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Millions of couples are bored, frustrated and ready to give up on their sex life. Millions more are pretty happy but craving something more intense, but leave the rough sex to fantasy alone.
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Erotic spanking is the most effective way to create the sexual intensity you crave.
Spanking can take you on a journey of sensation, from the slow melt of a gentle warm up to thrilling spikes of pleasure and orgasmic release.
Imagine having your lover across your lap, watching as they respond with gasps of pleasure to every touch.
See their arousal build as you add more intensity, carefully reading their body language so you know just when they are ready for more.
Hear their moans of pleasure as you bring them to a stunning climax, and feel them radiate with erotic euphoria, literally high on pleasure – the pleasure YOU have given them.
Now imagine them begging for more.
Remember, you can’t achieve the erotic bliss of a good spanking without any training!
Erotic spanking is an advanced sexual skill, and if you want to get it right and avoid painful mistakes, you need to learn from the best.
Don’t risk fumbling around as you try to turn up the heat in bed! Master a few essential skills and you’ll be able to confidently and skillfully set your lover ablaze!
If you want to explore the thrills of erotic spanking without hurting your lover and jeopardizing your relationship, here is the map to guide you every step of the way!

We are world leading sex experts, dedicated to sharing proven strategies so YOU can have the amazing sex life you deserve. We have produced 10 best selling video guides and worked with tens of thousands of men and women all around the world. We have thousands of hours of professional training in massage and sex education, along with years of personal experience in the kink and BDSM community.
We kept hearing from people just like you, who want to tap into the incredible pleasures of erotic spanking but didn’t know where to start. They asked us to give them a step-by-step roadmap so they could experience erotic spanking without the risk. We are happy to deliver: this comprehensive online course is designed just for couples like you. We guide you every step of the way as you master the skills of erotic spanking.
You’ll discover everything you need to know to make erotic spanking a sensational part of your sex life. Whether you want to take your lover on a sensual journey of pleasure or create intense experiences of erotic submission, we’ve got the skills you need. If you want to explore the thrills of erotic spanking without hurting your lover and jeopardizing your relationship, this course is for you!
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Erotic spanking has never been more popular. From films like Secretary to books like 50 Shades of Grey, there are more and more images of erotic spanking that reveal how common this sexual fantasy truly is!
The Normal Bar is a New York Times bestseller based on the most extensive survey of romantic relationships ever conducted to date (over 70,000 people took the survey!) In their research they found that 86% of people are intrigued by the prospect of having some kind of kinky sex – 78% women and 94% men. So although we all may think spanking is a little kinky and out of the ordinary, in fact the vast majority of people are curious about it.
Erotic spanking is popular for a good reason – it is one of the most pleasurable, powerful erotic skills you can add to your sex life! A good erotic spanking is both relaxing and arousing. Spanking lets you release stress while setting your libido on fire. Spanking is incredibly intimate and yet harnesses the erotic power of domination and submission.
Don’t let erotic spanking stay locked away in your fantasies – make it part of your erotic reality! We’ll guide you every step of the way so you can enjoy the incredible intensity while staying safe and protecting your cherished relationship! We’ll help you avoid all the common mistakes that can quickly ruin your experience, while giving you the insider tips so you can have an amazing sexual adventure and get closer to your partner than ever!
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While the traditional image of spanking is one of punishment, erotic spanking takes a totally different approach. Erotic spanking can be 100% pleasurable and arousing, without a moment of pain. With the techniques you learn in this course, you’ll be able to create intense pleasure for your lover – a kind of pleasure you can’t create any other way!
We show you how to use erotic spanking as a fun, intense and highly arousing part of sex. We recommend that you NEVER spank your lover out of anger. Spanking can be like a form of intense massage – each spank carefully placed and timed for maximum pleasure.
Many people hold back from rough sex out of fear that they will hurt their lover. Meanwhile, so many people crave rougher sex! The solution? Learn how to have rougher sex and create intense sensations through skills like erotic spanking!
The truth is, it is easy to go too far too fast and hurt your partner. This causes breakdown of trust and the build up of resentment – and no one wants that!
With our techniques, you will learn how to build up slowly so your lover’s body has time to release endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers. The bonus? Endorphins also create erotic euphoria, leaving your partner glowing and literally high on pleasure!
Erotic spanking can be a hot, exciting and fulfilling addition to your sex life. It can also be an erotic disaster if you don’t have the right skills.
