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The Emotional Authenticity of Erotic Touch

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The Emotional Authenticity of Erotic Touch :: Free Podcast Episode

Proven: authentic emotions are transmitted through touch. Here’s how to use this power to your erotic advantage! Discover how to communicate love, gratitude and desire through the simple magic of touch.

A 2006 study [PDF] strangers were separated  into pairs, with just a black curtain between them. One was asked to try communicating an emotion by touching the other person’s hand or arm. The study revealed that the people being touched “could decode anger, fear, disgust, love, gratitude, and sympathy via touch at much-better-than-chance levels.”

In this podcast we guide you in how to activate this power so you can have more intimate, emotional and fulfilling connections – every time you reach out and offer your touch!

Body Confidence With Dawn Serra

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Anyone can have amazing sex – even if you don’t love every inch of your body! Don’t wait to be perfect to be daring enough to enjoy sex. Instead, learn how to enjoy pleasure in your own skin, no matter what.

On this episode we are joined by a special guest, Dawn Serra

Dawn is an outspoken sex coach and host of the podcast Sex Gets Real. She joins us today to talk about one of the most crucial elements of enjoying a great sex life – learning how to love the bodies we are in, as they are.

Find Dawn online at www.dawnserra.com

Penis Power: An Interview With Dr. Dudley Danoff

UPDATE: This episode has been retired.

To discover the powers of  the male sexual system, we think everyone deserves time with Cyndi Darnell’s Atlas of Erotic Anatomy, the erotic education we all should have had! She gives you a guided tour of your sexual anatomy and what it is capable of! 

The Modern Man’s Guide To Ending Performance Pressure

If you are struggling with erection and ejaculation control, sex therapist Vanessa Marin offers a comprehensive online program that will get you to the core of your individual experience and give you tons of strategies to take matters into your own hands!

Nipple Stimulation and Nipple Toys

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Nipple Stimulation How To

Nipple stimulation can add lots of arousing sensation to erotic play. While women’s nipples tend to get more attention, male nipples can be a powerful erogenous zone as well.

For both men and women, nipple sensitivity ranges dramatically. For some people, the nipples are intensely sensitive. For others, there isn’t much sensation at all. Some people love nipple play  at every stage of arousal. For others, nipple stimulation is only pleasurable once they are already aroused. Many other factors can influence how nipple stimulation feels at any given time, so when it comes to nipple stimulation only one thing is true – you must pay attention to how it feels moment to moment.

In this podcast (just hit the play button at the top of the page to start listening!) we cover the basics of nipple play as well as a wide range of toys you can use for more intense nipple stimulation. Tune in to discover the essential rules for nipple play and how to make sure nipple play feels arousing and erotic every time you stimulate the nipples.

Nipple Stimulation Toys

Nipple stimulation toys fall into two major categories: clamps and suction.

Nipple clamps can create a wide range of sensations, from mild to intense. Simple tweezer style nipple clamps can create a mild pinching sensation, but if you want more intense sensations you can use clamps with weights or chains. Check out a full range of nipple clamps by clicking here.

Nipple play can also include sensations created by suction devices. Small cups are used to create a suction sensation around the nipple. Some people even use prolonged, frequent suction to stretch and enlarge the nipples. Check out nipple suction toys by clicking here (NSFW)

You can also use a wide range of sensation toys on the nipples. Try using a massage candle to drip warm wax onto the chest and nipples. Use a vibrator on the nipples and see how that buzz feels on this sensitive area!