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Pegging and Prostate Play

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Pegging is when a female wears a strap-on dildo to anally penetrate a man. The term “pegging” was coined by Dan Savage’s audience. Previously, terms like “bend over boyfriend” were used to describe the same act.

There is nothing new about pegging. Versions of strap-on dildos have been depicted in erotic art for thousands of years! In recent years, however, more men are coming out about their desire for anal penetration. As more men openly discuss the pleasures of pegging, it gives other men permission to explore this sex act and discover just how orgasmic it can be.

Pegging and prostate stimulation go hand in hand. Before you go all the way with pegging, it is essential to explore anal penetration with fingers and small toys. Fingers are the best tools for anal penetration and prostate stimulation.

Many men report that prostate stimulation leads to the strongest, most intense orgasms they have ever experienced. In this interview with Cooper S. Beckett, he describes his first prostate orgasm, and experience he says totally changed his sex life forever! Cooper reports that once you “level up” your orgasms with prostate stimulation, every other orgasm you experience can be more intense.

So if you are curious about pegging and prostate play, tune in to this podcast by hitting the “play” button at the top of this page.

Ready to discover the power of prostate orgasms for yourself? Check out the Prostate Massage Mastery Online Course now!

Cooper is the founder of LifeontheSwingset.com & host of its swinging & polyamory podcast. He speaks and teaches classes on pegging, swinging, polyamory, play parties, and non-monogamy. He has written two books.My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory & a new novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous. Use the code “pleasure” to get 10% off the new book!

You can get his book My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory as a FREE audiobook on Audible.com with your free trial membership. Click here for your FREE audio book!

Prostate Milking

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What Is Prostate Milking?

Prostate milking involves direct stimulation of the prostate gland with the goal of expressing prostatic fluid, with or without orgasm. Prostate milking uses a finger or toy inserted anally to reach the prostate gland, which is then stimulated using a variety of techniques.

Many men report that prostate stimulation leads to the most powerful orgasms of their lives. Yet many men are hesitant to explore prostate milking or massage. Many believe that involving anal stimulation in their sex lives might confuse their sexual orientation. This is simply not true: men of all sexual orientations have the same sexual anatomy and can enjoy erotic stimulation of all kinds. Sexual orientation is determined by who you are attracted to, not what you do in bed!

Will Prostate Milking Get Me Addicted?

Some guys are worried that they’ll get “addicted” or “hooked” to the intense pleasures of prostate milking. While you may experience a peak erotic experience through prostate milking, it won’t ruin other pleasures. Think of a great steak dinner – you may love it once in awhile, but it doesn’t make a great burger any less pleasurable!

How Do I Get Started With Prostate Milking?

Ready to explore prostate stimulation? Check out the Prostate Massage Mastery Online Course to learn everything you need to know in the privacy of your own home!

This episode was recorded in response to the following question, submitted via email.

First, I can’t believe I am about to type this out….

This morning I decided to pleasure myself and add some prostate stimulation to the mix using a little curved glass number in the collection. Do I really need the default ‘butt play’ disclosure of ‘Im not gay’? but damn if it doesn’t feel good.

So this time I decided to fully commit, no ‘just the tip’. I decided to go for it and determine if the legend/myths were real; I already knew it felt good but not to the extent of milking…My experience this morning led me to your site because it was so mind blowing I needed to do more research.

In the milking process the site says you will get a small amount of fluid in the prostate released which would be clear. This did happen to me, HOWEVER, it was feeling so good I abandoned my man parts and focused strictly on the massage; what happened next is the reason for this long question. I reached this climax where clear liquid shot out of my mini me for about 7 or 8 seconds;I couldn’t stop it. It felt friggin insanely awesome at the same time I am freaking out.

after it was over I wasn’t disgusted with myself (I usually am) I was high, euphoric even. In my panic I am grabbing feeling smelling this liquid wondering did I piss myself or what! I noticed the clear liquid was slick like a lube, like the pre-cum but not tacky at all, pure watery. I kept smelling my hands and grabbing the sheets and taking huge wiffs and got nothing. I was now intrigued and decided to use it to go at it the old fashion way. My brain has been consumed with this all day! What the heck was all that fluid!

