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Nipple Stimulation and Nipple Toys

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Nipple Stimulation How To

Nipple stimulation can add lots of arousing sensation to erotic play. While women’s nipples tend to get more attention, male nipples can be a powerful erogenous zone as well.

For both men and women, nipple sensitivity ranges dramatically. For some people, the nipples are intensely sensitive. For others, there isn’t much sensation at all. Some people love nipple play at every stage of arousal. For others, nipple stimulation is only pleasurable once they are already aroused. Many other factors can influence how nipple stimulation feels at any given time, so when it comes to nipple stimulation only one thing is true – you must pay attention to how it feels moment to moment.

In this podcast (just hit the play button at the top of the page to start listening!) we cover the basics of nipple play as well as a wide range of toys you can use for more intense nipple stimulation. Tune in to discover the essential rules for nipple play and how to make sure nipple play feels arousing and erotic every time you stimulate the nipples.

Nipple Stimulation Toys

Nipple stimulation toys fall into two major categories: clamps and suction.

Nipple clamps can create a wide range of sensations, from mild to intense. Simple tweezer style nipple clamps can create a mild pinching sensation, but if you want more intense sensations you can use clamps with weights or chains. Check out a full range of nipple clamps by clicking here.

Nipple play can also include sensations created by suction devices. Small cups are used to create a suction sensation around the nipple. Some people even use prolonged, frequent suction to stretch and enlarge the nipples. Check out nipple suction toys by clicking here (NSFW)

You can also use a wide range of sensation toys on the nipples. Try using a massage candle to drip warm wax onto the chest and nipples. Use a vibrator on the nipples and see how that buzz feels on this sensitive area!

Nipple Play

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Nipple Play: How To: Free Podcast Episode The breasts have a high concentration of nerve endings, especially in the nipples. The underside of the nipple has the densest concentration of nerve endings in the entire breast. During arousal, the breasts swell and become more sensitive, and nipples may harden and in some cases grow substantially in size. When fully aroused, some women find that the nipples are so sensitive that even small touches can feel quite intense.

Why Does Nipple Play Feel So Tricky?

Many women experience a spectrum of sensitivity that can change dramatically. Breast sensitivity may change year to year (many women report an increase of sensitivity late in their 20’s and into mid-life), week to week (most women report more sensitive breasts during ovulation and menstruation), and even moment to moment, depending on stimulation, arousal, and even temperature.

To maximize the pleasure potential of the breasts, a woman and her lover must pay attention to the cycles of sensitivity and learn how to respond and adjust nipple play according to just how sensitive they are feeling in any given moment. This kind of awareness is a useful skill to become a better lover overall, and there is no better place to develop this skill than with sensual breast massage. The breasts are a central part of sexual anatomy, and nipple play offers big potential for spiking a woman’s arousal.

Nipple Play Golden Rules

Start with broad, relaxing touch. Touch the entire chest area and her whole body before starting nipple play!
When it comes to nipple play, sometimes less is more. Start with gentle pressure and slowly increase pressure and intensity.
Never go right for the nipple, as tempting as it is. Nipple play is all about building anticipation by approaching the skin around the nipple, then backing away. Tease it out!
Use your fingertips, fingers, lips and tongue to explore nipple play. There is no end to the nuances of sensation you can create. We show you all of our proven techniques in the Foreplay Mastery Course.

Enroll in Foreplay Mastery now to ace the skills of erotic breast stimulation and nipple play.

Nipple Stimulation: DOs and DON’Ts

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Discover how to touch the female breasts and nipples for maximum pleasure.

All too often, the breasts are left out of foreplay because women are sick of their nipples being pinched too roughly without any warm up.

We share strategies on how to touch the breasts with more skill and confidence!

