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Bad Boy Sex With Your Prince Charming

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Many women want to be in relationships with nice guys, but also crave bad boy sex once in awhile. Meanwhile, many guys want to be respectful towards women but also want to be more dominant every now and then. In this podcast, we explore how you can have it all!

By tapping into different erotic energies and getting specific about what you want, you can have your Prince Charming and your Bad Boy all in one! You can be a nice guy and still let your inner beast out once in awhile!

In this podcast we cover:

How to get what you really want in bed
The difference erotic intention can make in your sexual experience
Why men hold back in bed
How women can help guys get more dominant
The joy of erotic power exchange AND an alternative game to play to heat things up!

Sexual Jealousy & Erotic Compersion

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Sexual Jealousy

Jealousy is a natural emotion that all humans experience. Yet we tend to fight jealousy and allow it to destroy our confidence rather than work with it. In this podcast, we explore how to transform your relationship to jealousy and make it work for, not against, you.

We explore the four primary sources of jealousy:

Possessiveness
Feelings of Lack or Deprivation
Envy
Fear of Change

In this podcast you’ll find advice on how to change your relationship to jealousy and let it be your teacher. You can use jealousy to figure out what you want and need in life, and let it motivate you to ask for what you want from your lover. Jealousy can also be used as a tool for improving self esteem and confidence. Tune in to find out how!

We also cover the opposite of jealousy: compersion. Compersion means finding joy in your partner’s happiness and fulfillment, even if you are not the source of that happiness. We dare you to experiment with making room for erotic compersion and emotional compersion in order to allow your lover more room for growth and fulfillment.

This episode challenges everything you think you know about sexual jealousy and invites you into a new framework for thinking about jealousy. Don’t miss it!

Update!!

One listener wrote in and asked about the link between expressing jealousy and infidelity. Here is one research abstract that indicates there may be a link. What do you think? If a partner expresses jealousy or insecurity, are you more likely to cheat? Be in touch and let us know your thoughts

All About Crygasms

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Have you ever felt like you wanted to cry during sex? Not out of pain or dread, but out of pleasure, safety and emotional release?

If so, you are not alone!

Welcome to the crygasm!

Many people feel the urge to cry during sex, but because it is not usually spoken about publicly, they hold back their tears and shut down the emotional experience. Since publishing this episode, we have heard from SO many people who have experienced crygasms and felt ashamed of the experience. Learning about crygasm as a “thing” can help you realize that this is a natural part of sex and can feel really cleansing and clearing!

To our knowledge, sex pioneer Annie Sprinkle was the first to coin the term “crygasm” to refer to the cathartic release of emotion during orgasm.

In this episode, we talk all about crygasms.

We cover:

What is a crygasm?
Why do crygasms happen?
What do crygasms mean?
What should you do if a crygasm is approaching?
What should you do if your lover starts crying during sex?
Do you have to talk about it?

We believe that crygasms are one of the most profound erotic experiences, and can be incredibly cathartic and cleansing if you handle it well. We share our strategies for how to let crygasms run their course without interuppting your sexual experience.

If you’ve ever been on the brink of crying during sex, this episode is for you. If you have ever sensed your lover was holding something back, tune in and learn how to stay present and strong enough for your partner to fully release during sex.

What Great Lovers and Pro Athletes Have In Common

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Want to be a sexual athlete? Or maybe an erotic artist? Or perhaps you just want to have better sex.

If you want to improve your sex life and experience extraordinary pleasure, you have to dedicate yourself to practicing new sexual skills. Learning new skills doesn’t have to be boring, clinical or unromantic. It can in fact be a beautiful expression of love and devotion!

In this podcast, we explore what great lovers and pro athletes have in common, and we invite you to join the exclusive club of sexual athlete and artists!

Is Your Smartphone Ruining Your Sex Life?

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Is your cell phone ruining your relationship? It may be a much bigger threat to your love life than you know. In this podcast, we talk about how smartphones can threaten your most intimate relationships, and offer strategies for using technology to enhance your love life.

Science has only just begun studying the long term effects of ever-on internet and smartphones. The initial findings indicate that the more you use your cell phone (especially in the presence of your loved ones) the less happy you’ll be and the lonelier you will feel. People are starting to report feeling jealous of their lover’s cell phones – JEALOUS of a 5 inch computer!

Ultimately, what is at stake is nothing less than our relationships and happiness. If you don’t take active steps to use technology to your advantage, it may have long term negative impact on what is most important to you.

So listen in and let’s get real about the relationship between technology and intimacy! We invite you to become master of your own domain, rather than a servant to the cruel mistress of your smartphone!