Our bodies are sensitive, but not delicate. This phrase is something Chris has been teaching for twenty years, since the early days of the Sexological Bodywork training, in response to a pattern they noticed after teaching erotic touch for hundreds of hours. Many people are hesitant when it comes to erotic touch, approaching the genitals as if they are delicate and easily hurt. The truth is, even our most sensitive bits are quite resilient and many people crave much deeper, more intense touch than they are getting from hesitant lovers.
If we can remember the body is “sensitive, but not delicate” we can be both intense and gentle at the same time, and create much more fulfilling and satisfying erotic encounters.