Pleasure Mechanics

Prostate Massage Book

As the producers of the #1 best selling video on prostate massage in the world, we were asked to pour all of our prostate massage knowledge into an easy-to-read reference book. Here is your how-to manual for erotic prostate stimulation.

This handbook cover all the basic questions about erotic prostate massage: what it is, why men are into it, and how to begin exploring it with your lover. Learn highly pleasurable techniques for external stimulation, internal prostate massage, perineal stimulation and how to combine prostate massage with erotic touch of the penis for a highly arousing experience.

Many men report that prostate stimulation brings them to new sexual heights, as they experience stronger erections, longer periods of arousal, and more intense orgasms. It is the hottest new trend in male sexuality – and if you are reading this, you are probably curious about the pleasure it can offer you.

This handbook is the only book you need to begin integrating the pleasures of prostate massage into the sex life you already enjoy. Complete with information for partners, communication advice and tips for overcoming the most common roadblocks, this handbook provides everything you need to get started exploring the pleasures of prostate massage.

Is My Boyfriend Gay?

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Is My Boyfriend Gay?

If a straight guy wants to explore anal play, does it make him gay? Bisexual? Or just curious?

We answer a listener’s question to assure her that liking prostate play or anal play doesn’t make a man gay!

We also offer tips and strategies for making their first male anal explorations safe and pleasurable for everyone involved!

Ready to start exploring prostate play with your man? Unleash the power of prostate orgasms with our online course: Prostate Massage Mastery

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few years, and so far everything has been great – in bed and otherwise. Recently, he asked me if I would try anal sex – but not on me, on him! I freaked out a little, but he is telling me that a lot of guys are into it. Is this true? Is my boyfriend gay, or maybe bi?  I don’t get why he would want it. He showed me your website and I thought I’d ask, since apparently you guys are where he got the idea in the first place.

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Prostate Masturbation Techniques

Question:: I had heard about male prostate orgasms and found your site when researching them. Great site, BTW! And I appreciate your weekly newsletter and am looking forward to the podcasts. My wife has downloaded both your sex bucket list and your cunnilingus books and likes them.

After trying several different methods of self stimulation of my prostate (fingers, vibrators, even drum sticks as suggested by another site) I haven’t even come close to an orgasm.

It’s out of the question for my parter to do this for me, so I’m on my own. Any suggestions on how to get the most out of this technique?

Hey there,

So start by reading these two pages on our site and then let me know if you have any specific questions:

http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/prostate-masturbation/

http://www.pleasuremechanics.com/anal-masturbation/

Drumsticks are horrible advice – they could splinter inside you which would be very dangerous. You never want to put anything in your butt that doesn’t have a flared base- unlike the vagina, the rectum doesn’t have an end – and contractions can pull objects up inside you, requiring a hospital visit to retrieve. Only use flared base toys specifically designed for anal play. Have you tried using the Aneros? Most guys report the most satisfaction with regular use of this toy.

It can be very hard to reach your own prostate with your fingers. You may not be reaching it enough to get a lot of sensation. Try more positions to see if you can penetrate deeper! Most guys have best luck on their hands and knees so they can reach around, angle a toy down and meanwhile stroke their cock for maximum arousal. Or, try standing with one foot up on a stool or stair – again, the reach around is a bit easier.

Also, I encourage you to spend more time with external anal stimulation before you go inside – this is where a lot of the pleasure is!

Read the pages above, check out the Aneros and be in touch with any follow up questions. We will probably do a podcast on this topic soon – we get a lot of questions like yours! Stay tuned.

Cheers,

Chris

How To Get More Erotic Prostate Massage

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How To Get More Erotic Prostate Massage

A listener wants to know how to ask his reluctant wife for more prostate massage.

We share strategies for how to communicate about your desire for prostate massage, how to overcome the most common roadblocks that prevent couples from exploring prostate massage, and if all else fails, how to enjoy prostate massage as part of masturbation.

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More About Erotic Prostate Massage

Many men are hesitant to ask their partners for prostate massage. In this podcast, we talk about how to go about asking your lover for such an intimate act. We also cover the three most common roadblocks that prevent couples from enjoying prostate stimulation as part of their sex life.

Ultimately, the prostate is part of the male sexual system and it is normal, natural and healthy to want to explore this part of male sexual pleasure. So if a partner is not willing to participate, men can choose to enjoy prostate stimulation as part of their solo sex life by exploring prostate masturbation. We also discuss options for including prostate stimulation in partnered sex life using prostate toys such as the Aneros during intercourse.

Unleash the power of prostate orgasms with our complete online course, Prostate Massage Mastery

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