Q&A: My boyfriend wants to spank me!

Thanks so much for being in touch, I was especially happy to get your email as I set down for a writing session on our next book – which will be about spanking! so the short answer is, we are working on it! are you on our newsletter to hear about our new projects? Update: The Erotic Spanking Mastery Online Course is now available!

I noticed you asked about making it hot for him – what about making it hot for you? Ideally, that is an essential ingredient for him enjoying the experience, is your pleasure in it. make sure you are into receiving this kind of sensation, and make requests that will make it hot for you. what kind of attitude do you want him to bring to it? is it a “punishment” or just something hot to get you both excited? how hard do you want it? how will you communicate about intensity while you are in the midst of the exploration? I’m finding myself rewriting the book here so I’ll just leave you with those teaser questions, and an invitation – is there anything really specific you want to know – either about communication or technique? if so, just let me know and I’ll try to either send you that section of the book – or write it just for you!

Cheers, and hope you enjoy one another! if you haven’t already, consider checking out our Couples Massage Mastery Online Course, which includes butt massage, which is our favorite form of foreplay and warm-up for erotic spanking!

let me know if I can answer any specifics, and thanks again for checking out our site and being in touch!

cheers

Chris