If you want to explore the thrills of erotic spanking without jeopardizing your relationship, this course is for you!
If the kinkiness of spanking turns you on, great. But don’t let the idea that spanking is perverted get in your way! The truth is, everyone enjoys a little spanking now and then! It might be a full erotic spanking session or just a well placed slap on the ass during sex.
Spanking feels good because of the way your body is designed. Spanking relaxes tension in the big muscles of the butt (like a really good massage!) and floods your genitals with fresh blood flow, creating lots of arousal. We show you how to maximize the pleasure of spanking so you can give your partner an out-of-this-world erotic experience. Get ready to unleash way more pleasure than you thought possible!
The Normal Bar is a New York Times bestseller based on the most extensive survey of romantic relationships ever conducted to date (over 70,000 people took the survey!) In their research they found that 86% of people are intrigued by the prospect of having some kind of kinky sex – 78% women and 94% men. So although we all may think spanking is a little kinky and out of the ordinary, in fact the vast majority of people are curious about it.
Spanking is an advanced sexual skill. Get it right, and you can unleash incredible amounts of pleasure, arousal and euphoria. But if you spank without skill, you’ll just piss off your partner and risk hurting the one you love.
This course brings together our thousands of hours of professional training in massage and sex education, along with years of personal experience in the kink and BDSM community. Our techniques are based on the natural design of the human body – every technique takes into account how the body responds to intense stimulation. We show you how to create peak experiences of arousal, rather than painful and unpleasant stimulation. We guide you in mastering erotic spanking so you can be confident and enjoy the experience fully.
This is the most comprehensive course on erotic spanking ever – get ready to earn your master’s degree in erotic spanking!
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On this special edition of Speaking of Sex, we present Part One of our audio miniseries, The Art of Erotic Spanking. This podcast miniseries is the companion to our new video guide, The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Erotic Spanking.
Erotic spanking can be a hot, fulfilling addition to your sex life. This episode explores the Top Ten Reasons to Love Erotic Spanking: from the physical pleasures of spanking to the emotional vulnerability of sharing spanking with your lover.
You may be thinking that erotic spanking isn’t for you. In our culture we often think about spanking as a form of BDSM, punishment or something only “kinky” people do. But erotic spanking can be a pleasurable experience for everyone. It can range from a gentle form of massage to an intense, rough erotic experience. Approached as a form of erotic stimulation, erotic spanking makes sense as an addition to your sex life to expand sensations, increase intimacy and elevate your sex life.
Check out The Art of Erotic Spanking for the complete audio series. Or, subscribe on iTunes!

In this podcast series, we have in depth conversations about the art of erotic spanking.
When you are ready to master the skills of erotic spanking, enroll in our online course, Erotic Spanking Mastery
Part One: Top 10 Reasons To Love Erotic Spanking
Part Two: How To Make Erotic Spanking Fantasies Your Reality!
Part Three: Sex & Spanking: How To Make Spanking An Erotic Experience
Part Four: Intense Spankings: Pain & Pleasure, Erotic Euphoria, and Emotional Catharsis
Part Five: Erotic Spanking Communication: How To Communicate Before, During and After a Spanking
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All sex therapists and sex educators agree: communication is everything! But how do you actually communicate for better sex? In this episode we dive into how to communicate with your lover for maximum pleasure. We cover communication before, during and after an erotic spanking experience.
Before a spanking, it is all about communicating about exactly what kind of spanking you want. We cover this in depth in Part 2 of this Art of Erotic Spanking podcast series, so be sure to check that out for a complete guide on getting the erotic spanking you desire. In this episode we guide you in maximizing communication before a spanking, and how to time your negotiations so your erotic spanking can still feel spontaneous.
Communicating during a spanking is both verbal and non-verbal. Discover how to set safewords so you can go deep into your erotic spanking experience while having a clear way to slow down or stop the spanking if you need to. We share how to express yourself with your body language, noise and breath so you can communicate with and without words during your erotic spanking!
Communicating after a spanking will allow you to make your sex life better and better. We share questions to ask your lover after a spanking to learn what worked best and what could be better next time!
Clear communication is the difference between a mediocre spanking experience and making erotic spanking a hot, fulfilling part of your sex life. This episode provides essential communication techniques so you can fully enjoy the pleasures of erotic spanking.