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Stop Being So Anal

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Stop Being So Anal :: Free Podcast Episode

Stop being so anal!

You are such a tight ass!

These phrases aren’t metaphors: we all have too much anal tension and it gets in the way of our sexual health and pleasure.

In this podcast (hit the play button at the top of the page to listen!) we explore the cause of pelvic tension and how to start getting rid of it.

Anal tension constricts blood flow to the genitals, which weakens erections in both men and women and limits the amount of orgasmic pleasure you can feel.

With a few simple practices and a shift in your attitude, you can start getting rid of excess anal tension.

Listen to the podcast to get started, and then when you are ready to master anal massage check out our Anal Sex Mastery or Prostate Massage Mastery Online Courses.

Urban Tantra on How To Touch

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Urban Tantra on How To Touch

Urban Tantra author Barbara Carrellas shares one of her favorite principles of erotic touch, The Resilient Edge of Resistance. This important concept is all about finding “just right” where the touch is neither too much nor too little. This concept can be applied to many realms of life and is an important philosophical concept for both erotic mastery and spiritual wellness.

You can find Urban Tantra on Amazon.com and visit Barbara online.

Yoni Massage

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Yoni Massage :: Free Podcast Episode

What Is A Yoni?

Yoni is another word for the vulva. Many in the tantra world use it as a word for the vulva. The parallel term for the penis is “lingam.”

What Is A Yoni Massage?

Yoni Massage is an erotic practice that integrates full body massage with erotic stimulation of the vulva. This technique is also called erotic massage.

In erotic massage, the recipient gets to completely relax and receive. The Giver gets the opportunity to lavish all of their attention onto the Receiver’s body. This one-way touch structure allows both people to go deeper into the experience by focusing on just giving or just receiving.

How Does Yoni Massage Work?

First, you create a deep relaxed state in the body through full body massage. This stage can last anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours, depending on how long you have for your experience. The more relaxed the body becomes, the more arousal you can build in the second stage of the yoni massage.

When the Recipient is ready, you can start integrating erotic touch into your massage. Start broadly and slowly focus in. Full guidance and stroke-by-stroke demonstrations are available in our Foreplay Mastery Course.

As you build up erotic stimulation, continue to massage the full body. It is the combination of full body massage with erotic touch that makes this experience so unique.

Does Yoni Massage Always Involve G-Spot Massage?

In some teaching traditions, yoni massage focuses heavily on stimulation of the g-spot. We believe that the g-spot area is just one part of the entire female sexual system, and you can include it as much or as little each time you practice yoni massage. Many people actually prefer focusing on clitoral stimulation instead, or in addition to, g-spot stimulation.

How Does A Yoni Massage End?

You can end a yoni massage by building up arousal to the point of orgasm and then letting her bask in the orgasmic afterglow. Or, you can choose to stop whenever she simply feels “done” and just relax together. This is your erotic experience, so you get to decide what a satisfying ending looks like.

How Can I Learn Yoni Massage?

Get stroke-by-stroke guidance in the art of yoni massage with our Foreplay Mastery Online Course. You’ll learn how to warm her up, build high levels of arousal and explore multiple orgasms and beyond!

Dirty Dates: Rachel Kramer Bussel

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Dirty Dates :: Free Podcast Interview Rachel Kramer Bussel is a powerhouse in the world of erotica and sex journalism. She has edited over 50 anthologies and regularly writes for a wide range of publications and websites, ranging from the Oprah magazine and The New York Times to several sex positive and feminist websites.

Her writing is always provocative, insightful and most of all a pleasure to read. We are thrilled to welcome her onto the show to talk about her new book, Dirty Dates: Erotic Fantasies For Couples.

We highly recommend erotica as a tool for exploring your erotic imagination.

Erotica audiobooks are another great tool. Grab your FREE audiobook of one of Rachel’s anthologies over at Audible.com by clicking here. You’ll get your first book absolutely free with your new membership. Cancel anytime and keep your first book for life.

There’s a sensual beauty to these stories that I believe will speak to those who practice kink in their lives and those who don’t, because in some ways the tenderness, the charge, the power shifting back and forth between partners, transcends kink. It speaks to ideals of worship, wonder, adoration—from both sides. Even the most sadistic men and women whose worlds you’re about to enter clearly value those they are asking to give them their bodies, their minds, their words, their beings. They are living out their most vivid fantasies with the person they most cherish. I hope you enjoy their dreams, fantasies and explorations, and that they inspire your own. – Rachel Kramer Bussel, Introduction to Dirty Dates

Learn more about Rachel Kramer Bussel’s work and follow her online here.

Free Mini Course : Relax and Unwind!

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Couples massage is a complete luxury – one that doesn’t cost a single penny once you have mastered the skills! You can share a few minutes of massage whenever you choose, strengthening your relationship, relaxing your body and unleashing all of the benefits of loving touch. It is simply one of the most powerful techniques for a more pleasurable life, and we want all couples to share this incredible experience.

Start enjoying the pleasures of massage tonight with our FREE Foot Massage Videos, included in our free course The Erotic Essentials.

Here’s why:

Scientific research reveals that babies need skin-to-skin touch to survive and thrive. Adults aren’t much different.

Quality, loving touch offers huge health benefits. Touch strengthens the immune system, relaxes chronic stress, releases healthy hormones and helps regulate sleep patterns.

Touch is also one of the most essential ingredients in a romantic relationship. Touch communicates love and care in a wordless language that we all understand. A good hug at the end of a long day can totally change your mood. Holding hands changes a simple walk into a romantic, connected experience. Cuddling transforms watching a movie into a much more intimate activity.

Many people wonder why, as sex educators, we teach couples massage. The answer is simple: we believe that every couple can benefit from exchanging skilled, quality massage at home. From simple foot rubs to elaborate full body massage experiences, bringing massage home is one of the best things you can do for both your relationship and your sex life.

Professional therapeutic massage is a wonderful thing. It can be a great way to relax and fully receive the benefits of touch. Professional massage can effectively release chronic tension and even offer relief from some medical conditions. Professional massage therapists have hundreds of hours of training in technique and anatomy, and can dig into troublesome areas with precision.

But there is one thing professional massage doesn’t offer: love and intimacy. Only your partner can massage you with the care and passion of someone who is in love with you. Only your lover can infuse their touch with profound emotions. And, only your lover can use massage as a powerful form of foreplay, preparing your body for high states of arousal and more expansive orgasms.

Couples massage combines the best of massage with the sensuality of making love for a truly extraordinary experience. There is nothing quite like relaxing into your lover’s touch as their hands glide over your body, slipping over your contours with graceful ease.

As you relax and breathe deep, their hands expertly knead out your stress and transforming your body into a vessel for pleasure. Perhaps they lean in and offer small kisses, reminding you how much you are loved. Within just a few minutes, you can go from stressed out to a sexy, pleasure saturated body ready for more connection (or just ready to drift off into a deeply relaxing sleep!

While professional massage and couple’s massage may share some of the same strokes (we teach you the secrets of the pros in our Couples Massage Mastery course!) they offer two totally different experiences.
Professional therapeutic massage can be wonderful, and we encourage you to receive it as often as you can afford it! But for a daily dose of loving, affectionate and romantic touch, bring the power of massage home.