The Resilient Edge of Resistance is a concept that guides how we approach massage, erotic touch and even relationships!
The Resilient Edge of Resistance is all about finding that magical place of “just right” – in touch, in sex, in love. It means using not too much force and not too little, offering full support without smothering, being fully present without being overbearing. When you find that place of “just right” so much opens up – more pleasure, more arousal, more connection, more responsiveness to your partner’s changing needs.
In this episode we talk about how to develop the skill of finding and riding the resilient edge of resistance, and how to apply it in every day life, in and out of the bedroom.
The Resilient Edge of Resistance is a concept we inherited from our amazing teacher, Chester Mainard. Chester was a pioneer of erotic touch, gay spirituality and the creator of the anal massage techniques we teach. After a few profound years as Chester’s student and then co-teacher, Chris lived with Chester for 9 months as he died of brain cancer. Chester’s work continues to live through our teachings, and those of so many of his other students.