Nipple Stimulation DOs and DON’TS

DO remember that nipple sensitivity changes dramatically from moment to moment!
DON’T ever go straight for the nipple!
DO warm up the entire body, chest and breasts before even thinking about touching her nipples!
DO learn how to touch the entire breasts and nipples with masterful skills!
DON’T pinch the nipples until she is begging for more pressure!
DO learn 5 kinds of nipple stimulation in our Guide to Breast Massage, included in our Foreplay Mastery Course
DO make her feel good about her breasts by complimenting them often!
DON’T ever tease her about her breasts, their size or what they look like!
DON’T suck hard when you are doing nipple stimulation with your mouth (until she is ready!)
DO learn how to practice nipple stimulation on a raspberry (details in the podcast!)
DO pay attention so you can learn what kinds of nipple stimulation she likes best!

The breasts are a central part of a woman’s sexual anatomy, and sensual breast touch can be highly pleasurable. Many women, however, do not include the breasts in their sex play. Most women have experienced sloppy or boring breast touch, and over time have numbed out any potential pleasure of breast touch. Many men are intimidated by touching the breasts, feeling like they don’t do it quite right or giving up after being discouraged by the lack of response from their female lovers.

Master erotic breast stimulation with our video guide, The Pleasure Mechanics Guide To Erotic Breast Massage

Breast Anatomy

The breasts are part of the larger chest area. The breast tissue is a combination of milk glands, fatty tissue, connective tissue and supportive ligaments. The entire breast is situated over and supported by the pectoral muscles. Between the breasts is the sternum bone, which bridges the two sides of the rib cage and protects the lungs and heart. Each breast has a nipple surrounded by the aureola. Nipple color, shape and size vary greatly.

Within the breast, mammary glands are surrounded by protective layers of fatty tissue. Each mammary gland is connected to the nipple by a network of lactiferous ducts. This system is very similar to the roots of a tree, or the network of veins and arteries throughout the body. During nursing, milk is produced and stored in the breast and then flows through this network of glands and through the nipple. While one of the female breasts’ primary function is milk production, women have a relationship with their breasts whether or not they ever nurse, and at all stages of life, not just during child-bearing years.

The health of breast tissue relies on the lymphatic system. Lymph nodes remove excess fluids from bodily tissue, regulate fatty acids, and produce immune cells. Unlike the cardiovascular system, the lymph system has no central pump, and relies on natural motion in the body to move lymph into the concentrations of lymph nodes in the armpit, groin and throat. The breasts often are held still all day in a tight bra, and some medical studies indicate that stagnate lymph is a factor in the development of breast cancer. Proponents of lymphatic massage suggest that manual movement of lymph can assist the body in removing toxins and maintaining lifelong breast health.

The breasts have a high concentration of nerve endings, especially in the nipples. The underside of the nipple has the densest concentration of nerve endings in the entire breast. During arousal, the breasts swell and become more sensitive, and nipples may harden and in some cases grow substantially in size. When fully aroused, some women find that the nipples are so sensitive that even small touches can feel quite intense.

Erotic Breast Touch

Question::

I’ve been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and I enjoy our sex life lots. We have a laugh and enjoy ourselves but sometimes he will start to play with my breasts and I’ll push him away and not like it, it’s not that I dislike him playing and I know he’s turned on when he does and it will turn me on too but I sometimes get a fright when he starts doing it randomly and it makes me a little uncomfortable and now he has stopped playing with them altogether recently and so I’m wondering what to do. Please help x Nikki

Answer::

Hey Nikki,

Thanks for being in touch. Tell me more about what you mean by “sometimes get a fright when he starts doing it randomly”

Many women have complex feelings about breast touch – not only because it feels different according to time of the month and how aroused you are, but also because they have been touched so poorly so many times in our life. It often feels like our lovers are touching our breasts for _their_ pleasure rather than to pleasure us! So know that you are not alone.

Often, men go straight for the nipple, which can also be uncomfortable. And once there, they just pinch it!

These are all the reasons we made our video guide on Breast Massage – so lovers can learn a wide range of ways to touch the breasts, warm up before touching the nipple, and stimulate the nipples with more creativity. Perhaps you want to grab a copy and watch it together as a way of having a conversation about how you want your breasts to be touched in the future!

Cheers,

Chris