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Considering having a threesome? Tune in here first! On this episode we share what we’ve learned about how to have a threesome from our recent threesome experiences, and share a classic resource from the Pleasure Mechanics archive – click here to download our book How To Have A Threesome, for free!

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What does it mean to have really good bed chem? Is sexual chemistry something that happens to us, or can we learn to be erotic alchemists? What happens when good bed chem fizzles out? Join us in this episode for a provocative and engaging conversation about Bed Chem – and how we can all get more active in the lab!

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Thanks to Sabrina Carpenter’s pop anthem Bed Chem for inspiring the conversation that inspired this episode!

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Full Body Oral is an invitation to start exploring more oral play – on EVERY part of the body! Full Body Oral is a reminder that we can create so many different sensations with our mouths, adding depth of stimulation, unlocking emotions and intimacy, and adding new dynamics to the kinds of play you already enjoy!

Full Body Oral is one practice we cover in our online course on Oral – an immersive exploration of oral pleasure for all bodies (and all of our bodies!) – get 69% off the oral course here!

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“I am writing to say an unexpected THANK YOU. When my husband told me he had enrolled us in your online Oral course, at first I was confused, because I always thought he enjoyed the blowjobs I give him. But I know he has really gotten a lot out of your podcast over the past year or two, so I thought I’d give it a try. We were both blown away by the depth and usefulness of what we found there. But the biggest surprise was the invitation into Full Body Oral – prompted by the course we started exploring using our mouths more like in general, not just for kissing and oral. And I have to say, I am amazed how much has opened up. We have both found a few places and ways of kissing one another that are like electric hot spots of arousal. I was also able to admit to some of my own “icks” and that felt like letting out a long held tension. Our oral sex has benefitted to, but what I really wanted to take the time to say thank you about is the expansive ways you approach these topics – we both send thanks for this course – it made a difference.”

Join us for a season of celebrating the many pleasures of erotic spanking!

Spanksgiving Spank-A-Thon Friday Nov 22, 7-9pm

A fundraiser for the Less Dead Access Fund – help with the final push towards installing a wheelchair ramp at Less Dead!

Come together with the Less Dead Community for a joyful night of Spanksgiving! We’ll be serving up Spanks, Thanks & Sweet Treats at this event FREE for all vetted members of the Less Dead Community. 

• Spank-A-Thon: Donate To Receive (or Give!) a 5 or 10 minute mini spanking scene with our team of skilled impact practitioners! 
• Raffle Prizes: Boots From Mistress Adah, Pleasure Mechanics Workshops, Private Studio Time & More! 

SPANKSGIVING Spanking Workshops

• One Workshop: $125 
• Workshop + December 7 Impact Play Party: $150
• Two Workshop Series & Party: $225
• NOTAFLOF: No One Turned Away For Lack Of Funds! If you need financial support to join us, please be in touch and we’ll work it out!

All participants also get free access to the Pleasure Mechanics online course on spanking, to continue your learning online! 

Spanking for Play & Pleasure:

Sunday November 17, 11am-2pm

Join us for a comprehensive welcome to the pleasures of erotic spanking. From sensual warm-up to climactic crescendos, learn how to create deeply satisfying spanking scenes – we’ll cover all the basics you need to know and discover new favorite techniques to explore. We’ll cover essential communication skills and troubleshoot common roadblocks that can get in the way of satisfying play. 

Live demonstrations, watch only or step into opportunities for optional hands-on participation. All experience levels welcome, newbies especially encouraged. 

Making Impact: Intensifying Impact Play

Saturday December 7, 4-7pm

Together, we’ll explore how we can go further and deeper with Impact Play. Join us to explore techniques to intensify impact scenes – without losing intimacy and connection. 

Impact Play can evoke deeply emotional experiences, provoke powerful physical release, and stoke intense erotic intimacy. As we develop our skills we can trust ourselves to build and hold the charge of profoundly satisfying scenes. 

We’ll cover:

• negotiation & communication strategies
• creating the container & establishing safety
• build up & intensifying techniques for impact play
• sustaining & modulation skills
• come down & after care practices

Live demonstrations: watch only or step into opportunities for optional hands-on participation. 

All experience levels welcome, newbies especially encouraged. 

All participants also get free access to the Pleasure Mechanics online course on spanking, to continue your learning online! 

Impact Play Party Saturday December 7, 8pm – Midnight

All workshop participants are invited to join us for a community play party along with other pre-vetted members of the Less Dead Community. 

• Spanking, Flogging & Other Impact Play Exploratoriums
• Open Play Space For Your Scenes
• Snack Table & Cozy Social Corner

Facilitated by Chris Maxwell Rose, founder of PleasureMechanics.com & somatic sex coach with over 20 years of experience. After pioneering the field of Sexological Bodywork and teaching sold-out workshops across the country, Chris co-founded PleasureMechanics and has built an online community of over 16,000 erotic explorers. Chris is known for their “passionate compassion” and creates warm, welcoming spaces for deep dives into erotic discovery. Chris offers coaching, events and workshops online and here in the Hudson Valley. 

Any questions? Contact Chris: chris@pleasuremechanics.com

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Let’s bust the myths around the refractory period that self-limit so many of our erotic experiences.

Join us for this myth-busting episode where we cover the basics and beyond of the refractory period and all the myths about it that get in our way. Learn how: Ejaculation and Orgasm are NOT the same physiological event, and Ejaculation does NOT have to result in a refractory period! In addition, experiencing a refractory period does NOT have to be the end of that sexual encounter!

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