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Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics is our weekly podcast where we have candid conversations about sexuality. We offer expert advice and practical strategies so YOU can experience more sexual pleasure!

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Speaking of Sex Podcast Episodes In Chronological Order

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Episode #001: Female Orgasm During Intercourse

Episode #002: Last Longer In Bed

Episode #003: How To Master Cunnilingus

Episode #004: How To Get More Erotic Prostate Massage

Episode #005: Erotic Spanking 101

Episode #006: Wife Doesn’t Want Sex? Here’s What To Do!

Episode #007: How To Share Sexual Fantasies With Your Lover

Episode #008: Help! My Wife Doesn’t Enjoy Sex! (archived)

Episode #009: Am I Addicted To My Vibrator?

Episode #010: How To Have A Threesome

Episode #011: How To Have Multiple Orgasms

Episode #012: Sharing Your Desires With A Defensive Partner

Episode #013: Does Penis Size Matter?

Episode #014: Sex Culture, Erotica & Fantasy: A Conversation With Rachel Kramer Bussel

Episode #015: Confessions of a Foot Fetishist

Episode #016: How To Fist

Episode #017: How To Have Anal Sex

Episode #018: New To BDSM? How To Start Exploring

Episode #019: How To Prolong Foreplay

Episode #020: Female Masturbation Techniques

Episode #021: The Pleasures of Pegging

Episode #022: How To Prevent Cheating

Episode #023: New Ways of Thinking About Sex: A Conversation With Australian Sex Expert Jacqueline Hellyer

Episode #024: Married And Flirting

Episode #025: The Beginner’s Guide to Great Sex

Episode #026: Fellatio! How To Love Going Down

Episode #027: Is My Boyfriend Gay? 

Episode #028: Top 10 Reasons To Love Erotic Spanking

Episode #029: The Facts on Female Ejaculation

Episode #030: Marriage Threatened By Porn

Episode #031: Erotic Spanking – From Fantasy to Reality

Episode #032: Married & Flirting Part 2

Episode #033: Bondage Basics For Better Sex

Episode #034: Bi Curious? Bisexual? Or Just Fantasizing?

Episode #035: Is Porn Sabotaging Your Relationship?

Episode #036: Sexting For Grown Ups

Episode #037: Swinging! Should We Try It? 

Episode #038: Nipple Stimulation DOs and DON’Ts

Episode #039: Sex Positions For Maximum Pleasure

Episode #040: The Venn Diagram of Desire

Episode #041: Outdoor Sex (Without Getting Caught!)

Episode #042: Lesbian Sex Tips For Everybody!

Episode #043: Unleash The Power Of Prostate Orgasms

Episode #044: Shattering The Greatest Sex Myth of All Time

Episode #045: Office Sex In Fantasy and Reality

Episode #046: A Recipe For Orgasmic Intercourse

Episode #047: Is Your Smartphone Ruining Your Sex Life?

Episode #048: Rough Sex – How To Get Started

Episode #049: What Great Lovers & Pro Athletes Have In Common

Episode #050: Sexual Chemistry: Become An Erotic Alchemist

Episode #051: All About Crygasms

Episode #052: Elle Chase (a.k.a. Lady Cheeky) Interview

Episode #053: Hollywood Sex In Your Bed

Episode #054: Overcoming Distraction For Better Sex

Episode #055: How To Explore Erotic Tease and Denial

Episode #056: Sexual Jealousy & Erotic Compersion

Episode #057: How To Have Bad Boy Sex With Your Prince Charming

Episode #058: The Missing Link In Your Sex Life

Episode #059: Help! My Partner Doesn’t Share My Fetish!

Episode #060: Asexuality: The Invisible Orientation

Episode #061: Sexual Superhero Secrets Revealed!

Episode #062: Lube: Everything You Need To Know

Episode #063: Boring Sex? Here Is How To Fix It!

Episode #064: How To Make Her Love Backdoor Play

Episode #065: When Is Masturbation Cheating?

