Pleasure Mechanics

  • Start Here
  • Podcast
  • Sessions
  • Online Courses
  • Index

Consent

All great sex has one thing in common: it is entirely consensual. Consent means fully participating in the sex you are having, without any pressure or coercion. Hopefully, consent is enthusiastic and passionate. If you have any doubts that your erotic partner is not fully consenting to the sex you are having, take a moment to check in or stop what you are doing!

Speaking of Sex Podcast Episodes About Consent:

  • Before Pleasure, Comes Safety
  • Taking Turns In Bed: How To Practice Giving and Receiving Pleasure
  • Sex Out Of Obligation
  • Explicit Monogamy Agreements

Here are some great resources about erotic consent:

  • Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin
  • The Consent Post by Elena Kate on Rad Sex: Radical Sex Education for Everyone
  • Driver’s Ed for the Sexual Superhighway: Navigating Consent by Heather Corinna on Scarleteen
  • What is Consent Anyway? on Self Care After Rape
  • Consent Is Sexy on UGA Student Affairs, University Health Center
  • Step Up Your Game on The Consensual Project
  • Sexual Assault Prevention and Response at Reed on Reed College
  • Casual…Cool? Making Choices About Casual Sex by Samantha Benac and Heather Corinna on Scarleteen
  • Intimacy: The Whys, Hows, How-Nots, and So-Nots by Heather Corinna on Scarleteen
  • Consent Culture by Cliff on The Pervocracy
  • Practicing Consent in Our Day to Day Lives on Self Care After Rape

Videos To Prompt Conversations About Consent

 

Sexual Superhero Skills Revealed!

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Tune in on: Spotify | RSS

Sexual Superhero Skills Revealed!What if you could take a crash course in becoming a better lover? What if, by investing a few evenings to pleasurable practice you could gain confidence, skill and swagger? And what if becoming better in bed was an effortless side effect of your investment?

Here’s the deal. Our Couples Massage Mastery course reveals everything you need to know to exchange quality massage at home anytime you choose.

You’ll learn how to give awesome backrubs and amazing foot massage. You’ll master full body massage, which you can use for relaxation or foreplay. But the surprising side effect of learning massage? You’ll become a better lover.

We know this is true because we have seen it work in the hundreds of couples we have instructed in massage. They all report the same phenomenon. When you learn massage, you level up in the bedroom. Here’s why.

Here are just a few of the sexual superhero skills you’ll pick up as you learn massage:

You’ll discover how to:

  • Communicate effectively about what you want
  • Listen to your lover’s non-verbal cues so you can give them more pleasure
  • Pay attention to pleasure in your body and overcome distraction
  • Relax while getting aroused, the secret to more profound sexual pleasure
  • Awaken full body arousal so you can have bigger orgasms

As if sharing the pleasures of massage weren’t enough, right? Beyond the pleasure and relaxation of full body massage, get ready to see what learning massage can do to your love life! Tune in to this week’s podcast to discover more about how learning massage makes you better in bed.

Sensual Dance Playlist

When our YouTube account was deleted (after over 10 million views of our educational talks, we got censored!) we also lost our playlists, and have chosen not to rebuild them. 

Have fun finding music that makes YOU feel good as you move! 

For more about dancing as a Pleasure Practice, join our membership area The Pleasure Pod and get access to our Pleasure Practices Library!

 

How To Talk Dirty

Want to know how to activate your voice in bed? How to talk dirty without feeling like a fraud? Here is our step-by-step guide to finding your voice and learning how to talk dirty, in  your own authentic way!

UPDATE: In Jan 2018, YouTube removed our entire channel overnight, with no warnings, explanation or recourse. We lost thousands of hours of our work to sexual censorship.

Please be sure to enroll in our free course, The Erotic Essentials, so you can access our best sex advice, strategies and techniques – on our own platform, away from the constant censorship of social media platforms. Thank you!

Outdoor Sex Without Getting Caught!

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Tune in on: Spotify | RSS

Outdoor Sex Without Getting Caught

Do you fantasize about having sex outdoors? If so, you are not alone! Outdoor sex is one of the most common fantasies. But most people never actually do it, because they worry about getting caught.

With good reason – getting caught having sex in public can lead to felony charges and being charged as a sex criminal, and there is nothing sexy about that!

In this free podcast, we share our best strategies on how to enjoy sex outdoors while minimizing the risk of getting caught. We share no-risk and low-risk ideas that will allow you to enjoy the eroticism of outdoor sex without all the worry!

From sex in a rainstorm to tips for keeping sex on the beach sand-free, we cover a ton of strategies for anyone who has ever fantasized about outdoor sex!

  • « Previous Page
  • 1
  • …
  • 18
  • 19
  • 20
  • 21
  • 22
  • …
  • 27
  • Next Page »
  • About Us
  • Speaking of Sex Podcast
  • Online Courses
  • Affiliate Program

Return to top of page