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Elle Chase Interview

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Elle Chase, Lady Cheeky Elle Chase, also known as Lady Cheeky, is a writer, sex educator and coach. She curates LadyCheeky.com, a very Not Safe For Work collection of erotic images. She calls it “a celebration of authentic passion, desire, body-positive sensuality and titillating sexual appetite for women and men who like their porn “smarty, arty and tarty.”

Elle also runs SmutForSmarties.com, where you can find sex-ed articles, sex toy reviews and essays all having to do with the world of sex.

We are thrilled to welcome Elle to Speaking of Sex!

In this interview, Elle shares her journey from a “sexually neutered depressed housewife” to a sexually fulfilled passionate woman. We cover:

overcoming body shame
how to immediately create more intimacy
the importance of discovering your unique erotic personality
why you need to eat dinner naked once in awhile

All About Crygasms

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Have you ever felt like you wanted to cry during sex? Not out of pain or dread, but out of pleasure, safety and emotional release?

If so, you are not alone!

Welcome to the crygasm!

Many people feel the urge to cry during sex, but because it is not usually spoken about publicly, they hold back their tears and shut down the emotional experience. Since publishing this episode, we have heard from SO many people who have experienced crygasms and felt ashamed of the experience. Learning about crygasm as a “thing” can help you realize that this is a natural part of sex and can feel really cleansing and clearing!

To our knowledge, sex pioneer Annie Sprinkle was the first to coin the term “crygasm” to refer to the cathartic release of emotion during orgasm.

In this episode, we talk all about crygasms.

We cover:

What is a crygasm?
Why do crygasms happen?
What do crygasms mean?
What should you do if a crygasm is approaching?
What should you do if your lover starts crying during sex?
Do you have to talk about it?

We believe that crygasms are one of the most profound erotic experiences, and can be incredibly cathartic and cleansing if you handle it well. We share our strategies for how to let crygasms run their course without interuppting your sexual experience.

If you’ve ever been on the brink of crying during sex, this episode is for you. If you have ever sensed your lover was holding something back, tune in and learn how to stay present and strong enough for your partner to fully release during sex.

Sexual Chemistry: Become An Erotic Alchemist

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Should lack of “sexual chemistry” be the reason to end a relationship? Is it enough to keep a healthy relationship together? Do you either “have it” or not? Is it something that can be deliberately created?

In this week’s podcast, we explore the idea of sexual chemistry. What is it and how much importance should it have in your relationship choices? Our ideas may surprise you! We invite you to become an erotic alchemist and take control of your sexual chemistry!

What Great Lovers and Pro Athletes Have In Common

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Want to be a sexual athlete? Or maybe an erotic artist? Or perhaps you just want to have better sex.

If you want to improve your sex life and experience extraordinary pleasure, you have to dedicate yourself to practicing new sexual skills. Learning new skills doesn’t have to be boring, clinical or unromantic. It can in fact be a beautiful expression of love and devotion!

In this podcast, we explore what great lovers and pro athletes have in common, and we invite you to join the exclusive club of sexual athlete and artists!

Is Your Smartphone Ruining Your Sex Life?

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Is your cell phone ruining your relationship? It may be a much bigger threat to your love life than you know. In this podcast, we talk about how smartphones can threaten your most intimate relationships, and offer strategies for using technology to enhance your love life.

Science has only just begun studying the long term effects of ever-on internet and smartphones. The initial findings indicate that the more you use your cell phone (especially in the presence of your loved ones) the less happy you’ll be and the lonelier you will feel. People are starting to report feeling jealous of their lover’s cell phones – JEALOUS of a 5 inch computer!

Ultimately, what is at stake is nothing less than our relationships and happiness. If you don’t take active steps to use technology to your advantage, it may have long term negative impact on what is most important to you.

So listen in and let’s get real about the relationship between technology and intimacy! We invite you to become master of your own domain, rather than a servant to the cruel mistress of your smartphone!