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Orgasm

Orgasms get a LOT of attention in the world of sexuality and there are a ton of myths and misunderstandings about orgasms that prevent us from fully experiencing pleasure, connection and climax.

Orgasm is a specific event in the body: a release of accumulated sexual arousal, marked by involuntary contractions of the pelvic muscles and a hormonal cascade from excitement to enjoyment.

Orgasm is a brain event, not a genital event. This is essential for understanding that orgasm can be experienced from ANY kind of stimulation that produces arousal.

All bodies can experience one or more orgasms in any given sexual event, with or without ejaculation. Most people experience a building of sexual excitement towards a threshold, and a “point of inevitability” at which orgasm is imminent.

Orgasms can range from mild to wild, quick to long lasting, serene to bestial.

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Speaking Of Sex Episodes About Orgasm

Here are a few of our most popular podcast episodes about orgasm:

Fisting

Fisting is the sexual practice of penetrating the vagina or anus with the entire hand.

The fist is never inserted all at once. Penetration begins with just one or two fingers, and additional fingers are introduced one at a time as arousal builds. Most people only like to be fisted while highly aroused. Fisting enthusiasts enjoy the sensation of fullness, expansion and pressure.

Everyone’s body is differently proportioned, so some people are able to enjoy these sensations with much less penetration. Other people enjoy two fists at once, no problem. Only you can discover what kind of penetration your specific body will enjoy. Start small and work your way up!

Many worry that large penetration will stretch out their orifice. This is a myth – with proper technique, the slow stretch of the muscles and flesh to accommodate large penetration can assist with relaxing tension and strengthening the pelvic muscles. Penetration of any kind feels best when approached without an agenda, focused on the pleasure of the body being penetrated.

Fisting is an advanced skill that can create very intense erotic sensations. Master the fundamental erotic skills of fingering first to insure you experience maximum pleasure as you explore the art of fisting.

Listen to our free podcast episode on How To Fist by clicking here.

Couples Massage

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Couples Massage shouldn’t be a luxury experience in a spa – instead, couples massage can be the foundation of every sexual relationship.

We believe every couple can learn to share massage in the comfort of their own home – exchanging relaxing, satisfying touch any time they wish. Our Couples Massage Mastery course is designed to teach you how to share massage in the comfort of your own home, no special equipment needed.

Imagine the luxury of receiving skilled, confident touch from your lover. In just a few minutes, you can learn the secrets of professional massage therapists so you can exchange high quality touch, relax chronic constriction and create the full body relaxation that only massage can create!

If you want to learn just one skill to bring way more pleasure into your life, start with couples massage!

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Rimming

What is Rimming?

Rimming, also known as Anal-Oral Sex or Analingus, is the sexual act of pleasuring the anus with the lips, mouth and tongue. Men and women of all sexual orientations can enjoy this sex act. Analingus is a high risk activity for parasites and bacterial infections. A barrier method can be used to reduce the risk of transmission.

Some people enjoy the taboo of analingus, others enjoy the intense intimacy of the act. For the recipient, oral stimulation of the highly sensitive area can be highly erotic, especially when paired with genital stimulation.

For most people, anal stimulation with fingers is the best place to start exploring anal play. Once you are totally comfortable with giving (and/or) receiving anal touch with fingers, more advanced practices such as rimming can be explored.

Anal Beads

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Anal beads are a type of sex toy used by both men and women for anal pleasure. A series of progressively larger balls are inserted in the anus and then removed. People enjoy the sensation of the anal sphincters opening and closing around the smooth balls, and the gradient of sizes allows for a variety of intensity of penetration. The best anal beads are made of smooth, washable material such as silicone. For safety make sure you can sterilize your toys, and remember that all anal toys should have a wide flared base.

This modern take on the classic anal beads sex toy style is called the Flexi Felix from Fun Factory. It is a delightful toy for beginners, who can use just a single bead for gentle penetration or for more advanced players who can work their way up to the whole chain of beads. This toy is made of easy to wash, soft flexible silicone.

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