Spanking can be part of a an erotic power exchange, where one partner is erotically dominating the other, more submissive partner. Separate from the power dynamics, many people enjoy erotic spanking simply because it feels good. A good spanking can be incredibly arousing and invigorating. The level of power play you bring to your experience is up to you.
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Here is a list of some of the more common reasons people enjoy spanking, though we are sure you could add one or two of your own. Note the different parts of sensation – some people love the impact, others the afterglow. It helps to be specific about why you like something (sometimes you only know this after you’ve experienced it a few times) – being specific allows you to create experiences that are the most fulfilling and satisfying for you and your lover!
Top 10 Reasons People Love Erotic Spanking
• Sensations of Spanking
• Sensations Spanking Creates in Genitals
• Sensations After Spanking
• Emotional Experience of Vulnerability
• Getting High on Endorphins
• Attention on Ass
• Warmth and Color of Reddened Cheeks
• Creating Extreme Anticipation and Desire
• Feeling of Power and/ or Control
• Form of Erotic Tease
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