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How To Have Anal Sex

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Ready to learn how to have anal sex that is highly arousing, pain-free and profoundly intimate? You are not alone!

Anal stimulation can be a highly pleasurable, intensely orgasmic part of any woman’s sexuality – yet many women fear or resist anal play.

In this episode, you’ll discover how to have safe, pleasurable anal sex.

Most of the time, this is for one of two reasons. Primarily, many women have had painful prior experience with anal stimulation because it was not done with proper technique and care. In addition, many women have shame or fear about this part of the body.

Anal sex is not widely known for bringing women to orgasms – most people think of it as painful or uncomfortable, something to be endured to give the male partner pleasure. This is not what anal has to be like! This handbook reveals the truth about anal: that it can be 100% pleasurable for women, 100% of the time. Anal sex can be wildly erotic and profoundly intimate – and we are here to guide you.

How To Have Anal Sex: Resources

Our online course, Anal Sex Mastery, covers all of the information and techniques you need to explore anal stimulation with your lover. You also get stroke-by-stroke video guides so you can have 100% pleasurable and 100% pain-free anal experiences every time. The book and the video work beautifully together to give you all the information and skills you need to enjoy anal stimulation as part of your sex life. With these resources, you will soon be equipped to experience a lifetime of hot, powerful, intimate and deeply satisfying anal play.

Want to explore anal stimulation for men? Check out our Prostate Massage Mastery course!

Foot Fetish

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Foot fetish is one of the most common fetishes amongst men, and yet the feet are often ignored in our conversations about sexuality.

In this episode we have an intimate conversation with a self-proclaimed foot fetishist who shares explicit details about why feet turn him on, the erotic power of the human foot and how everyone can enjoy more sensation and arousal by including the feet during sex. It becomes clear that, far from an eccentric fetish, the feet are an integral and highly sensitive part of the erotic body, and anyone can learn how to enjoy more pleasure from feet.

From a relaxing foot massage to bondage and kinky stimulation, this episode covers foot sex from every angle.

Resources Mentioned In The Foot Fetish Episode:

The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Foot Massage : part of the Couples Massage Mastery Course

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Penis and Vulva Tattoo

For curious minds, here is an image of Chris’ back tattoos, based on the anatomy of the male and female pelvic floor muscles. Charlotte delights in telling people about Chris’ “penis tattoo” or “tattoo of two assholes” so here they are. Chris got the tattoos out of a deep commitment to the beauty and power of human genital anatomy.

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Sex Culture, Erotica & Fantasy: A Conversation with Rachel Kramer Bussel

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Sex writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel joins us on our podcast, Speaking of Sex, to discuss sex culture, fantasy and the transformational power of erotica.

We believe erotica can be a powerful way to explore your fantasies, discover new desires and inspire your erotic imagination.

More About Rachel Kramer Bussel & Best Sex Writing 2013

She is the editor of over 40 volumes of erotica, and most recently Best Sex Writing 2013.

Best Sex Writing 2013 is a collection of non-fiction essays about sexuality and sex culture. Edited by the prolific sex writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel, this book is a must-read for anyone who is curious about sexuality as a culture force. This book welcomes the reader into dozens of sex communities, subcultures and identities. It will make you think about sexuality in a broader and expanded way, and provoke meaningful conversations.

The essays in this book cover some issues that are both of the moment and perennial issues in sex culture: condoms in porn use, prostitution laws and polyamory. Other chapters reveal the intersection of the highly personal and political forces of sexuality: a submissive shares about her experience as a wife and mother, a gay man allows you inside the cruising zones of anonymous sex, you get to hear about a polyamorous disaster on Fire Island.

If you want to stimulate your largest sex organ – your brain – grab a copy of this book and let yourself explore the spectrum of human sexual experience. You’ll find it as enriching as it is exciting.

Does Penis Size Matter?

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Is my penis too big? Is my penis too small? My penis is curved, is that normal? How can I make my penis bigger? Help my penis is shrinking!

These are just some of the emails we get every single day. Men have so much anxiety about their penis size, shape and appearance – and all of that anxiety creates a big distraction from the real goal of becoming a better lover and experiencing more pleasure.

In this episode, we tackle the penis size question from many angles, addressing all the questions that men worry about when it comes to their penis size.

If you’ve ever had a worry about penis size, this is a must-listen episode!

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Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

Foreplay Mastery Course

Couples Massage Mastery Course

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