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Cliteracy

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Cliteracy: Free Podcast Episode

Cliteracy is an art project designed to educate and inspire people about the majesty of the clitoris. Sophia Wallace combines street art, sculpture, textiles and typography to educate and get people literate about the clitoris.

In a world where attention is scarce having projects that are both educational and entertaining – creating edutainment is often a great way of getting people’s attention.

She made an enormous gold statue of a the structure of the clitoris and set up a clit rodeo, where people rode this massive clit like a bull.

She also collaborated with several rap artists to create a rap battle of the clit vs. the penis.

One of her main projects is making posters of “the 100 natural laws of the clitoris.” She also posts some of this info as street art in New York City as if she was doing an advertising campaign for the clitoris.

Some of the points she is highlighting are around the anatomy of the clitoris. If you listen to our podcast regularly you may already be aware of many of the facts about the clitoris. It is awesome to see that most of the info Wallace is spreading through her art about the clitoris is information we regularly share on our podcasts. You are probably already more cliterate than the average person.

  • Wallace mentions that in 1969 we put the man on the moon and in 1982 we invented the internet but it wasn’t until 1998 that we discovered the full anatomy of the clitoris.
  • If you know the anatomy of the clitoris well it can take just 4 minutes to create orgasm, which is the time many women take to reach orgasm during masturbation.
  • The small button like structure we think of when we think of the clitoris is not the whole deal! It is in fact more like an iceberg, with the tip being what we can see. The internal structure of the clitoris is about as big as the penis and goes deep within the body.
  • The clitoris has 2-3 times the nerve endings of the penis. The clitoris is the anatomical equivalent of the penis. We know that it would be inconceivable to have a sexual experience for men without using the penis, so let us treat the clitoris in the same way and be sure to include it as an essential part of your lovemaking in every sexual encounter.
  • As a visual artist she is also highlighting the shape of the anatomy of the clitoris which is kind of awesome to see, it’s like a wishbone but with bonus parts. The Huffington post made a video where they stopped people on the street to try and identify the penis’s and clitoral anatomy and everyone correctly identified the penis, and only one person out of many was able to identify the clitoris.

Check out the resources below and then have conversations with people in your life about the clitoris, and help make the world a more cliterate place!

Sophia Wallace and The Cliteracy Project

The Huffington Post On Cliteracy

Animated Anatomy Of The Clitoris from The Huffington Post on Vimeo.

Clit vs. Penis: A Rap Battle from The Huffington Post on Vimeo.

The Clit Quiz from The Huffington Post on Vimeo.

 

One Path To Ecstasy

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Ecstasy is a state of total union: union of mind and body, body and spirit, spirit and universe. Sexual ecstasy is a state everyone craves, but feels far out of reach.

Here’s a way to get your body ready to access states of ecstasy (and feel really good in the process!)

Check out the full book: Maps To Ecstasy by Gabrielle Roth

Esther Perel On Preventing Infidelity

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Esther Perel on Preventing Infidelity: Free PodcastEsther Perel’s second TED talk is just as brilliant as her first. In her latest talk, she tackles the common issue of infidelity.

Challenging culture’s assumptions about cheating is just the beginning. She then goes on to question the very nature of infidelity and proposes that it often isn’t really about sex at all. Perhaps cheating is about seeking the feeling of being more “alive” and “awake.”

In this podcast, Charlotte shares some of her favorite excerpts from Esther Perel’s TED talk on infidelity and then challenges you to adopt certain behaviors and attitudes that may prevent cheating in your life, and are surely going to make you feel more alive!

“So if we can divorce, why do we still have affairs? Now, the typical assumption is that if someone cheats, either there’s something wrong in your relationship or wrong with you. But millions of people can’t all be pathological. The logic goes like this: If you have everything you need at home, then there is no need to go looking elsewhere, assuming that there is such a thing as a perfect marriage that will inoculate us against wanderlust. But what if passion has a finite shelf life? What if there are things that even a good relationship can never provide? If even happy people cheat, what is it about?