Episode #066: The Importance of Erotic Gratitude

Episode #067: Low Sex Drive In Men? What To Do!

Episode #068: The Secrets of Female Arousal With Sheri Winston

Episode #069: Exploring Aural Pleasure With Rose Caraway

Episode #070: How To Set Erotic Goals

Episode #071: Stop Faking Orgasms: Here’s How

Episode #072: How To Overcome Sexual Shame

Episode #073: Peak Erotic Experiences : What Your Best Sex Ever Reveals

Episode #074: How To Be Romantic

Episode #075: Flirtation, Seduction & Initiation

Episode #076: 10 Tips For Your Best Sex Ever

Episode #077: Are Facials Degrading?

Episode #078: Beginner Rope Bondage With Lee Harrington

Episode #079: The Surprising Science of Sex With Emily Nagoski, Part 1

Episode #080: The Surprising Science of Sex With Emily Nagoski, Part 2

Episode #081: Naughty Sex For Grown Ups

Episode #082: Just The Tip: Exhibitionism and Voyeurism

Episode #083: Joan Price on Senior Sex

Episode #084: Just The Tip: The Erotic As Power

Episode #085: Our Take On Tantra

Episode #086: Just The Tip: The Multi Orgasmic Man

Episode #087: The Naked Truth: How To Get Confident Being Naked

Episode #088: Just The Tip: The Confidence & Orgasm Link

Episode #089: Intense Orgasm : Here’s How

Episode #090: Just The Tip: Warm Sex Strategies

Episode #091: The Art of the Blowjob

Episode #092: Just The Tip: Masturbation Is Natural

Episode #093: How To Make Your Fantasy A Reality

Episode #094: Just The Tip: Effective Erotic Communication

Episode #095: Is Masturbation Healthy?

Episode #096: Just The Tip: Secrets of Great Kissing

Episode #097: Long Distance Relationship Sex For Everyone

Episode #098: Just The Tip: Amanda Palmer On Making Emotional Connections

Episode #099: Dirty Talk: How To Get Started

Episode #100: The Pleasure Mechanics Reveal All!

Episode #101: Sex Tips For More Orgasmic Intercourse

Episode #102: Just The Tip: Esther Perel on Preventing Infidelity

Episode #103: Retired

Episode #104: Just The Tip: One Path To Ecstasy

Episode #105: Wife Spanking: Pleasure or Punishment?

Episode #106: Just The Tip: Cliteracy

Episode #107: Aphrodisiacs: What Really Works?

Episode #108: How To Surrender Into Orgasm

Episode #109: ATM Sex: Your Questions Answered

Episode #110: What Gay Marriage Means For Your Sex Life

Episode #111: Mutual Masturbation

Episode #112: Bonobo Sex and You

Episode #113: 237 Reasons To Have Sex

Episode #114: Spontaneous Sex

Episode #115: Nuru Massage

Episode #116: Need To Feel More Loved? Here’s How

Episode #117: Nipple Play How To

Episode #118: The Origin of Sex Law

Episode #119: The UnSlut Project

Episode #120: Ecstatic Arousal: How To

Episode #121: Fight Free Travel: 5 Tips

Episode #122: Pleasure Anxiety

Episode #123: Mindful Sex

Episode #124: Why Penis Size Matters

Episode #125: Performance Anxiety

Episode #126: Erotic Improv: Make Mistakes Please!

