Pleasure Mechanics

Rimming

What is Rimming?

Rimming, also known as Anal-Oral Sex or Analingus, is the sexual act of pleasuring the anus with the lips, mouth and tongue. Men and women of all sexual orientations can enjoy this sex act. Analingus is a high risk activity for parasites and bacterial infections. A barrier method can be used to reduce the risk of transmission.

Some people enjoy the taboo of analingus, others enjoy the intense intimacy of the act. For the recipient, oral stimulation of the highly sensitive area can be highly erotic, especially when paired with genital stimulation.

For most people, anal stimulation with fingers is the best place to start exploring anal play. Once you are totally comfortable with giving (and/or) receiving anal touch with fingers, more advanced practices such as rimming can be explored.

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Anal Beads

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Anal beads are a type of sex toy used by both men and women for anal pleasure. A series of progressively larger balls are inserted in the anus and then removed. People enjoy the sensation of the anal sphincters opening and closing around the smooth balls, and the gradient of sizes allows for a variety of intensity of penetration. The best anal beads are made of smooth, washable material such as silicone. For safety make sure you can sterilize your toys, and remember that all anal toys should have a wide flared base.

This modern take on the classic anal beads sex toy style is called the Flexi Felix from Fun Factory. It is a delightful toy for beginners, who can use just a single bead for gentle penetration or for more advanced players who can work their way up to the whole chain of beads. This toy is made of easy to wash, soft flexible silicone.

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What Is Prostate Milking?

As the producers of the world’s bestselling video guide on prostate massage-now part of our Prostate Massage Mastery online course, we receive a lot of questions about prostate milking like: What is prostate milking? How is prostate milking different from prostate massage?

What is Prostate Milking?

Prostate massage is sometimes called prostate milking. This is because stimulation of the prostate helps release fluid from the prostate gland. Prostate milking can either be part of an ejaculatory orgasm, usually through a combination of prostate massage and genital stimulation. Sometimes, however, prostate milking is performed without genital stimulation and a small amount of clear fluid is released through the urethra. This form of prostate stimulation is sometimes done for health purposes, or as part of an erotic relationship using orgasm tease and denial.

How is Prostate Milking Different from Prostate Massage?

Prostate milking is really just another term for prostate massage, with more of an emphasis on the stimulation and release of fluid from the prostate gland. The techniques are the same. If you want to learn how to milk the prostate and explore prostate orgasms, check out our online course: Prostate Massage Mastery.

Why Is Prostate Milking Healthy?

Many doctors recommend prostate massage to maintain the health of the prostate gland. When prostate massage is done strictly for health reasons, and not as a sexual activity, it is sometimes referred to as milking the prostate. Prostate milking is focused on draining the fluid from the gland, encouraging blood flow and fresh fluid production, flushing stagnant fluid out of the area and releasing chronic tension in the pelvis. There are theories that stagnation causes the build up of toxins and the cell mutation that can lead to prostate massage, prostatitis and prostate inflammation. If you are interested in the health benefits of prostate massage, talk to your doctor about prostate milking.

Does Prostate Milking Require a Prostate Orgasm?

It is much more pleasurable to milk the prostate in combination with arousal and genital touch. As sex educators, this is the combination we teach in our video guides. You can, however, massage the prostate without erotic stimulation and release fluid from the prostate gland without a prostate orgasm. This will lead to a clear fluid being released through the urethra – clear because it does not contain semen which is normally found in an ejaculate.

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What Is Prostate Milking?