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The Sweet Spot Of Erotic Spanking

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Erotic spanking is an erotic experience like no other: a sweet spot between erotic massage and foreplay, between sex and kink, between tender and rough. In this episode we explore the sweet spot of a great erotic spanking, and how to find that “just right” feeling and give your lover the specific kind of erotic spanking they want. From sensual to rough, tender to tough, erotic spanking is a skill that can unlock so many different feeling states and experiences, making it a foundational erotic skill we can all explore with curiosity.

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Erotic spanking is an effective way to create the sexual intensity you crave. Spanking can take you on a journey of sensation, from the slow melt of a gentle warm up to thrilling spikes of pleasure and orgasmic release. 

Imagine having your lover across your lap, watching as they respond with gasps of pleasure to every touch. See their arousal build as you add more intensity, carefully reading their body language so you know just when they are ready for more. Hear their moans of pleasure as you bring them to a stunning climax, and feel them radiate with erotic euphoria, literally high on pleasure – the pleasure YOU have given them. Now imagine them begging for more. 

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The Power of Percussive Touch

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From gentle affectionate pats to deep impact play, percussive touch is a category of touch and sensation play that is often underexplored and underused. Tap into the power of percussive touch with this free podcast episode from The Pleasure Mechanics.

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Percussion includes patting, tapping, drumming, spanking, slapping, thwacking, pummeling, flogging, paddling and any other kind of erotic touch where you are making sudden impact on one surface with another. The strikes of percussive touch can be reassuring or energizing, comforting or thrilling. Like all erotic touch, how erotic percussion feels is highly dependent on context, intention, desire and arousal.

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The Magic of MicroMassage

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MicroMassage are moments of touch, offered with full presence, care and skill, to create a powerful experience of pleasure and intimate connection.

MicroMassage can be offered in tiny moments throughout the day, weaving little moments of pleasure and relaxation, communication and connection into everyday life. MicroMassage can take be offered in simple moments like while holding hands across a table, driving in the car, sitting on the couch, or just before dozing off. MicroMassage harnesses all the power and pleasure potential of our signature Couples Massage techniques and reminds us that we can create magic in just one moment.

Touch is a love language, and learning massage allows you to become fluent in touch. When you welcome massage skills into your relationship, everyday moments can become opportunities for micro-massage. You can be just hanging out in the kitchen, and your hands will go to your partners shoulders and sink into tense spots. Or you might be watching TV and can hold your partners hand and rub their forearms. Massage just becomes part of how you interact – and all these moments of offering one another relaxing, pleasurable touch add up, create a culture of pleasure in your relationship.

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MicroMassage is a Pleasure Mechanics Pleasure Practice that invites you to bring focus, intention and care to very short moments of touch. Dive into this episode and discover how to unlock the magic of touch in everyday moments.

We both were trained as professional massage therapists in our early 20’s in the San Francisco Bay Area. We both fell in love with massage as a way to create relaxation and pleasure and to release chronic tension. Voracious students, we both began practicing as much as possible – including on our friends and lovers.

This is where we discovered that not only can massage be a powerful therapeutic tool, it is an amazing skill to bring to a love relationship and can create more sexual pleasure and intimacy. But few people have time or inclination to go to massage school – so we started teaching weekend workshops to sold-out crowds and rave reviews. Knowing we wanted to share this experience with as many people as possible, we decided to create online courses sharing the secrets of massage pros to everyone – so that everyone could integrate massage into their relationships, sex life and self-care.

Understanding Sexual Shame

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Understanding Sexual Shame, an interview with Rahim Thawer

In this episode we dive into the complex terrain of sexual shame, and explore coming into a more compassionate relationship with shame. In conversation with therapist, social worker and thought leader Rahim Thawer, we talk about the social experience of shame, the ways we protect and defend against the experience of shame, and how we can create pathways towards more pleasure and joy.

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Cool It Down

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Sometimes instead of heating it up and throwing more gas on the fires of arousal, we need to chill out and cool it down. Cool down is an essential part of the pleasure cycle that we don’t often pay attention to or develop skills around – so sometimes cooling down can feel more like throwing a cold bucket of water on a roaring fire. How do we cool down and yet stay in connection, and keep our embers burning so we can warm it up again when the time is right?

In this podcast episode, we explore cooling down erotic charge in all sorts of moments – after great sex and the afterglow, during sex in moments of overwhelm, when sex needs to be paused or a change is needed, and even relationally when the fires of an intense erotic connection need to be cooled down.

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