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Swinging: Should We Try It?

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A listener wrote in wanting to know if we would recommend swinging to create a sense of novelty in his long term relationship. While swinging can be fun for some couples, it only works if both partners are excited about it and enthusiastically participating. Since his wife is reluctant to try swinging, we give him some ideas on how to create novelty and a sense of erotic adventure – while deepening his commitment to his marriage at the same time.

Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

Erotic Spanking Mastery Course

Couples Massage Mastery Course

Esther Perel TED Talk:

Prostate

What Is The Prostate?

The prostate is a gland, located just below the bladder and sheathed in the musculature of the pelvic floor, the same muscles that contract during orgasm and ejaculation. The urethra runs from the bladder, directly through the prostate gland and out through the penis. The prostate gland plays a central role in the male sexual system. Within the gland, tiny ducts called acini produce prostatic fluid. This fluid mixes with sperm and fluid from the seminal vesicles to become the male ejaculate.

What Does The Prostate Have To Do With Sex?

The prostate is part of the male sexual system. It was active and involved in every ejaculation you have ever had up to this point, you just may not have been aware of it!

The contractions you feel just before ejaculation, when the muscles deep in your pelvis tense and relax spontaneously, activate the prostate and squeeze fluid from the prostate into the urethra. So the prostate is already part of your sexual experience – by stimulating it directly you are just accessing more pleasure and sensation from this important part of your sexual anatomy.

Some men enjoy direct stimulation of their prostate as a sex act – prostate massage and external prostate stimulation are highly pleasurable acts that men of any orientation can enjoy. Many men who love prostate massage report that they experience more powerful orgasms and more satisfying sex when they include prostate stimulation.

For a complete guide on exploring anal stimulation and prostate massage, check out our best selling online course about prostate massage.

Why Does Prostate Stimulation Feel Good? What Are Prostate Orgasms All About?

Prostate massage and anal play activate a huge part of the male sexual system. First, you ignite all of the nerve endings of the external anal area, which are directly tapped into your arousal system. With internal stimulation you can reach the prostate and the internal root of the penis – which many guys report “makes their cock feel twice as big!”

Does Anal Play Make You Gay?

A lot of straight guys are super interested in anal play and prostate massage – with good reason! These regions are part of EVERY sexual system. What you do in your sex life doesn’t make you straight or gay. Sexual activity (what you do) is not the same as sexual orientation (who you do it with). Straight men all over the world are discovering the power of prostate orgasms – are you next?

Speaking of Sex Episodes About Prostate Pleasures

Prostate Massage Book

As the producers of the #1 best selling video on prostate massage in the world, we were asked to pour all of our prostate massage knowledge into an easy-to-read reference book. Here is your how-to manual for erotic prostate stimulation.

This handbook cover all the basic questions about erotic prostate massage: what it is, why men are into it, and how to begin exploring it with your lover. Learn highly pleasurable techniques for external stimulation, internal prostate massage, perineal stimulation and how to combine prostate massage with erotic touch of the penis for a highly arousing experience.

Many men report that prostate stimulation brings them to new sexual heights, as they experience stronger erections, longer periods of arousal, and more intense orgasms. It is the hottest new trend in male sexuality – and if you are reading this, you are probably curious about the pleasure it can offer you.

This handbook is the only book you need to begin integrating the pleasures of prostate massage into the sex life you already enjoy. Complete with information for partners, communication advice and tips for overcoming the most common roadblocks, this handbook provides everything you need to get started exploring the pleasures of prostate massage.

Erotic Spanking Book

Ready to discover the thrills of erotic spanking? This book is your guide to enjoying erotic spanking.

This ebook is a great read to help you get started exploring erotic spanking with your partner. When you are ready to master the skills of erotic spanking, grab our stroke-by-stroke video guide on the Art of Erotic Spanking

Learn how to share the sensual thrills of erotic spanking with your lover. Spanking is one of the most common sexual fantasies for both men and women, with good reason. A great spanking can create intense sexual sensations and offer erotic highs that last for days. Learn how to spank for maximum pleasure and unforgettable erotic thrills.

This book guides you step-by-step in enjoying erotic spankings with your lover. You’ll learn the essential techniques of spanking, including five ways to use your hands to create a wide range of sensations and five hot positions (including one you’ve probably never seen before!) Precise instructions give you a solid foundation to creating both rhythm and variety, the key to an unforgettable sexual spanking experience. Covering the range from tender, loving spankings to rough, dominant spankings, this book is your guide to create a unique sexual experience that meets your specific desires.

Nervous about spanking your lover? Verbal and non-verbal communication techniques will assure you experience the kind of erotic spanking you crave and help you avoid dramatic meltdowns. Learn how to fine-tune your spanking so you can create the intensity you are looking for without hurting or injuring your partner.

Ready to experience the thrills of erotic spanking? Learn how to amp up the intensity of your spankings with delicious sensual additions, find out how to use sex toys during a spanking and how to integrate spanking into your sex life. Discover how to create the intense highs that so many of us crave in our sex lives, and how to take your lover on a sensual journey that melds pleasure and pain into a delicious symphony of sensation.

Painless Anal Sex

We believe anal sex can be 100% pleasurable and 100% pain free. It can be a healthy part of any woman’s sex life!

Want to explore safe, pleasurable anal sex? Get started with our free resource on anal play.