Imagine a lover gasping for air, begging for it, begging for YOU, begging for the release of your touch – is this a fantasy alone? Or is there a way to make begging for it something we can all do a bit more of, each in our own way?
In this episode we explore the erotic art of begging for it. What does begging for it mean – begging FOR sex vs. begging DURING sex? Begging for a specific sex act vs. begging for pleasure? Begging for orgasm vs. begging for mercy?
When we imagine erotic begging, we also need to think about the erotic energy behind the begging. Begging can range from bratty to reverent, from demanding to humiliating, from thrilling to flirty.
And, as Charlotte points out, isn’t begging really just an extreme form of consent? Of saying, out loud, what it is you want and how you want it? How can we leverage the sexiness of begging to make consent clear, honest and exciting?
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