Episode #127: New Paths To Pleasure: Here’s How

Episode #128: Discover Your Sexiest Organ

Episode #129: Ask For What You Want In Bed

Episode #130: Lust, Love and Attachment: Helen Fisher on the Nature of Love

Episode #131: Anti-Porn Vs. Sex Positive Feminism: A Tribute To Candida Royalle

Episode #132: Prohibited Sex

Episode #133: The Kivin Method of Cunnilingus

Episode #134: How To Strip Dance For Yourself

Episode #135: A Billion Wicked Thoughts Part 1

Episode #136: A Billion Wicked Thoughts Part 2

Episode #137: You Are Kinky – Why Everyone Needs To Explore Kinky Sex

Episode #138: Psychopathia Sexualis and You

Episode #139: How To Be Kinky

Episode #140: Erotic Dominance

Episode #141: How We Got Kinky

Episode #142: Sexual Submission

Episode #143: Sexual Fantasies

Episode #144: Pleasure And Pain

Episode #145: Unleash Your Desires

(Episode #146: Retired)

(Episode #147: Retired)

Episode #148: Kick These People Out Of Bed

Episode #149: Dirty Dates: An Interview with Rachel Kramer Bussel

Episode #150: God, Sex and Pleasure (according to a Rabbi!)

Episode #151: Yoni Massage

Episode #152: Urban Tantra on How To Touch

Episode #153: Stop Being So Anal

Episode #154: The Myth Of Spontaneous Sex

Episode #155: Facesitting

Episode #156: The Truth About Men and Sex

Episode #157: Cuddling

Episode #158: An Ode To Chris

Episode #159: Healthy Fucking

Episode #160: Love Sex Again

Episode #161: Ecstasy Is Necessary

Episode #162: Sex During Pregnancy

Episode #163: Fetish Sex

Episode #164: Pelvic Floor Exercises For Better Sex

Episode #165: Kinky Communication With Patrick Califia

Episode #166: Sex and Depression with JoEllen Notte

Episode #167 Has Been Retired

Episode #168: Romantic Sex

Episode #169: Erotic Failure : No Such Thing

Episode #170: Epic Sex : How To Have It

Episode #171: How To Fall Deeper In Love

Episode #172: Swinging & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Cooper S. Beckett

Episode #173: Sexual Fluidity

Episode #174: Rimming: What You Need To Know

Episode #175: The Truth About The Clitoris

Episode #176: How To Move During Sex

Episode #177: The True Source of Desire

Episode #178: How To Fuck

Episode #179: Is Anger Killing Your Sex Life?

Episode #180: How To Give A Handjob

Episode #181: Receiving Erotic Massage: A Man’s Perspective

Episode #182: Cock and Ball Play

Episode #183: Fingering Do’s and Don’ts

Episode #184: Cunnilingus Techniques

Episode #185: Prostate Milking

Episode #186: Sexual Satisfaction

Episode #187: Figging & Botanical Sex

Episode #188: Why Explore Female Domination & Male Submission?

Episode #189: Powerful Submission

Episode #190: Male Bisexuality

Episode #191: The Reromanticizing Exercise

Episode #192: Pegging and Prostate Play

Episode #193: In Sickness and In Health

Episode #194: Female Masturbation with Jenny Block

Episode #195: Sexual Tension & Sexual Frustration

Episode #196: Slow Masturbation from The Joy of Sex

Episode #197: The State of Male Sexuality

Episode #198: Nipple Stimulation & Nipple Toys

Episode #199: Retired

Episode #200: Retired

Episode #201: Body Confidence with Dawn Serra

Episode #202: The Emotional Authenticity of Erotic Touch

Episode #203: Sexual Fitness: Expert Advice

Episode #204 : Irrumatio

Episode #205: Erotic Playfulness with Cyndi Darnell

Episode #206: Arousal Panic

Episode #207: Retired

Episode #208: My Sexual Breakthrough Moment

Episode #209: Erotic Breathing with Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D.

Episode #210: Oral Sex Orgasms – Advanced Techniques

Episode #211: Retired

Episode #212: Cherish, Support, Adventure : Our Relationship Values

Episode #213: Sex Positions – Who Is In Control?

Episode #214: Exploring Erotic Possibilities with Barbara Carrellas

Episode #215: Retired

Episode #216: What’s Your Fetish?

Episode #217: Erotic Communication

Episode #218: Prolonging Intercourse

Episode #219: How To Get High On Sex

Episode #220: Sex and Disability with Andrew Gurza

Episode #221: Retired

Episode #222: Does Being Selfish Make Sex Better? 

