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Dr. Jack Morin

The late and great Jack Morin was a sex therapist in San Francisco and author of several books including The Erotic Mind. His work offers profound insights into not only what causes relationships to breakdown over time, but also on what makes a successful relationship work. He was one of the first to bring the ideas of positive psychology into the field of sex therapy with frameworks like Peak Erotic Experiences and Core Erotic Themes.

Dr. Jack Morin was one of our biggest advocates, consultants and collaborators as we pioneered the field of somatic sex education with the Sexological Bodywork training in 2003. He was a regular advisor to Joseph Kramer, Ph.D in the development of the training, and worked in collaboration with many of the first generation of Sexological Bodyworkers.

Dr. Jack Morin was also a pioneer and early advocate for anal pleasure and healthy anal sexuality. His book, Anal Pleasure and Health, was a groundbreaking book that countered the homophobic narratives about anal eroticism and invite readers into a healthier relationship with their buttholes! Dr. Jack Morin was a friend and advisor to Chester Mainard, who was Chris’ primary mentor and massage teacher.

Dr. Jack Morin died on June 14, 2013. He was 67. We give thanks to Jack Morin for his legacy of education, advocacy and leadership. We are grateful for your professional generosity and mentorship. Rest In Power and may your words continue to reach generations to come!

Listen in as Dr. Jack Morin addresses one of the first trainings of Sexological Bodywork at The Institute For Advanced Study Of Human Sexuality in San Francisco (since closed) Thanks to Joseph Kramer, Ph.D. for capturing and sharing this talk.

https://youtu.be/akKfmxUBUnY
https://youtu.be/eQ6d963Tvn0

Interviews With The Pleasure Mechanics

We love being guests on podcasts and summits to talk about our devotion to touch, pleasure and erotic embodiment. Here are some of our favorite episodes and past media appearances! If you want to host a conversation with us, please be in touch!



Start With Just One Stroke…

Sometimes, the path to more pleasure, joy and connection starts with just one stroke.

Here are some of our favorite one-stroke erotic touch techniques that we shared on Instagram.

When you are ready for more stroke-by-stroke guidance, you’ll find links to our online courses pre-loaded with discounts.

We guide you, stroke-by-stroke, in mastering full body touch in our online course Couples Massage Mastery

Master the art of erotic touch with us in our bestselling online course Foreplay Mastery

50 Great Questions For More Intimacy

Questions About Growing Up & Learning About Sex

  • Where did you learn about sex when you were a kid?
  • What were you taught about masturbation as a child?
  • Who was one of your first celebrity crushes? What attracted you to them?
  • What is something you believed as a kid that you now know is a myth?
  • What were you taught about love and marriage?
  • How did your family talk about LGBTQ+ issues?
  • Have you ever been to or been in a pride parade?
  • Who was one of the first queer people you met?
  • How did your family deal with conflict?
  • What big emotions were safe in your family? Which were not allowed?

Questions About Sexuality, Culture & Identity

  • What do you think an ideal sex culture would look like?
  • Do you think humans are meant to be monogamous? Why or why not?
  • What words do you use to describe your gender identity and sexual orientation? What other words have you used in your life?
  • What do you think should be included in all sex education for kids? for teens? for adults?

Questions About Love & Relationships

  • What drew you to me when we first met?
  • What values are most important to you in our relationship?
  • What is your love language and what are some examples of how you most feel loved?
  • What is one of your favorite memories of our first few years?
  • What about our relationship are you most grateful for?
  • What would the chapters in The Story Of Us be named?
  • What songs would be on the soundtrack of your life story? our love story?

Questions About Fantasies & Desires

  • How do you think about the difference between Fantasies and Desires?
  • What is one thing you find hot in fantasy but don’t actually want to explore in real life?
  • What is one thing you want to experience more of in real life?
  • What is something you’ve always wanted to try but never had the chance?
  • What is one of your Peak Erotic Experiences?
  • What do you think is one of the hottest scenes in a movie and why?
  • What Do You Want Right Now?

Questions To Ask Before An Erotic Encounter

  • What are you into?
  • Is there anything I can do to make you feel safe?
  • Is there anything in your past you want me to know about?
  • Do we need a safe word?
  • How will we be practicing safe sex?
  • What does this mean to you?
  • Do you want this?

Questions To Ask During An Erotic Encounter

  • Will you tell me when this feels just right?
  • Would you like me to go deeper/slower/faster or is this good?

Questions To Ask After An Erotic Encounter

  • What were your favorite parts?
  • What were you aware of?
  • Did you feel overwhelmed at any point?
  • What was the most exciting moment for you?
  • Was there anything you wanted more of but didn’t ask for?
  • What could have made it even better?

Great questions are just one part of erotic communication – which includes a whole set of skills to tune into your own body, know what you want and how to ask for it!

Because erotic communication is one of the most important skills for sexual fulfillment and healthy relationships, we have put together an interactive resource guide on erotic communication – available here or as part of a Pleasure Pod membership. Membership includes our resource pod on Erotic Communication as just one of the many curated resources for Pleasure Pod Members!

How To Set Erotic Intentions

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Here’s how to set erotic intentions – for the New Year or any time you want an erotic reboot. Intentions are how we align our daily actions with our values and desires. Intentions help us live with integrity and be active creators in our own lives. This episode is a must-listen if you want to feel more active and engaged in creating the erotic life you love.

Ready to engage with more Pleasure Mechanics resources? Join our free online course, The Erotic Essentials, and get started tonight.

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