Pleasure Mechanics

Does Penis Size Matter?

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Does Penis Size Matter?

Is my penis too big? Is my penis too small? My penis is curved, is that normal? How can I make my penis bigger? Help my penis is shrinking!

These are just some of the emails we get every single day. Men have so much anxiety about their penis size, shape and appearance – and all of that anxiety creates a big distraction from the real goal of becoming a better lover and experiencing more pleasure.

In this episode, we tackle the penis size question from many angles, addressing all the questions that men worry about when it comes to their penis size.

If you’ve ever had a worry about penis size, this is a must-listen episode!

More Episodes of the Speaking of Sex Podcast

Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

Foreplay Mastery Course

Couples Massage Mastery Course

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Sharing Your Desires With A Defensive Partner

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Sharing Your Desires With a Defensive Partner

Sometimes, spicing things up in a long term relationship isn’t so easy.

What happens when your requests to try something new in the bedroom are met with hostility and anger?

In this episode, we offer some advice to a listener who wants to try new things and improve her sex life, but when she asks for what she wants her husband becomes defensive.

We suggest some erotic communication aikido to transform the situation into an opportunity for more connection and intimacy, while keeping her own boundaries intact and respecting her needs and desires.

Sex Toys and Tools

There are hundreds of high quality sex toys and tools available to experiment with.

Toys can help you create more pleasure, both solo and with your lover.

These vibrators, dildos, butt toys and prostate toys can help you stimulate new parts of your sexual anatomy, experience a wider range of sensations and play with sexuality in new ways.

Check out sites like SheVibe.com to find extensive buyer’s guides for toys that add more fun and variety to your sex life.

But remember – toys are supplements to high-quality touch, not a replacement for learning sexual techniques!

The Pleasure Mechanics Dos and Don’ts When Using Sex Toys and Tools

DO purchase toys from a reputable company that selects products based on quality and craftsmanship

DON’T purchase sex toys that are intended as “gag gifts” or “novelties”

DO spend time thinking about what kinds of sensation you want more of, and buy toys that will enhance your experience

DON’T buy toys just because they look good – ultimately, you want a toy collection that will help you have better sex, not pretty accessories.

DON’T buy toys on Amazon! The site is full of cheap knock-offs and the site doesn’t control quality. Buy from a site like SheVibe.com instead and you’ll get the real deal.

DO start small when purchasing dildos, butt plugs or anything insertable – you can always get larger sizes and work your way up

DO buy high-quality silicone toys if your budget permits. Silicone is smoother and healthier for your body than latex or vinyl.

DO consider glass dildos and wands – they won’t break and can provide a nice, weighty, smooth surface.

Where To Find Quality Sex Toys

We don’t sell sex toys – but our friends do!

SheVibe.com

A Few of our Favorite Pleasure Tools and Toys!

★ This stainless steel toy is a pound and a half of pure pleasure. One of our all time favorites – if you like the feeling of nice solid weight inside, you’ll love this tool.

★ Have you ever used a glass toy? It is NOT as scary as it first sounds. The smooth weight of the glass can feel amazing, they are beautiful works of art AND you can heat them up or cool them down to play with the sensations of temperature. Check out some beautiful glass toys here. 

★ If you haven’t tried a cock ring before, you’ve GOT to try one – here is a simple one for under $10 that just might delight you.

This page may contain affiliate links, allowing our friends in the sex toy biz to support PleasureMechanics.com. We only write about and link to products that we have personally reviewed and would use ourselves! For men’s sex toys, we work with fabulous male testers and our expertise of the male body! 

Am I Addicted to My Vibrator?

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Am I Addicted To My Vibrator?

Can you get addicted to your vibrator?

Do vibrators cause numbness and desensitization of the clitoris or other sensitive tissues?

We tackle this tricky topic as we answer the question of a woman who can’t seem to orgasm without her vibrator.

We offer tips and strategies to regain sensitivity and learn how to achieve orgasm from different kinds of stimulation.

Hooked on the Hitachi Magic Wand? You aren’t alone, and there is a way to unplug and gain more sensitivity!

Pleasure tools and sex toys are great – but if you want strategies for developing new pleasure pathways and sensitizing your body to new kinds of touch, here is some guidance!