Episode #223: Taboo Sexual Fantasies – Where’s The Line?

Episode #224: Sexy Gift Guide

Episode #225: How Guys Can Feel Sexier

Episode #226: Curvy Girl Sex with Elle Chase

Episode #227: Manage Your Turn Ons and Turn Offs

Episode #228: How To Initiate Sex

Episode #229: At The Male Strip Revue

Episode #230: Sex Out Of Obligation

Episode #231: I Want Sex – But Not With My Spouse!

Episode #232: Hookup Culture with Lisa Wade

Episode #233: Orgies, Sex Clubs and Sex Parties

Episode #234: Shedding the Stigma of Genital Herpes

Episode #235: The Erotic Power of Couples Massage (encore of Episode #058)

Episode #236: Sex After Baby

Episode #237: Sex After Baby Part 2: On Being A Sexual Woman And A Mom

Episode #238: First Steps Into Kinky Sex

Episode #239: Three Ways To Have More Fulfilling Sex

Episode #240: Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz

Episode #241: Surrendering Into Orgasm

Episode #242: Building Consent Culture with Kitty Stryker

Episode #243: Playful Sex

Episode #244: Lust Vs. Disgust

Episode #245: The Gender Galaxy

Episode #246: Sex and Social Justice with Aida Manduley

Episode #247: How To Have An Affair With Your Spouse

Episode #248: Kinky Masturbation

Episode #249 : Female Performance Anxiety

Episode #250: The Story of Us

Episode #251: Stress Free Travel Tips

Episode #252: Romantic Summer Sex

Episode #253: Sex In The Great Outdoors

Episode #254: The Peak Erotic Experience Exercise

Episode #255: How To Ask For What You Want

Episode #256: How To Have Spontaneous Sex

Episode #257: Attraction In Long Term Relationships

Episode #258: Retired

Episode #259: Simultaneous Orgasm

Episode #260: Sex Toys For Men

Episode #261: Multiple Orgasms For Every Body

Episode #262: Explicit Monogamy Agreements

Episode #263: Harnessing Jealousy As Erotic Fuel

Episode #264: Break The Rules – Together

Episode #265: Vibrator Nation Interview with Lynn Comella, Ph.D.

Episode #266: Naming Your True Desires

Bonus Episode: Erotic Gift Giving Guide

Episode #267: Sexual Desire: Spontaneous Vs. Responsive

Episode #268: Emotional Generosity

Episode #269: Esther Perel Interview on Sex, Power & Desire

Episode #270: Is Male Sexuality Predatory By Nature?

Episode #271: The Power Of Erotic Intentions

Episode #272: Distracted During Sex? Here’s What To Do! 

Episode #273: Pelvic Floor Pleasure with Dr. UC

Episode #274: It’s More Than Bad Sex

Episode #275: Karen Duffy on Pleasure, Pain and Purpose

Bonus Episode: What Is Mindful Sex?

Episode #276: Mindful Sex for Sexual Wellbeing, Better Orgasms and Deeper Love

Episode #278: Sex Positive Families with Melissa Carnagey

Episode #279: Intimacy Issues

Episode #280: Jealousy, Arousal & Anxiety

Episode #281: Sex Lab!

Episode #282: Stop Asking THIS Question!

Episode #283: Talking Sex With Sex Talk With My Mom Hosts Karen Lee Poter and Cameron Poter

Episode #284: Have A Good Ask In Bed

Episode #285: Emerging Out Of Sexual Hibernation

Episode #286: Writing As Erotic Practice with Jen Cross of Writing Ourselves Whole

Episode #287: Why You Masturbate They Way You Do – A History Lesson

Episode #288: Ending Performance Anxiety with Vanessa Marin

Episode #289: Rethinking Sexual Performance Anxiety

Episode #290: Better Sex Through Mindfulness with Lori Brotto, Ph.D.

