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50 Shades of Sexy

Like millions of women worldwide, we loved the story of seduction between Christian and Anastasia. We read E.L. James’ 50 Shades of Grey with an eye for what we can all learn about sex from the steamy pages. Here is a round-up of the Top 50 Things to Learn About Sex from 50 Shades of Grey. We are also covering each topic below in greater depth in a YouTube video.

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Erotic Breast Touch

Question::

I’ve been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and I enjoy our sex life lots. We have a laugh and enjoy ourselves but sometimes he will start to play with my breasts and I’ll push him away and not like it, it’s not that I dislike him playing and I know he’s turned on when he does and it will turn me on too but I sometimes get a fright when he starts doing it randomly and it makes me a little uncomfortable and now he has stopped playing with them altogether recently and so I’m wondering what to do.  Please help x Nikki

Answer:: 

Hey Nikki,

Thanks for being in touch. Tell me more about what you mean by “sometimes get a fright when he starts doing it randomly”
Many women have complex feelings about breast touch – not only because it feels different according to time of the month and how aroused you are, but also because they have been touched so poorly so many times in our life. It often feels like our lovers are touching our breasts for _their_ pleasure rather than to pleasure us! So know that you are not alone.
Often, men go straight for the nipple, which can also be uncomfortable. And once there, they just pinch it!
These are all the reasons we made our video guide on Breast Massage – so lovers can learn a wide range of ways to touch the breasts, warm up before touching the nipple, and stimulate the nipples with more creativity. Perhaps you want to grab a copy and watch it together as a way of having a conversation about how you want your breasts to be touched in the future!
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Chris

Ben Wa Balls

 

Ben Wa (sometimes spelled Ben Wah, or even benwa) balls are a sexual tool used to tone the vaginal muscles and enhance female sexual function. Small balls, often hollow with a weighted ball bearing inside, are inserted and held in the vagina. They can be actively manipulated to stimulate and tone the vaginal walls, or simply worn as a woman goes about her day.

Use of weighted balls, eggs and barbells for vaginal toning dates back hundreds of years and is found across many cultures around the world. Sometimes they are called loveballs, smartballs, vaginal balls or kegel balls.

Traditional Ben Wa balls are loose metal balls, often very small and slippery. These are perectly safe to use but many women find them too small to feel and they can slip out if you stand up. We don’t love the traditional style Ben Wa balls for this reason. Sex toys are going modern and there are much better versions of Ben Wa balls available today!

Our Favorite Ben Wa Ball Style Toys:

SmartBalls by Fun Factory : These bright toys are made of the highest quality silicone, come in single and dual ball models and are perfectly weighted.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This page may contain affiliate links, allowing our friends in the sex toy biz to support PleasureMechanics.com. We only write about and link to products that we have personally reviewed and would use ourselves! For men’s sex toys, we work with fabulous male testers and our expertise of the male body! 

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