Pleasure Mechanics

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Welcome to PleasureMechanics.com – some of you find us through search, and others are here because your best friend or sex therapist sent you. Either way, welcome.

We’re Chris and Charlotte, we’ve been the Pleasure Mechanics since meeting while pioneering the field of Sexological Bodywork, back in 2006. We are dedicated to creating effective resources so YOU can experience more pleasure, connection and erotic joy, on your own terms. Our online courses are trusted by over 16,000 pleasure seekers from all around the world. We’re glad you found us.

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  3. Uplevel your erotic skills and confidence with our Online Courses for world-class erotic education in your own home, at your own pace, backed by our no-risk Pleasure Guarantee!

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Slow Masturbation from The Joy of Sex

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Slow Masturbation from The Joy of Sex

Imagine combining the best of oral sex, handjobs, bondage and the edging technique. That’s what this technique from the 1972 sex manual The Joy of Sex offers! In this episode we share the details of how to put this technique into practice for a fun, erotic and thrilling experience!

This episode features an excerpt from The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort.

Sexual Tension and Sexual Frustration

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Sexual Tension and Sexual Frustration :: Free Podcast Episode

Is sexual tension a good thing? Have you ever felt sexually frustrated? Sexual tension and frustration can build up to toxic levels, causing physical discomfort and emotional distress.

How often do you experience sexual tension? What about sexual frustration? Tension can be a simple build up of arousal, like pressure in a soda bottle until it is ready to explode. But sexual frustration is much more painful, both emotionally and physically. Sexual frustration can be a lifetime of repression of the true nature of your sexuality. Most people are sexuall frustrated most of the time – and it is time we change that!

In this podcast episode we explore how to overcome sexual frustration and free your arousal! Just hit the “play” button at the top of this page to tune in!

Female Masturbation with Jenny Block

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Female Masturbation with Jenny Block

Jenny Block is a sex writer and educator. Her latest book is The Ultimate Guide To Solo Sex, and she has also written books about female orgasm and open marriage. In this podcast episode, she joins us to talk about her new book and the importance of female masturbation for a happy, healthy sex life. Jenny Block opens up with some personal and hilarious stories about her own solo sex adventures – and what happens when you get a thousand women on a cruise ship to have orgasms every day! 

We cover:  

  • Why it is important to actively celebrate and think about female masturbation
  • Why we can’t truly be at peace in our bodies without masturbation.
  • How female masturbation can make women better wives, mothers, friends and global citizens
  • Masturbation requires women to take time and focus solely on their own pleasure – is there something political about this act?
  • Why some women can only reach orgasm in one specific position – and the good things that happen when you break these patterns and diversify the positions and methods used during masturbation.
  • Sexy ways to integrate masturbation into relationships: sexting phone sex, skype sex and more!

Find out more about Jenny Block and her new book, The Ultimate Guide To Solo Sex here!

In Sickness and In Health

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In this episode, we explore what it means to take care of your lover when sickness or illness strikes. In many of our wedding vows, we commit to loving one another “in sickness and in health, in good times and bad.” But what does this really look like in day to day life? And how does tending to one another lead to a better sex life in the long run?

In this episode we explore:

  • How can we receive and give care in hardest of times, most unsexy times?
  • What does partnership and kinship look like vs. relationship based on lust
  • When you are ill or injured and vulnerable can you ask for help?
  • How does it feel to offer love and devotion when you are the caregiver?
  • What does it mean to deal with your lover’s body in it’s most unerotic state?
  • How do  you then transition back return to an erotic relationship