Erotic gifts can add a beautiful intimate touch to the holidays. With so much family togetherness and busy schedules, think about setting aside a little bit of time to be alone together, savor some relaxing touch and exchange gifts intended to enhance your erotic life together.
Below you’ll find some of our favorite toys for inspiration. Wrap one up with a beautiful bow, make sure to mark it Do Not Open In Front Of The Family! and express your love and commitment to another year of shared pleasure.
Sometimes the best gift is an investment in getting support. If you are struggling with an erotic roadblock, the comprehensive courses from therapist Vanessa Marin are our go-to referral for effective tools for transformation. Check out Finishing School to learn how to orgasm alone or with a partner. Our guys have loved her Modern Man’s Guide to overcoming performance anxiety and we regularly send couples to The Passion Project for tools to balance mismatched libidos.
While Vanessa Marin offers deep dives for the most common struggles, if you are already in a pretty good relational space and ready to just play more and get creative together, you can get your inbox absolutely stuffed with enticing options with her 30 Day Sex Challenge!
One of our favorite new toys of the year is Lelo’s Sona – for anyone who likes clitoral stimulation, this toy uses sonic pulses rather than vibration to stimulate deep into the body. Give her the gift of a whole new kind of stimulation!
Another new favorite is the Crescendo from MysteryVibe
This fun, flexible vibrator is defiantly NOT one size fits all – you can bend and shape it to contour just right to the pleasure zones you want to stimulate. Plus, it integrates technology in a meaningful way, allowing you to control the vibrating zones and rhythms with an app that is easy to use. It comes in a gorgeous box, ready to wrap and present to your partner (after the kids have gone to sleep!)
Want a discreet yet powerful toy to integrate into partnered play? Check out the Eva vibrator from Dame Products. This tiny powerhouse tucks right into the labia to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse – Adding a nice additional level of stimulation without a lot of bulk coming between you. Use the code MECHANICS for $15 off!
Want to add some luxury to your erotic life? Check out the affordable yet luxe line of body jewelry from Bijoux Indiscrets, a Barcelona based company that offers simple yet gorgeous ways to adorn the body. They also have a beautiful line of vegan harnesses, cuffs and body adornments.
Use the code MECHANICS20 for 20% off anything you wish!
Does your lover enjoy lots of quality touch?
Wrap up a nice massage candle and enroll in our Couples Massage Mastery online course, and give the gift of a lifetime of beautiful full body touch! If you want to give the gift of any of our Erotic Mastery Courses, use the code GIFT for 33% off!
If your lover enjoys receiving love notes, hearing you speak loving words during sex, or is an avid reader, give the gift of an erotica anthology on audiobook. Click here to get a free book of your choice with a trial membership: Audible.com
No matter what kind of erotic play you love, everyone needs a good personal lubricant to make your touch slip, slide and glide in all the right ways. Check out our favorite organic lubricant from GoodCleanLove.com and use the code Pleasure for 33% off your entire order!
Have another toy in mind?
Start here with these links to some of our favorite sex toy companies:
Goodvibes.com : for a full selection of toys from trusted brands
Lelo.com : for luxury, high quality toys and light bondage gear