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Prostate Milking

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What Is Prostate Milking?

Prostate milking involves direct stimulation of the prostate gland with the goal of expressing prostatic fluid, with or without orgasm. Prostate milking uses a finger or toy inserted anally to reach the prostate gland, which is then stimulated using a variety of techniques.

Many men report that prostate stimulation leads to the most powerful orgasms of their lives. Yet many men are hesitant to explore prostate milking or massage. Many believe that involving anal stimulation in their sex lives might confuse their sexual orientation. This is simply not true: men of all sexual orientations have the same sexual anatomy and can enjoy erotic stimulation of all kinds. Sexual orientation is determined by who you are attracted to, not what you do in bed!

Will Prostate Milking Get Me Addicted?

Some guys are worried that they’ll get “addicted” or “hooked” to the intense pleasures of prostate milking. While you may experience a peak erotic experience through prostate milking, it won’t ruin other pleasures. Think of a great steak dinner – you may love it once in awhile, but it doesn’t make a great burger any less pleasurable!

How Do I Get Started With Prostate Milking?

Ready to explore prostate stimulation? Check out the Prostate Massage Mastery Online Course to learn everything you need to know in the privacy of your own home!

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This episode was recorded in response to the following question, submitted via email.

First, I can’t believe I am about to type this out….

This morning I decided to pleasure myself and add some prostate stimulation to the mix using a little curved glass number in the collection. Do I really need the default ‘butt play’ disclosure of ‘Im not gay’? but damn if it doesn’t feel good.

So this time I decided to fully commit, no ‘just the tip’. I decided to go for it and determine if the legend/myths were real; I already knew it felt good but not to the extent of milking…My experience this morning led me to your site because it was so mind blowing I needed to do more research.

In the milking process the site says you will get a small amount of fluid in the prostate released which would be clear. This did happen to me, HOWEVER, it was feeling so good I abandoned my man parts and focused strictly on the massage; what happened next is the reason for this long question. I reached this climax where clear liquid shot out of my mini me for about 7 or 8 seconds;I couldn’t stop it. It felt friggin insanely awesome at the same time I am freaking out.

after it was over I wasn’t disgusted with myself (I usually am) I was high, euphoric even. In my panic I am grabbing feeling smelling this liquid wondering did I piss myself or what! I noticed the clear liquid was slick like a lube, like the pre-cum but not tacky at all, pure watery. I kept smelling my hands and grabbing the sheets and taking huge wiffs and got nothing. I was now intrigued and decided to use it to go at it the old fashion way. My brain has been consumed with this all day! What the heck was all that  fluid!

The weird part is I think I mentally broke myself; I don’t think I will ever view me the same way…I thought I knew everything and have done everything when it comes to sex; my wife even says I should have been a sex expert…I loved what happened but am scared that if I do it again, it may become an addiction to where it would be my preferred method of pleasure and I would lose the love of a regular climax.
This is not a joke, I am not a troll, I didn’t make this up…I just wanted to tell someone and at the same time ask WHAT THE FUGGG happened to me. Was it 40 years of buildup…do men squirt lol, I don’t know anymore, I am now questioning everything I thought I knew…the sad part is I can’t tell anyone because no one in my circle is sexually aware HELP

 

 

Cunnilingus Techniques

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Cunnilingus Techniques For Maximum Pleasure and Comfort

Cunnilingus is one of the most effective ways at giving women intense, orgasmic pleasure. But it is also a challenge for a lot of couples. No matter how comfortable you are giving oral sex to a woman, you can also improve your cunnilingus techniques to help her enjoy even more pleasure from this highly intimate act.

Most cunnilingus techniques focus on more speed and pressure. While this is an important skill to develop, it is also essential to learn how to convey love and devotion through your cunnilingus technique. Many women are hesitant to receive oral sex, so the first essential cunnilingus technique is the ability to make women comfortable and eager to receive this form of erotic attention. Only once she is comfortable receiving oral sex will you be able to lavish her with the your expert techniques and give her as much pleasure as possible.

In this free podcast episode (just hit the play button at the top of this page to start listening) we share Ian Kerner’s cunnilingus techniques that focus on slowing down and allowing your tongue to patiently draw forth her pleasure, without any rush towards orgasm or any agenda other than her maximum pleasure. He gives specific instructions for a cunnilingus technique that will surprise you – so make sure to give it a try to see how it works for you and your lover! His slow, methodical approach evokes an intense response in many women and will change the way you approach oral sex.

This podcast features several cunnilingus techniques to get you started at mastering the skill of oral sex. This episode features an excerpt from the NY Times bestselling author Ian Kerner. His book She Comes First is one of the best selling sex books of the past 10 years.

You can get a free audiobook version of She Comes First by Ian Kerner by signing up for a free trial membership at www.AudibleTrial.com/Pleasure

If you want to brush up on your clitoral anatomy so you can be sure to pleasure every part of her, here are two podcasts that go into detail all about the clitoris: Episode 106: Cliteracy and Episode 175: The Truth About The Clitoris.

Fingering Do’s and Don’ts

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Fingering Dos and Don'ts :: Free Podcast Episode

Want to be an amazing lover?
Master the art of using your hands to pleasure your lover!
Here’s the truth: women need direct clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. The best tool for the job? Your fingers!

In this podcast, we cover the importance of fingering techniques for female pleasure. Just hit the “play” button at the top of this page to start listening!

You’ll discover:

  • why fingering is the most reliable technique for female orgasm
  • how fingering can combine beautifully with oral sex and intercourse
  • the most common mistakes people make with fingering
  • how to use fingering techniques to activate all parts of her sexual anatomy
  • why mastering fingering will help you last longer in bed and enjoy sex more

Ready to master the art of fingering? You’ll find all our proven techniques in the Foreplay Mastery Course

Cock and Ball Play

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Cock and Ball Play

When you hear “cock and ball play” what comes to mind? For most people, intense images of clamps, bondage and other extreme toys come to mind. While cock and ball play is sometimes called “cock and ball torture” this type of stimulation doesn’t have to be intense to be fun!

In this podcast, expert Hardy Haberman shares the basics of cock and ball play – including how to communicate and a few easy toys to get started with cock and ball stimulation.

The podcast covers:

  • the importance of communication as you start exploring CBT
  • why going slowly is always the wisest path when playing with these precious parts
  • the “starter kit” for sensation toys so you don’t have to spend a fortune
  • how one unexpected household item can get you started in cock and ball play
  • simple bondage techniques that anyone can use to begin experimenting

This podcast features an excerpt from Hardy Haberman’s essay found in The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and The Erotic Edge edited by T. Taormino.

Is Anger Killing Your Sex Life?

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Is Anger Killing Your Sex Life? Free Podcast Episode

Anger is a natural, healthy emotion. But if you don’t address your anger it can quickly build up into resentment and start killing your sex life.

In this episode we share an excerpt from Women’s Sexual Passages by Elizabeth Davis. She offers much needed wisdom on preventing anger from building up and how to clear the air if resentment is causing distance between you and your loved ones.

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