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Erotic Game Play : Rules, Roles and Goals

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In this encore episode (first shared back in 2013!) we share our framework of Erotic Game Play and invite you to start creating playful baby steps towards the kinds of erotic experiences you crave.

Humans love playing games. From puzzles and word games to ball sports and races, humans love the thrill, challenge and emotional highs of games. The rules, roles and goals of any one specific game is how we shape the experience of play – you know you won’t be tackled during a chess match, and you can expect to get wet playing water polo.

What happens when we apply the framework of game play onto the thrilling, stimulating and risky ways we humans like to play when naked and alone with our trusted lovers? What freedom and extraordinary experience can come from the formal structure of rules, roles and goals?

★ Ready to step into your next erotic adventure? Join us and we’ll guide you, step by step, into the thrilling terrain of kink!

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Sex, Power and Creating Change

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Sexual Empowerment is a term that gets used a lot, but what does it really mean? In this episode, we explore empowerment, Power Over vs. Power With, and more!

Here is a great introduction to how power operates in society:

Finding Just Right

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Speaking of Sex Podcast Episode #377 : Finding Just Right 
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How can we create deeply satisfying, fulfilling erotic experiences when what the body wants is so changeable and context-dependent? In this episode we explore how to find “just right” over and over again by paying exquisite attention to yourself AND your partner, creating a positive feedback loop of verbal and non-verbal communication so you can be deeply satisfied, feel totally met and taken care of, and respect one another’s needs and boundaries.

Ready to master the art of erotic touch, head to toe, so you can start finding “just right” with more skill and confidence? Click here to save big on our Erotic Touch Mastery online course bundle!

Speaking Of Sex Episodes Mentioned:

  • Discovering Erotic Interoception
  • Sex Out Of Obligation

Pleasure Mechanics Courses on Beducated

★ We recently “got in bed” with the incredible team of erotic educators at Beducated.com – they reached out to us and asked to include our two raciest courses in their amazing library of online courses.

They offer an incredible suite of courses under one membership, so jump in and get started tonight!

Turning Towards Pleasure While Living With Pain & Illness

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Illness, injury, accidents and other sudden health changes disrupt our lives on all levels – including our sexuality, relationships and even our sense of identity. When our bodies experience massive changes, or are facing chronic pain or terminal illness, how do we begin to find a new normal in our sex lives? How can we turn towards pleasure again in the face of massive and ongoing changes?

This episode is an intimate interview between Pleasure Mechanic’s own Chris Maxwell Rose and Shango Los of the Shaping Fire podcast. Big love to Shango for hosting this beautiful conversation and for allowing us to share the full episode here. Shaping Fire is a leading cannabis podcast, covering medical cannabis, cannabis cultivation and more.

Podcast Episodes Mentioned:

  • Spontaneous Vs. Responsive Desire
  • Dual Model Control Of Arousal : Learn about the “gas and brakes” model of arousal
  • Your Body Is Good Enough
  • What Do You Want?

Other Resources Mentioned:

  • Elle Chase’s book on positions for curvy bodies, useful for anyone looking for support around positions and modifications
  • Disability Justice Resources
  • 10 Principles of Disability Justice

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