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Playing With Penetration Part 3: Fisting And Big Penetration

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Many people crave big penetration, fisting, double penetration and other forms of being “filled up” and yet often these desires go unexplored due to shame, fear or lack of knowledge and know-how.

In this podcast episode we dive deeper into our Playing With Penetration Series and discuss big penetration, fisting and other forms of maximum capacity play. We discuss how to approach this thrilling erotic experience – slowly, safely and with all the patience, reverence and care such an extreme act deserves.

Big thanks to erotic educator Ro Rose for their contribution to this week’s episode. If you would like to share your voice and wisdom with the Pleasure Mechanics community, you can record us a voicemail here.

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Playing With Penetration Part 2: Internal Stimulation

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There is so much more to penetration than the in and out stroke we all know all too well. In this rousing episode we explore all the ways to pleasure and play internally during penetration. From techniques to create all new ranges of sensation to the emotional experience of deep penetration, this episode opens up the conversation on how to have more pleasurable and profound penetrative play.

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Playing With Penetration: Graceful Penetration & Active Receiving

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Penetration is amongst many people’s favorite erotic acts, but also one that has been severely limited and disrespected by the historical scripts of intercourse. There is SO much more possible beyond repetitive in-and-out intercourse.

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Many people long for more passionate, playful and orgasmic penetration, both solo and partnered. Many people want to feel more emotional and intimate connection during penetration, but find themselves feeling distant or disconnected.

In this episode we start a conversation about getting more playful with penetration by focusing on Graceful Penetration and Active Receiving, two game-changing frameworks that transform how you can experience penetration and penetrative sex.

Graceful Penetration invites us to bring more attention and reverence to the act of penetrating the body, especially focusing on that first moment of penetration as an act of consent, respect and agency.

Active Receiving reminds us that the receptive body and hole are far from passive and invites us to bring more attention and focus to the act of receiving. We explore several techniques and practices to stay more present, active and engaged while receiving penetration.

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Sexological Bodywork With The Pleasure Mechanics Interview

In this rich conversation with sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger, host of Sluts and Scholars podcast, we share about the core of all we do here at Pleasure Mechanics : creating resources so you can explore and optimize your own embodied pleasure, sexuality and intimate relationships. We talk about the roots of our work in Sexological Bodywork, how Chris came to pioneer this field and how Chris and Charlotte met through their shared devotion to pleasure, touch and loving care.

Thanks to Sluts and Scholars for hosting this conversation!

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The Masturbatory Assist

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The Masturbatory Assist is a game changing strategy that unlocks way more pleasure, intimacy and shared joy in relationships. In this free podcast episode we explore how you can use the Masturbatory Assist to create more closeness in long term relationships, long distance relationships, and relationships with “mismatched libidos” or when one partner is not available for partnered play.

When one partner is horny and the other is not, the Masturbatory Assist creates an option beyond rejection or sex out of obligation, by inviting the lower-interest or lower-energy partner to add some spark to the fire. From enthusiastic permission giving to full body massage, from dirty talk to romantic eye contact, there are countless ways to adopt the attitude of The Masturbatory Assist and discover what more is possible when one of you chooses to lend a helping hand.

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The Masturbatory Assist is, to the best of our knowledge, a term coined by Dan Savage, long time columnist of SavageLove and host of the Savage LoveCast. We are grateful for his pioneering the field of sex advice journalism.