Episode #291: The Emily Nagoski Interview Encore Episode

Episode #292: Dual Model Control of Arousal Encore Episode

Episode #293: Transforming Rejection Into Refusal Encore Episode

Episode #294: Get Specific About Your Erotic Desires Encore Episode

Episode #295: Getting Kinky In A Long Term Relationship

Episode #296: Tell Me What You Want: Exploring Sexual Fantasy with Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D.

Episode #297: Surviving Sexless Seasons

Episode #298: Expanding Orgasmic Capacity

Episode 299: How To Enjoy Ethical Porn

Episode 300: Retired

Episode 301: Sex Love Liberation with Ev’yan Whitney

Episode 302: Bisexual…And Already Married

Episode 303: Slow Down For Better Sex

Episode 304: Full Body Orgasms For Every Body

Episode 305: The Path To Female Orgasm with Vanessa Marin

Episode 306: Remaking Manhood Interview with Mark Greene

Episode 307: Joey Soloway on Desire, Freedom and Play

Episode 308: Begging For It

Episode 309: Having Fun With Erotic Roleplaying

Episode 310: Butt Plugs! Who, What, Where, When, Why and How!

Episode 311: Women Get Erections Too! Here’s What You Need To Know

Episode 312: Help! My Partner Won’t Play Along

Episode 313: Cock Worship, Pussy Worship and Reverent Sex

Episode 314: Own Your Arousal

Episode 315: The Resilient Edge of Resistance (A Sexual Superpower Revealed!)

Episode 316: Cannabis, Sex and You – What You Need To Know

Episode 317: With Love, Gratitude and Deep Respect: Closing Out 2018

Episode 318: Esther Perel’s 7 Verbs of Love

Episode 319: Learning Pleasure Through Movement With Jane Clapp

Episode 320: The Emotions of Erectile Dysfunction with Tiffany Anton

Episode 321: Reclaiming Soft Penis Pleasures

Episode 322: Body Kindness with Rebecca Scritchfield – A Sluts and Scholars guest episode

Episode 323: Making Noise During Sex

Episode 324: Explore More With Us!

Episode 325: Exploring Attachment Theory with Aida Manduley

Episode 326: Your Pleasure Constellation

Episode 327: What To Do With Desires Unfulfilled

Episode 328: Expanding Erotic Communication With Stella Harris

Episode 329: Wet and Ready: Debunking Myths About Female Arousal and Wetness

Episode 330: Burnout: The Stress and Sex Connection – An Interview With Emily Nagoski

Episode 331: Too Stressed Out For Sex? Here’s How To Complete The Stress Cycle

Episode 332: Create Your Bedroom Haven

Episode 333: Your Body Is Good Enough

Episode 334: Mindful Masturbation

Episode 335: Mindful Sex For Men With Performance Anxiety

Episode 336: Explore With Curiosity: Attitudes For Kinkier Sex

Episode 337: Learning To Orgasm with Vanessa Marin

Episode 338: Sexual Attitude Adjustments

Episode 339: Not Always In The Mood – Interview With Sarah Hunter Murray

Episode 340: Your Sexuality, Somewhere Over The Rainbow

Episode 341: Opening Up Conversations About Monogamy and Non-Monogamy

Episode 342: What Are You Hungry For? Interview with Dawn Serra

Episode 343: Sex Moves – Harness The Motion Of Your Ocean

Episode 344: Encore Episode: How To Make Oral Sex More Intense

Episode 345: Joseph Kramer Interview Part 1 – The Origin Of Erotic Massage

Episode 346: Joseph Kramer Interview Part 2 – Sharing Erotic Massage With The World

Episode 347: Falling In Love With Erotic Massage

Episode 348: Become A More Satisfied Mama with Dana B Myers

Episode 349: Rethinking Libido Problems

Episode 350: Libido, Lost and Found – An Interview With Vanessa Marin

Episode 351: Desire: The Pleasure Of Wanting

Episode 352: Sexual Frustration

Episode 353: Passionate Transitions with Lucie Fielding

Episode 354: A New Approach To Anal Play

Episode 355: Are There Different Types of Orgasms? G-Spot, A-Spot, P-Spot Orgasms?