The weird part is I think I mentally broke myself; I don’t think I will ever view me the same way…I thought I knew everything and have done everything when it comes to sex; my wife even says I should have been a sex expert…I loved what happened but am scared that if I do it again, it may become an addiction to where it would be my preferred method of pleasure and I would lose the love of a regular climax.
This is not a joke, I am not a troll, I didn’t make this up…I just wanted to tell someone and at the same time ask WHAT THE FUGGG happened to me. Was it 40 years of buildup…do men squirt lol, I don’t know anymore, I am now questioning everything I thought I knew…the sad part is I can’t tell anyone because no one in my circle is sexually aware HELP

The Art Of The Blowjob

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Oral pleasure is one of the most divisive of intimate acts. Most men want way more, but many women cringe at the thought of it. Couples use it as a bargaining tool. Women use it as a way of avoiding other kinds of intimacy. Men long to be treated to a long and luxurious session of oral pleasure, only to be let down by a “let’s get it over with” attitude.

Perhaps we’ve all been cheated by the story we tell about it. Does it have to be a demeaning, humiliating experience for the woman giving it? What if, instead, it was understood as an act of love, a profound gift of pleasure offered with pride? What if women were encouraged to find the pleasure of giving enjoying the sensation of her lover’s most tender parts in her mouth? What if women could get off on playing with the power dynamics of oral pleasure, feeling as dominant or submissive as she wishes? What if oral pleasure could be an erotic experience for both lovers?

A few of you have probably experienced the joy of finding mutual pleasure in oral. For anyone who is still struggling to figure out how to make this a more enjoyable experience, this week’s podcast is a must-listen.

This week, we interviewed the producer of elegant adult websites that portray oral pleasure with reverence, humor and beauty. We talk about how to reframe the conversation in a way that puts women in the driver’s seat and encourages them to find their own pleasure in giving this most intimate of pleasures. We share strategies for both giver and receiver to maximize pleasure for all involved!

More on oral pleasure, including exclusive bonus tips from Sophie Delancey on The Art of Blowjobs, can be found in the Foreplay Mastery Course

Unleash The Power of Prostate Orgasms

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A listener wants to know if prostate massage is healthy? Sexy? Or both?

We share the incredible benefits of prostate massage in this podcast. Doctors are recommending prostate massage because it is a healthy preventative practice for men’s sexual health.

But the most profound benefits are to your sex life! Men who explore prostate massage report that prostate massage gives them the best orgasms of their life. We cover why prostate orgasms are so intense and how you can integrate prostate massage into your sex life.

Ready to unleash the power of prostate orgasms in YOUR life? Join our online course, Prostate Massage Mastery!

What Is The Prostate?

The prostate is a gland, located just below the bladder and sheathed in the musculature of the pelvic floor, the same muscles that contract during orgasm and ejaculation. The urethra runs from the bladder, directly through the prostate gland and out through the penis. The prostate gland plays a central role in the male sexual system. Within the gland, tiny ducts called acini produce prostatic fluid. This fluid mixes with sperm and fluid from the seminal vesicles to become the male ejaculate.

What Does The Prostate Have To Do With Sex?

The prostate is part of the male sexual system. It was active and involved in every ejaculation you have ever had up to this point, you just may not have been aware of it!

The contractions you feel just before ejaculation, when the muscles deep in your pelvis tense and relax spontaneously, activate the prostate and squeeze fluid from the prostate into the urethra. So the prostate is already part of your sexual experience – by stimulating it directly you are just accessing more pleasure and sensation from this important part of your sexual anatomy.

Some men enjoy direct stimulation of their prostate as a sex act – prostate massage and external prostate stimulation are highly pleasurable acts that men of any orientation can enjoy. Many men who love prostate massage report that they experience more powerful orgasms and more satisfying sex when they include prostate stimulation.

For a complete guide on exploring anal stimulation and prostate massage, check out our best selling online course about prostate massage.

Why Does Prostate Stimulation Feel Good? What Are Prostate Orgasms All About?

Prostate massage and anal play activate a huge part of the male sexual system. First, you ignite all of the nerve endings of the external anal area, which are directly tapped into your arousal system. With internal stimulation you can reach the prostate and the internal root of the penis – which many guys report “makes their cock feel twice as big!”

Does Anal Play Make You Gay?

A lot of straight guys are super interested in anal play and prostate massage – with good reason! These regions are part of EVERY sexual system. What you do in your sex life doesn’t make you straight or gay. Sexual activity (what you do) is not the same as sexual orientation (who you do it with). Straight men all over the world are discovering the power of prostate orgasms – are you next?