Pleasure Mechanics

Playing With Penetration: Graceful Penetration & Active Receiving

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Penetration is amongst many people’s favorite erotic acts, but also one that has been severely limited and disrespected by the historical scripts of intercourse. There is SO much more possible beyond repetitive in-and-out intercourse.

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Many people long for more passionate, playful and orgasmic penetration, both solo and partnered. Many people want to feel more emotional and intimate connection during penetration, but find themselves feeling distant or disconnected.

In this episode we start a conversation about getting more playful with penetration by focusing on Graceful Penetration and Active Receiving, two game-changing frameworks that transform how you can experience penetration and penetrative sex.

Graceful Penetration invites us to bring more attention and reverence to the act of penetrating the body, especially focusing on that first moment of penetration as an act of consent, respect and agency.

Active Receiving reminds us that the receptive body and hole are far from passive and invites us to bring more attention and focus to the act of receiving. We explore several techniques and practices to stay more present, active and engaged while receiving penetration.

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Sexological Bodywork With The Pleasure Mechanics Interview

In this rich conversation with sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger, host of Sluts and Scholars podcast, we share about the core of all we do here at Pleasure Mechanics : creating resources so you can explore and optimize your own embodied pleasure, sexuality and intimate relationships. We talk about the roots of our work in Sexological Bodywork, how Chris came to pioneer this field and how Chris and Charlotte met through their shared devotion to pleasure, touch and loving care.

Thanks to Sluts and Scholars for hosting this conversation!

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The Masturbatory Assist

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The Masturbatory Assist is a game changing strategy that unlocks way more pleasure, intimacy and shared joy in relationships. In this free podcast episode we explore how you can use the Masturbatory Assist to create more closeness in long term relationships, long distance relationships, and relationships with “mismatched libidos” or when one partner is not available for partnered play.

When one partner is horny and the other is not, the Masturbatory Assist creates an option beyond rejection or sex out of obligation, by inviting the lower-interest or lower-energy partner to add some spark to the fire. From enthusiastic permission giving to full body massage, from dirty talk to romantic eye contact, there are countless ways to adopt the attitude of The Masturbatory Assist and discover what more is possible when one of you chooses to lend a helping hand.

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The Masturbatory Assist is, to the best of our knowledge, a term coined by Dan Savage, long time columnist of SavageLove and host of the Savage LoveCast. We are grateful for his pioneering the field of sex advice journalism.

Expanding Erotic Horizons

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If you are bored with sex, stuck in a rut or ready to explore beyond traditional sex scripts, this episode is for you. We explore how to start expanding your erotic horizons, explore your desires, initiate vulnerable conversations and grant yourself permission to try new things, in and out of the bedroom.

Be sure to explore the resources here in the show notes to start exploring in your own life – put our principles into practice and discover what is possible for you, right now.

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Curate Your Erotic Expression

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This podcast episode is an invitation into the lifelong process of curating your erotic expression and exploring your creativity. In this episode we look at erotic expression specifically through the lens of the toys, tools, accessories and costumes we bring into our erotic realms. This includes everything from lingerie and clothing to toys and kink tools, to how we decorate our bedroom and adorn our bodies.

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