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This episode explores how to make your erotic spanking fantasies come true!
We guide you in getting specific about what parts of your spanking fantasy you actually want to experience, how to ask for what you want and how to make sure you have a pleasurable spanking experience!
Be sure to check out our online course Erotic Spanking Mastery
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A listener wrote in with a question about porn.
She knows her husband watches porn, and feels threatened by his desire for the women in the videos – especially once she realizes that porn turns HER on too!
What should she do? Watch porn with him? Ask him not to watch porn? Should she share her own turn-on?
We weigh in and talk about the role of porn as visual fantasy and the bottom line: porn will never compare to the pleasure and intimacy of a real relationship!
Here’s the question we received:
Question:: Hi! I am a frequent visitor to your site and have several of your ‘How-to videos. Love them! My questions is about porn. I am in a happy heterosexual marriage and feel threatened by porn. Especially girl on girl. Why does it turn ME on? If it turns me on then all my preconceived notions of porn are then backed up. Meaning that he is turned on by the other women and not me. I do not have the body of a porn star!! Should I watch porn with him and keep my feelings to myself or ask that he not watch??
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Erotic Spanking is one of the best ways to explore intense sensation, erotic power play and, ultimately, erotic euphoria.
In this podcast we go over the Top Ten Reasons To Love Erotic Spanking, and you can bet that some of the reasons will surprise you!
If you have always been curious about erotic spanking, start exploring by listening to this podcast. Then join our Erotic Spanking Mastery Course to master this sexual skill!
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If a straight guy wants to explore anal play, does it make him gay? Bisexual? Or just curious?
We answer a listener’s question to assure her that liking prostate play or anal play doesn’t make a man gay!
We also offer tips and strategies for making their first male anal explorations safe and pleasurable for everyone involved!
Ready to start exploring prostate play with your man? Unleash the power of prostate orgasms with our online course: Prostate Massage Mastery
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A listener wants to know if she can learn to love giving her boyfriend oral sex. We seize the opportunity to offer tips and strategies to make giving blow jobs way more pleasurable!
Many women don’t like giving blowjobs, and no wonder: the way porn depicts blowjobs is not that pleasurable for the woman!
But if we shift the model and learn how to make fellatio into a complete erotic experience, it can be a major turn on for women to give their men so much pleasure with their hands and mouth!
Fellatio can be an incredible part of a fulfilling sex life. But for fellatio to be pleasurable for the giver, it needs to be approached as a gift freely given, rather than a chore to endure.
We cover techniques to make oral sex easier to give, including how to use handjob techniques to stimulate the shaft while focusing oral stimulation on the sensitive head of the penis. To master these skills (and way more!) check out our Foreplay Mastery Course.
We also cover communication techniques so you can make your fellatio uniquely yours by choosing what kind of erotic energy you want to play with, what parts of blowjobs you like and what you want to avoid.
Fellatio can be a loving, joyful expression of pleasure. Learn how to love oral sex!
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Hey Pleasure Mechanics,Thanks for your awesome podcast. My boyfriend and I listen to it together and it has prompted lots of great conversations. He encouraged me to write in with an issue that has been a problem for us for years.Like most guys, he loves blowjobs. The problem is, I don’t love giving him oral sex. I don’t have any problem with the idea of it, and at first it is ok, but after a few minutes I just feel like I am choking and drooling and it is a total turn-off. He knows I don’t like it so he has stopped asking, but I know it is something he wants more of. So my question is, is this something I can learn to love? Any tips for making going down more fun?