Sexy Gift Guide

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Want the perfect sexy gift for Valentine’s Day, an anniversary or birthday? Here’s our guide on giving a gift your lover will adore – by getting clear on what they specifically like to receive. Some people want a great new sex toy. Others would prefer quality time together. For some people, nothing beats an honest love letter. For others, acts of service are the best gifts you can give. In this podcast episode we start by reviewing Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages – a framework that helps you understand how your lover best receives love. Then, we turn our attention to sex toys and give our top recommendations- from vibrators to BDSM toys. Of course, one of the best gifts you can give is a lifetime of better sex. Our online courses offer you the opportunity to master new erotic skills – from Couples Massage to Foreplay to Erotic Spanking. Give a course to your lover so you can explore together or study up on your own and then surprise them with the sexy gift of your fabulous new skills! No matter the occasion, giving a great gift is one way to express love and add romance to your relationship. Here’s your sexy gift guide with links to the resources and toys mentioned on the episode! 5 Love Languages Survey Sometimes the best gift is an investment in getting support. If you are struggling with an erotic roadblock, the comprehensive courses from therapist Vanessa Marin are our go-to referral for effective tools for transformation. Check out Finishing School to learn how to orgasm alone or with a partner. Our guys have loved her Modern Man’s Guide to overcoming performance anxiety and we regularly send couples to The Passion Project for tools to balance mismatched libidos. While Vanessa Marin offers deep dives for the most common struggles, if you are already in a pretty good relational space and ready to just play more and get creative together, you can get your inbox absolutely stuffed with enticing options with her 30 Day Sex Challenge!

Some of our favorite sex toys and sex toy companies:

SheVibe.com Goodvibes.com Lelo.com Fun Factory Smart Balls Fun Factory Stronic Pulsators Massage Candles The Womanizer NJoy Toys WeVibe Couples Vibrator Butt Plugs Strap-On Kits Audible.com – get a free audio book (choose an erotica anthology!) BDSM gear: SheVibe.com has a great selection of beginner’s BDSM toys and gear. For more advanced toys, try Stockroom.com Want a recommendation for a specific kind of toy not on this list? Be in touch!

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