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What happens when you realize that you are bisexual – after you are already happily married?
In this episode we explore the complex emotional terrain of coming out to yourself as bisexual – when you are already married.
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Male bisexuality is all too often perceived as a halfway step to full gay identity. This myth silences far too many men and creates shame around very real desires. While female sexuality is perceived to be more “fluid” and “flexible” than male sexuality, many men experience some range of bisexual desires.
Male bisexuality can range from full “50/50” bisexual interest in both sex and relationships with men and women, or simply an interest in occasional threesomes with other men. What is essential is that we give men permission to express their bisexuality and explore these desires without shame or guilt.
In this interview with outspoken sex writer and podcaster Cooper S. Beckett, we explore male bisexuality and how we can support men in expressing their authentic sexual desires.
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Cooper S. Beckett is the founder of LifeOnTheSwingset.com and the author two great books about swinging and polyamory. Click here to check out our interview with Cooper about swinging, episode #172.
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A listener writes in wanting to know if her bisexual fantasies means that she is bisexual. If she is bi, does that mean she needs to tell her boyfriend? Should she try to make her bisexual fantasies a reality, or just stay secretly bi curious?
We explore the complexity of sexual desire, how to tell a fantasy from a desire and the ethics of fantasizing during sex with your partner.
We also offer a range of options for exploring bi curious desires without risking your relationship.
Being bi curious doesn’t mean that you are going to cheat on your partner, or that you need to feel guilty about your fantasies. Being bi curious just means you – like all the rest of your fellow humans – are a complex erotic being! Human desire is not simple, so you don’t need to feel upset about your bi curious feelings. You can choose to have a conversation with your lover and share your bi curious fantasies, or keep your fantasies to yourself!
Many people choose to explore their bi curious desires by having a threesome. Threesomes can be a great way to explore same sex desire – or they can be an erotic disaster! If you want to explore the possibility of having a threesome, grab your copy of our book How To Have A Threesome. Don’t even TRY to have a threesome without it!