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There are a lot of common concerns that come up when people start exploring their desire for erotic spanking. In this episode of The Art of Erotic Spanking, we address all the common concerns so you can stop worrying and get on with enjoying the pleasures of erotic spanking.

In this podcast we address all of the most common concerns about exploring erotic spanking, including:

* I was spanked as a child, does that make it wrong to enjoy erotic spanking as an adult?

* I was never spanked as a child, so why do I like erotic spanking?

* I don’t want to hurt my partner! How do I safely explore erotic spanking?

* I was taught to never hit a woman, but my girlfriend wants to be spanked! Is it ok to spank a woman?

* Is my desire to be spanked anti-feminist?

* What if I just want more and more? Will I spin out of control if I start exploring erotic spanking?

Do you have a concern about erotic spanking not covered in this podcast or our video, Guide to Erotic Spanking? You can always Ask Us Anything!

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On this special edition of Speaking of Sex, we present Part One of our audio miniseries, The Art of Erotic Spanking. This podcast miniseries is the companion to our new video guide, The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Erotic Spanking.

Erotic spanking can be a hot, fulfilling addition to your sex life. This episode explores the Top Ten Reasons to Love Erotic Spanking: from the physical pleasures of spanking to the emotional vulnerability of sharing spanking with your lover.

You may be thinking that erotic spanking isn’t for you. In our culture we often think about spanking as a form of BDSM, punishment or something only “kinky” people do. But erotic spanking can be a pleasurable experience for everyone. It can range from a gentle form of massage to an intense, rough erotic experience. Approached as a form of erotic stimulation, erotic spanking makes sense as an addition to your sex life to expand sensations, increase intimacy and elevate your sex life.

Check out The Art of Erotic Spanking for the complete audio series. Or, subscribe on iTunes!

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All sex therapists and sex educators agree: communication is everything! But how do you actually communicate for better sex? In this episode we dive into how to communicate with your lover for maximum pleasure. We cover communication before, during and after an erotic spanking experience.

Before a spanking, it is all about communicating about exactly what kind of spanking you want. We cover this in depth in Part 2 of this Art of Erotic Spanking podcast series, so be sure to check that out for a complete guide on getting the erotic spanking you desire. In this episode we guide you in maximizing communication before a spanking, and how to time your negotiations so your erotic spanking can still feel spontaneous.

Communicating during a spanking is both verbal and non-verbal. Discover how to set safewords so you can go deep into your erotic spanking experience while having a clear way to slow down or stop the spanking if you need to. We share how to express yourself with your body language, noise and breath so you can communicate with and without words during your erotic spanking!

Communicating after a spanking will allow you to make your sex life better and better. We share questions to ask your lover after a spanking to learn what worked best and what could be better next time!

Clear communication is the difference between a mediocre spanking experience and making erotic spanking a hot, fulfilling part of your sex life. This episode provides essential communication techniques so you can fully enjoy the pleasures of erotic spanking.