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The Missing Link In Your Sex Life

Do you long for more frequent lovemaking?

Do you find yourself too stressed out to get in the mood as often as you’d like?

Do you ache for more intimacy, or simply crave more touch?

If you answered “YES!” to any of these questions, you are not alone.

We hear from thousands of men and women every year, and the most common desire is more frequent, more intimate lovemaking. But for most people, that feels way out of reach.

For most people, it is simply too hard to make the leap from their stressed out every day life to the pleasure zone of arousal as often as they’d like.

So they give up, libidos go on holiday and everyone suffers.

There is a missing link, and we have the solution!

Here’s the secret: the human body NEEDS to relax before it can get aroused. Your body needs a stepping stone from the hustle of your life to the pleasure of intimacy. That link is MASSAGE!

Here is why sharing massage at home with your lover is a total game changer. Massage is the most effective way to relax and connect with your lover, and share the luxury of quality touch. In as little as five minutes you can flip the switch from stress to relaxation, creating full body pleasure and profound intimacy. Massage is also the ultimate foreplay, creating the conditions in the body for higher arousal and better orgasms.

We believe massage is the BEST investment couples can make in for a better love life and healthier relationship.

We’ve brought together all of our couple’s massage guide into one amazing course. Enroll in Couples Massage Mastery and you’ll receive:

22 Stroke-By-Stroke Video Guides, Showing You Effective Massage Techniques
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For most people, the single biggest roadblock to experiencing pleasure is stress. Doctors and sex therapists agree – stress is the number one threat to your sex drive and intimate relationship. Stress damages your health, puts you in a bad mood, and kills your sex drive. Your body physically can not get aroused if you are stressed out!

Stress has a negative effect on both male and female libido: this much is simply fact. The question has become, what do we do about the fact that our stressful lives are one huge turn-off?

The stress of daily life wears at us, literally, causing physical damage to our bodies and creating negativity in our relationships. Stress comes from many sources: work, family, concerns about money, health, global issues and personal worries. It is important to locate the top stressors in your life and begin creating strategies to minimize stress at it’s source.

But let’s face it: we can’t always quit a stressful job or get away from a stressful family situation. So the essential strategy is learning how to cope with stress and minimize it’s effect on your life and health.

There are many great ways to reduce stress: exercise, meditation or prayer, dancing, whatever activities make you feel relaxed and happy.

There are two surefire stress reducers that also serve the dual purpose of strengthening your relationship and bringing you more pleasure: massage and sex.

Massage is one of the best ways to relax, unwind and get rid of stress. If, like most people. you find stress is getting in the way of your sex life, we recommend several 5-10 minute massages a week for maximum stress reduction.

By spending this time with your partner, exchanging massage and relaxing together, you may find that not only are you less stressed out, but you may also be more turned on.

Many couples find that by sharing quality touch, they are more likely to be in the mood for sex, and the sex they have becomes way more exciting. This combination of massage and sex is a surefire way to counteract the damage of stress and live a more healthy, relaxed and pleasurable life.