Episode 356: Taking Turns In Bed: How To Practice Giving and Receiving Pleasure

Episode 357: Recalibrate Towards Pleasure

Episode 358: Breaking The Hymen Myth

Episode 359: What Is Sexual Freedom? 

Episode 360: What Do You Want?

Episode 361:The 60 Second Pleasure Point Challenge

Episode 362: Savoring: A Foundational Pleasure Practice

Episode 363: The Pleasure Mechanics visit Sex Talk With My Mom

Episode 364: Finding New Pleasure Pathways

Episode 365: How To Be More Romantic

Episode 366: Taking Sexy Back : An Interview with Alexandra Solomon

Episode 367: Fucking Vs. Making Love Encore Episode

Episode 368: Love In The Time Of Corona

Episode 369: Mutual Aid & Generating Care with Aida Manduley, LCSW

Episode 370: Together and Alone: Eroticism During Social Distancing

Episode 371: Desperately Seeking Sensation

Episode 372: Cultivate Your Erotic Context

Episode 373: Turning Towards Pleasure While Living With Pain & Illness

Episode 374: The Key To Pleasure & Connection

Episode 375: Feeling Myself – Discovering Erotic Interoception

Episode 376: Ten Ways To Become A Better Lover

Episode 377: Finding Just Right

Episode 378: Sex, Power & Creating Change

Episode 379: Sex & Power In Marriage

Episode 380: Erotic Game Play – Rules, Roles & Goals

Episode 381: How To Practice Gratitude

Episode 382: Will I Ever Love Sex Again?

Episode 383: How To Set Erotic Intentions

Episode 384: Moving For Pleasure : A Thing Called Movement Guest Episode

Episode 385: Intimate Relationships 101 with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Episode 386: Rethinking Valentines Day

Episode 387: Fantasy Vs. Desire

Episode 388: Before Pleasure Comes Safety

Episode 389: Come As You Are Interview with Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Episode 390: A Sexplanation Documentary

Episode 391: Slay Sexual Shame

Episode 392: Mindful Masturbation Encore Episode

Episode 393: How To Uplevel Your Solo Sex Life

Episode 394: In Graphic Detail: Interview with Meg-John Barker

Episode 395: The Pleasures Of Play

Episode 396: Psychogenic Arousal

Episode 397: Exploring Erotic Thrills

Episode 398: Thrill Vs. Delight

Episode 399: Intense Sex Vs. Extreme Sex

Episode 400: Celebrating 15 years and 400 Episodes

Episode 401: To Orgasm and Beyond!

Episode 402: Afterglow

Episode 403: Keep It Warm (So It Is Easier To Get Hot!)

Episode 404: Sex Toys & Pleasure Tools

Episode 405: Designing The Ultimate Handjob Machine

Episode 406: Managing Trauma Triggers : Interview with Jamila Dawson and August McLaughlin

Episode 407: Glimmers & Sparks: Coming Home To Pleasure

Episode 408: The Power Bottom Playbook

Episode 409: Getting Off Script

Episode 410: Curate Your Erotic Expression

Episode 411: Expanding Erotic Horizons

Episode 412: The Masturbatory Assist

Episode 413: Playing With Penetration Part 1: Graceful Penetration

Episode 414: Playing With Penetration Part 2: Internal Stimulation

Episode 415: Playing With Penetration Part 3: Fisting & Big Penetration

Episode 416: Playing Without Penetration : Fulfilling Sexuality Beyond Intercourse

Episode 417: Erogenous Zone Activation

Episode 418: Igniting Erotic Touch

Episode 419: Troublesome Turn-Ons with Nicoletta Heidegger

Episode 420: Cannabis, Pleasure & Connection with Shango Los

Episode 421: Too Ticklish To Touch?

