Compassionate Care With Dr. Nazanin Moali

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We all deserve compassionate, culturally relevant care. In this nourishing conversation, we speak with Dr. Nazanin Moali, clinical psychologist & addiction specialist, about how we can all create more empathy and freedom for one another. We talked about how she works with clients from conservative backgrounds to get free from toxic conditioning, without leaving beloved home cultures behind.

Check out Dr. Moali’s Sexology Podcast, her Farsi language podcast Farsi Relationship Academy, and find out more about Dr. Moali’s private practice on her website on Oasis2Care.

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POV: Chris Gets A New Tool

Big thanks to Blush for our new pride inspired dildo! We love the vibrant colors, amazing texture and well sculpted rippling head – Chris couldn’t stop touching it after we unboxed this beauty!

Check out all of Blush’s offerings here and save 20% with the code PLEASURE20 – using this link helps you save on quality toys while supporting our work!

Thanks to our affiliate partners at Blush!

The Erotic Mind Pleasure Salon

Thank you for coming out! We hope to see you at future Pleasure Mechanics Events!

If you want personalized support on your erotic journey, we offer Somatic Sex Coaching in person and online, please reach out to schedule a free exploratory call or meeting. Cheers!

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Downloadable PDF of Handout

Podcasts To Continue The Conversation:

  • Episode 451: Trust Your Yes
  • Episode 409: Getting Off Script
  • Episode 396: Psychogenic Arousal
  • Episode 388: Before Pleasure Comes Safety

Texts Read At Salon:

  • The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin (out of print)
  • Uses of The Erotic: The Erotic As Power by Audre Lorde – or listen to Audre deliver this essay here
  • Feeling & Knowing by Antonio Damasio
  • Hardwiring Happiness by Rick Hanson

The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin

The Erotic Mind: Unlocking The Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin, Ph.D. is one of the most influential books for our work here at Pleasure Mechanics. We were honored to have the late, great Jack Morin as an early mentor and advocate for our work in developing the field of Sexological Bodywork.

The Erotic Mind is unfortunately out of print, so we are sharing quotes generously here on this page so Jack Morin’s wisdom can live on and inspire you as it did us!

“We know far more about which sexual acts people engage in, how often, and with whom, than we know about what makes some of these acts compelling. We are awash in facts and figures, yet relatively little has been written about what sex means for those involved – such as how it enriches their lives or helps them feel better about themselves”

“Eroticism can best be understood as the multifaceted process through which our innate capacity for arousal is shaped, focused, suppressed and expressed.”

“Eroticism is the process through which sex becomes meaningful. The erotic is intricately connected with our hopes, expectations, struggles and anxieties- everything that makes us human.”

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