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Sexual Fitness : Expert Advice

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There is a powerful system of muscles, nerve endings and blood vessels between your legs – and maintaining this system is essential for sexual pleasure and health. On today’s episode we are joined by a special guest, Rachel Gelman, here to answer all of your questions about the relationship between the pelvic floor and great sex.

Rachel is a physical therapist specializing in pelvic floor rehabilitation. She is part of the Pelvic Health & Rehabilitation Center. With locations in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Berkeley, Los Gatos, and Boston, PHRC is the premiere pelvic floor rehabilitation clinic in the country with upwards of 10,000 patients treated per year. Rachel joins us to talk about the relationships between the pelvic floor muscles and sexual function and pleasure.
In this episode we cover:

  • A brief tour of the pelvic floor muscles and how they function in the human body
  • What everyone needs to know about how their pelvic floor affects their sexual performance
  • How strengthening the pelvic muscles improves sexual function
  • The most effective things you can do to take care of their pelvic floor health
  • The lowdown on kegel muscles
  • Can the vagina get “too loose” and is it possible to tighten the vagina for more sexual pleasure?
  • What men need to know about how they can take care of their pelvis and improve or protect their sexual and prostate health

 

Female Masturbation with Jenny Block

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Female Masturbation with Jenny Block

Jenny Block is a sex writer and educator. Her latest book is The Ultimate Guide To Solo Sex, and she has also written books about female orgasm and open marriage. In this podcast episode, she joins us to talk about her new book and the importance of female masturbation for a happy, healthy sex life. Jenny Block opens up with some personal and hilarious stories about her own solo sex adventures – and what happens when you get a thousand women on a cruise ship to have orgasms every day! 

We cover:  

  • Why it is important to actively celebrate and think about female masturbation
  • Why we can’t truly be at peace in our bodies without masturbation.
  • How female masturbation can make women better wives, mothers, friends and global citizens
  • Masturbation requires women to take time and focus solely on their own pleasure – is there something political about this act?
  • Why some women can only reach orgasm in one specific position – and the good things that happen when you break these patterns and diversify the positions and methods used during masturbation.
  • Sexy ways to integrate masturbation into relationships: sexting phone sex, skype sex and more!

Find out more about Jenny Block and her new book, The Ultimate Guide To Solo Sex here!

Pegging and Prostate Play

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Pegging is when a female wears a strap-on dildo to anally penetrate a man. The term “pegging” was coined by Dan Savage’s audience. Previously, terms like “bend over boyfriend” were used to describe the same act.

There is nothing new about pegging. Versions of strap-on dildos have been depicted in erotic art for thousands of years! In recent years, however, more men are coming out about their desire for anal penetration. As more men openly discuss the pleasures of pegging, it gives other men permission to explore this sex act and discover just how orgasmic it can be.

Pegging and prostate stimulation go hand in hand. Before you go all the way with pegging, it is essential to explore anal penetration with fingers and small toys. Fingers are the best tools for anal penetration and prostate stimulation.

Many men report that prostate stimulation leads to the strongest, most intense orgasms they have ever experienced. In this interview with Cooper S. Beckett, he describes his first prostate orgasm, and experience he says totally changed his sex life forever! Cooper reports that once you “level up” your orgasms with prostate stimulation, every other orgasm you experience can be more intense.

So if you are curious about pegging and prostate play, tune in to this podcast by hitting the “play” button at the top of this page.

Ready to discover the power of prostate orgasms for yourself? Check out the Prostate Massage Mastery Online Course now!

Cooper is the founder of LifeontheSwingset.com & host of its swinging & polyamory podcast. He speaks and teaches classes on pegging, swinging, polyamory, play parties, and non-monogamy. He has written two books.My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory & a new novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous. Use the code “pleasure” to get 10% off the new book!

You can get his book My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory as a FREE audiobook on Audible.com with your free trial membership. Click here for your FREE audio book!

Swinging and Ethical Non-Monogamy with Cooper Beckett

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Curious about swinging? Interested in exploring ethical non-monogamy or polyamory? Fascinated by alternative sexual lifestyles? This is a not to be missed episode where we dive deep into the topics of swinging and non-monogamy with our special guest, Cooper Beckett.

Cooper is the founder of LifeontheSwingset.com & host of its swinging & polyamory podcast. He speaks and teaches classes on pegging, swinging, polyamory, play parties, and non-monogamy. He has written two books. My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory & a new novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous. Use the code “pleasure” to get 10% off the new book!

You can get his book My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory as a FREE audiobook on Audible.com with your free trial membership. Click here for your FREE audio book!

In this podcast episode (hit the play button at the top of this page to listen!) we cover:

  • the difference between swinging, ethical non-monogamy and polyamory
  • the first steps towards exploring swinging (without taking off your clothing!)
  • conversations to have with your partner if you are interested in ethical non-monogamy
  • how to find your local swinging community
  • safety while swinging
  • the difference between “full swap” and “soft swap”
  • Cooper’s new novel “A Life Less Monogamous“

Dirty Dates: Rachel Kramer Bussel

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Dirty Dates :: Free Podcast InterviewRachel Kramer Bussel is a powerhouse in the world of erotica and sex journalism. She has edited over 50 anthologies and regularly writes for a wide range of publications and websites, ranging from the Oprah magazine and The New York Times to several sex positive and feminist websites.

Her writing is always provocative, insightful and most of all a pleasure to read. We are thrilled to welcome her onto the show to talk about her new book, Dirty Dates: Erotic Fantasies For Couples. 

We highly recommend erotica as a tool for exploring your erotic imagination.

Erotica audiobooks are another great tool. Grab your FREE audiobook of one of Rachel’s anthologies over at Audible.com by clicking here. You’ll get your first book absolutely free with your new membership. Cancel anytime and keep your first book for life.

Dirty Dates Book

There’s a sensual beauty to these stories that I believe will speak to those who practice kink in their lives and those who don’t, because in some ways the tenderness, the charge, the power shifting back and forth between partners, transcends kink. It speaks to ideals of worship, wonder, adoration—from both sides. Even the most sadistic men and women whose worlds you’re about to enter clearly value those they are asking to give them their bodies, their minds, their words, their beings. They are living out their most vivid fantasies with the person they most cherish. I hope you enjoy their dreams, fantasies and explorations, and that they inspire your own. – Rachel Kramer Bussel, Introduction to Dirty Dates

Learn more about Rachel Kramer Bussel’s work and follow her online here.

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