Episode 422: Ritualizing Romance

Episode 423: Just Hold Me

Episode 424: Cool It Down

Episode 425: Understanding Sexual Shame with Rahim Thawer

Episode 426: The Magic of MicroMassage

Episode 427: The Power of Percussive Touch

Episode 428: The Sweet Spot Of Erotic Spanking

Episode 429: Open Deeply with Kate Loree

Episode 430: Erotic Grief

Episode 431: Developing Sexual Confidence

Episode 432: Perineum Pleasures

Episode 433: Dual Zones of Erotic Stimulation

Episode 434: Beginner’s Erotic Mind

Episode 435: Placement of Erotic Attention

Episode 436: Reclaiming Pleasure with Dr. Holly Richmond

Episode 437: Releasing Judgement

Episode 438: Seeking Sexual Freedom with the Woodhull Freedom Foundation

Episode 439: Coming Out, For Us All

Episode 440: Exploring Your Sexual Orientations

Episode 441: Erotic Pride As An Antidote To Shame

Episode 442: The Us In Uterus

Episode 443: Opening Up To More Connection with the Open Nesters Podcast

Episode 444: D/s Dynamics For All

Episode 445: Asking Questions For Better Sex

Episode 446: Getting The Touch You Want

Episode 447: Butt Stuff, Pleasure Mechanics Style

Episode 448: Erotic Roleplaying for Everybody

Episode 449: Intensifying Sensation Play

Episode 450: Rough Sex

Episode 451: Trust Your Yes

Episode 452: The Neuroscience of Pleasure with Dr. Nan Wise

Episode 453: How To Build A Sex Room On Any Budget

Episode 454: Preventing Premature Penetration

Episode 455: Open To Receiving

Episode 456: Prioritize Your Pleasure

Episode 457: Getting Naked Together

Episode 458: Stretching Into Pleasure

Episode 459: Responsive Kink

Episode 460: Cockwarming, Docking & Engulfment

Episode 461: Navigating Depression In Intimate Relationships with JoEllen Notte

Episode 462: Getting Intimate While Bleeding

Episode 463: MiniKink Scenes To Explore Kinky Sex

Episode 464: Embracing Erotic Eras

Episode 465: I Want More

Episode 466: Making Love As Art

Episode 467: Touch Hunger

Episode 468: Break The Golden Rule

Episode 469: Your Erotic Journey Awaits

Episode 470: Managing Mismatched Kink

Episode 471: Shame Free Sexual Self Care

Episode 472: Savoring Vanilla Sex

Episode 473: Vanilla, With Toppings

Episode 474: Relaxed Receiving

Episode 475: The Erotics of Fear

Episode 476: Making Good Vibrations

Episode 477: Love Every Day with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Episode 478: Sensitive, But Not Delicate

Episode 479: Meet Scarleteen, Sex Ed For The Real World

Episode 480: Whose Panties Are These?

Episode 481: Tend The Tender

Episode 482: Touch To Feel

Episode 483: Come Together with Emily Nagoski

Episode 484: Paths To Lust Mapping Emotional Floorplans with Emily Nagoski

Episode 485: Erotic Praise & Praise Kink

Episode 486: Erotic First Aid

Episode 487: Erotic Touch Activation

Episode 488: Shame Slayers Unite!

Episode 489: Dealing with Drop

Episode 490: Stop Dick Shaming

Episode 491: Eroticize Your Mouth

Episode 492: Beyond Obligatory Oral

Episode 493: Advanced Oral Sex Techniques

Episode 494: Compassionate Care with Dr. Nazanin Moali

Episode 495: Safer Sexier Oral Play with Melanie Cristol

Episode 496: Getting Real About STIs with Dr. Ina Park

Episode 497: Tough and Tender

Episode 498: Responsive Giving

Episode 499: Building Stamina

Episode 500: Rethinking Refractory Myths

Episode 501: Full Body Oral

Episode 502: Bed Chem


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