We recently received an email from a podcast listener about getting out of limiting habits during masturbation and sex. Here’s the email:
Hi there, I recently discovered the podcast and hope you might be able to help me on an issue.
My wife really only orgasms when her legs are locked tight together. There have been a couple of exceptions when she has orgasmed while straddling me and using a toy.
I’d like for her to be able to orgasm with legs spread to allow for a variety of positions. I have read, using the wonderful world of Google (sarcastic), that this would just take practice. Supposedly, leg locking was what she learned at a young age.
I’d like to know if practice would really affect this. I don’t want to encourage her to change something that can’t be changed. I’d hate for her to feel like she is doing something wrong!
Do you have any guidance or could perhaps point me in a direction for reliable information
Thank you so much!
In this podcast episode (simply hit the “play” button at the top of this page to listen in!) you’ll find out:
- how to retrain your body to become orgasmic in more positions
- how nerve endings respond to stimulation and establish neural pathways over time
- how to explore new sensations during masturbation by changing up your:
- parts you stimulate
- mental fantasies
- why you don’t need to give anything up to expand your repertoire