Affairs are an act of betrayal, and they are also an expression of longing and loss. At the heart of an affair, you will often find a longing and a yearning for an emotional connection, for novelty, for freedom, for autonomy, for sexual intensity, a wish to recapture lost parts of ourselves or an attempt to bring back vitality in the face of loss and tragedy.

When we seek the gaze of another, it isn’t always our partner that we are turning away from, but the person that we have ourselves become. And it isn’t so much that we’re looking for another person, as much as we are looking for another self.

Now, all over the world, there is one word that people who have affairs always tell me. They feel alive.”

Sex Tips For More Orgasmic Intercourse

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Sex Tips For More Orgasmic Intercourse

Before we share our sex tips for more orgasmic intercourse, remember that penis-vagina intercourse (PVI) is just one act amongst many that count as “sex.”

Far too much emphasis is put on intercourse as a measure of a great sex life. We encourage you to explore using your hands and mouth to arouse one another as a central part of your sex life. The truth is, these are the most reliable ways to generate female orgasm!

For complete guidance on mastering these essential sex acts, check out our Foreplay Mastery Course.

We know Penis-Vagina-Intercourse is a big part of sex for lots of people, so let’s look at how to make it more pleasurable for both partners.

Tune into the podcast for a complete discussion of these sex tips. Just hit the “play” button on the top of this page!

Sex Tip #1: Make sure receptive body is ready for penetration

  • Start with lots of full body touch
  • We recommend orgasm or high arousal before penetration (hear more about that here)
  • Before penetration with a penis, be sure to use your fingers to warm the body up! (Master fingering techniques by enrolling in the Foreplay Mastery Course)

Sex Tip #2: Emphasize Clitoral Stimulation

  • 80% of women DO NOT orgasm through intercourse alone.
  • Most people need direct genital stimulation to experience orgasm.
  • Emphasize clitoral / penile / shaft stimulation before AND during intercourse
  • It is often easiest for the receptive partner to stimulate their own genitals once intercourse has started

Sex Tip #3: Master Graceful Penetration

  • The first moment of penetration can be exquisite and sets the tone for the entire session
  • Make sure not to penetrate before she is ready
  • Try holding still and letting her slide onto the penis at her own pace
  • Try holding still outside the entrance and then enter one inch at a time
  • Once in awhile, plunging in will feel good but make sure it is the right moment and she is really aroused before you do!

Sex Tip #4: Use Lube

  • Remember, wetness is not a good indicator of arousal
  • Women can be aroused but not wet, or wet but not aroused
  • Whenever it is needed, use good quality, all natural lube. We recommend the lube from Good Clean Love – use the code “pleasure” at checkout for 33% off your order!

Sex Tip #5: Master Your Movement

  • Remember that jackhammer thrusting is not the only way
  • Explore depths, rhythms, speed
  • Ask her what she wants and pay attention to what she is responding to

Sex Tip #6: Explore (Sensible) Sex Positions

  • Too much emphasis on positions but most are not practical if you want to relax into pleasure
  • What makes a great sex position depends on how your two bodies fit together, so you have to experiment
  • Use pillows under hips, standing on side of bed, use furniture creatively
  • Focus on comfort and the ability to thrust and move easily
  • Take turns being the more active one, let him rest and her do the work once in awhile

Sex Tip #7: How To Last Longer In Bed

  • Focus on making overall sex last longer with foreplay and attention to her pleasure
  • To make intercourse last longer, gain control over your ejaculation. Our complete program to last longer in bed is part of our Foreplay Mastery Course

Sex Tip #8: Explore The Extras

  • Hold still inside, explore her squeezing and releasing pelvic muscles
  • Make and hold eye contact
  • Use full body touch during intercourse to maximize skin to skin contact
  • Adjust your erotic attitude, from sexual scarcity to sexual abundance.
  • Embrace the spiritual side of sex

The Pleasure Mechanics Reveal All!

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The Pleasure Mechanics Reveal All! Podcast Episode

To celebrate episode #100 of the Speaking of Sex Podcast, we decided to share our personal stories about how we came to be sex educators, how we met and why we created PleasureMechanics.com

We both share never before revealed stories from our past, so be sure to tune in for all the intimate details!

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