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Outdoor Sex Without Getting Caught!

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Do you fantasize about having sex outdoors? If so, you are not alone! Outdoor sex is one of the most common fantasies. But most people never actually do it, because they worry about getting caught.

With good reason – getting caught having sex in public can lead to felony charges and being charged as a sex criminal, and there is nothing sexy about that!

In this free podcast, we share our best strategies on how to enjoy sex outdoors while minimizing the risk of getting caught. We share no-risk and low-risk ideas that will allow you to enjoy the eroticism of outdoor sex without all the worry!

From sex in a rainstorm to tips for keeping sex on the beach sand-free, we cover a ton of strategies for anyone who has ever fantasized about outdoor sex!

The Venn Diagram of Desire

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Is it selfish to say “no” to your lover’s sexual requests? What role do healthy boundaries play in a satisfying sex life?

Discover the Venn Diagram of Desire! You have your desires, your lover has their own, and your shared sex life is where the two overlap.

Having different interests and desires doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with your relationship, it simply means you need to find your overlap and choose to go deeper together in your relationship.

In this must-listen episode, we explore how to have a fulfilling sex life – while keeping your integrity intact! Being sexually liberated doesn’t mean doing anything and everything!

True sexual freedom means knowing what your authentic desires are, being willing to have open and honest communication with your lover, and choosing what you honestly want to explore together. Negotiation is an essential skill for a successful relationship – but how do you negotiate while respecting your lover’s desires (even if they turn you off!) How do you stay true to yourself while growing and being open to new experiences?

Sex Positions For Maximum Pleasure

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Want to know which sex positions to explore to heat up your sex life? This podcast discusses why sex positions can make or break your sexual experience. We discuss the five most common sexual positions and how to make them way hotter.

Forget acrobatic sex positions that will leave you uncomfortable and unsatisfied. The best sex positions are the ones where you can stay comfortable long enough to get highly aroused!

A great sex position also allows the more active partner to get good leverage so they can thrust for longer periods of time! Physics has never been so much fun!

Ultimately, a great sex position is one that you enjoy. Factors like height, weight, physical strength, ability and fitness have a lot to do with what sex positions you’ll find pleasurable. So make sure to explore, follow your pleasure and enjoy the process of finding your favorite sex positions! Stop worrying about the 169 acrobatic sex positions you’ve never tried and start focusing on having more fun in the positions you do like!

Nipple Stimulation: DOs and DON’Ts

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Discover how to touch the female breasts and nipples for maximum pleasure.

All too often, the breasts are left out of foreplay because women are sick of their nipples being pinched too roughly without any warm up.

We share strategies on how to touch the breasts with more skill and confidence!

Nipple Stimulation DOs and DON’TS

DO remember that nipple sensitivity changes dramatically from moment to moment!
DON’T ever go straight for the nipple!
DO warm up the entire body, chest and breasts before even thinking about touching her nipples!
DO learn how to touch the entire breasts and nipples with masterful skills!
DON’T pinch the nipples until she is begging for more pressure!
DO learn 5 kinds of nipple stimulation in our Guide to Breast Massage, included in our Foreplay Mastery Course
DO make her feel good about her breasts by complimenting them often!
DON’T ever tease her about her breasts, their size or what they look like!
DON’T suck hard when you are doing nipple stimulation with your mouth (until she is ready!)
DO learn how to practice nipple stimulation on a raspberry (details in the podcast!)
DO pay attention so you can learn what kinds of nipple stimulation she likes best!

Swinging: Should We Try It?

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A listener wrote in wanting to know if we would recommend swinging to create a sense of novelty in his long term relationship. While swinging can be fun for some couples, it only works if both partners are excited about it and enthusiastically participating. Since his wife is reluctant to try swinging, we give him some ideas on how to create novelty and a sense of erotic adventure – while deepening his commitment to his marriage at the same time.

Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

Erotic Spanking Mastery Course

Couples Massage Mastery Course

Esther Perel TED Talk: